Thursday, May 31, 2007

so sick

Artist: Ne-yo
Song: So Sick
Album: In My Own Words

mmmm mmm yeah
do do do do do do do-do
ohh yeah

gotta change my answering machine
now that i'm alone
cuz right now it says that we
can't come to the phone
and i know it makes no sense
cuz you walked out the door
but it's the only way i hear your voice anymore
(it's ridiculous)
it's been months
and for some reason i just
(can't get over us)
and i'm stronger then this
(enough is enough)
no more walkin round
with my head down
i'm so over being blue
cryin over you

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

gotta fix that calender i have
that's marked july 15th
because since there's no more you
there's no more anniversary
i'm so fed up with my thoughts of you
and your memory
and how every song reminds me
of what used to be

that's the reason i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

(leave me alone)
leave me alone
(stupid love songs)
dont make me think about her smile
or having my first child
i'm letting go
turning off the radio

cuz i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

said i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tearsso done with wishin you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)
why can't i turn off the radio?

七種會讓自己心碎的錯

一生只愛一次是幸福的,不幸的是,那些被情感傷害了的人們,卻註定不止愛一次。所以,只要你還不想把太多的時間花在失戀的療傷上,那麼你就該審視一下,是不是在愛情這個危險的遊戲裏,曾經為愛對自己犯了“罪”。

第一宗自欺欺人的原諒
原諒就象你錢袋裏的金子,每一次的給予都應該合情合理,否則便成了一種毫無價值的浪費。
記住:背叛不是愛情的唯一殺手,所有的不歡而散不是只發生在某一天。

第二宗沒有原則的寵愛
你是不是非常喜歡他?以至於很多事情都由他說了算?休息日,你興致盎然,想拖他一起去逛街,買一些換季服裝。可是他偏偏不想,硬要坐在家裏看足球。於是乎,你為了討他歡喜,或者是一種潛意識的跟從,你也毅然放棄了自己的計劃,與他一起坐到電視機前。他過生日,你精心挑選了非常有型的一款西服送給他,可是他卻說那太難看,他只喜歡T恤和牛仔。被澆了一頭冷水的你暗暗責怪自己太粗心,居然不知道心愛的人的好惡。第二天悄悄地去商店買到他喜歡的衣飾……
捫心自問:你快樂嗎?也許你覺得能夠和心愛的人在一起,看見他快快樂樂,你也就覺得很開心。可是,這樣的情形,可能短時間不會有不好的感覺,而一旦長久在一起,你就會產生不滿。本來嘛,愛就應該是平等的、相互尊重的。過分地嬌縱對方,會讓他覺得你對他的好都是應該的,反而會不珍惜。相反地,他還會反復地比較,如果有一天你沒有像以前那樣寵他,他會覺得你對他不好,兩人的不合就埋下種子。
記住:不適度的寵愛會讓你們的愛情變了味。

第三宗一廂情願的熱情
你是否也曾有過這樣的信念:相信精誠所至,金石為開。悄悄地記著你們共度的每一個有意義的日子。在相識週年的紀念日裏,精心為他挑選一份禮物,或者苦思冥想一個意味深長的舉動。而他,卻木然地望著你,怎麼也想不起是個什麼樣子的節日。你也曾熱切地邀請他一同出席好友的聚會,想讓更多的朋友知道你們的關係,可他卻淡淡地告訴你,這時他更願意在家裏休息、睡覺……
也許,有一天他真的會為你的熱情付出而感動,但千萬不要相信這是愛情,即使你們會成為戀人、愛人,甚至夫妻。這樣的愛情是非常脆弱的,他相信的僅僅是你愛他,而不是他也同樣愛你。“正是因為她對我好,我才和她結婚。”他往往會這樣說,而當生活裏出現一個他所愛的人,他便會毫不猶豫地將你放在一個從屬的位置。
記住:愛的付出是相互的,它永遠不是一個人快樂一個人委屈。

第四宗變本加厲的嫉妒
嫉妒是所有戀愛男女的特權,是愛的產物。正是因為你在乎他,你才會關注到他身邊的每一個女孩子,悄悄地拿自己與她們比較。嫉妒便由此而生。在路上你看到年輕女孩同你男友熱情地打呼你,你會毫無理由地對那女孩產生反感,於是冷嘲熱諷,甚至拂袖而去。再如,你偶爾在相冊裏發現男友和別人的合影,即便是最普通的姿式,你也會斷然要求他將照片從影集中撤出,甚至撕毀,除非那女孩子的長相實在不可恭維……
雖然說,愛人的心是玻璃做的,情人的眼裏容不下一顆沙子,但過多的干涉,有可能激起對方的逆反心理,對你產生反感。深愛他的你正是親自將他趕出了你的世界,豈不悲哀?也許你倒不是猜疑他,就是想讓他做到只對你一個人好。可是,只要你還沒有喪失理智,你就該知道你永遠不可能是唯一。沒有你,他也會有最愛的女人。所以,放寬心腸,與其花時間來嫉妒,不如兩人好好相待。
記住:正常的嫉妒是可以接受的,甚至可以是你和他之間的調味品,而一旦過分就不好了。

第五宗盲目過分的信任
和嫉妒相比,過度信任也會導致兩人關係的淡化。比如週末,他告訴你,他要在公司加班,不能陪你去看那場你們很久就約好的電影。不用過多的解釋和理由,你完全相信他的話。再比如,他在和你約會的時候,居然在一個電話線上佔了一個多小時,輕聲細語,溫柔非常。問及對方,他對你說是外地的遠房表妹。於是,你也就不再追究…… 這樣的小事情可以有很多。我們說,愛情的基礎在於相互信任,但是信任不等於放任。你一味地不聞不問,導致的結果便是他在不知不覺中離你越來越遠。將來有一天,他突然離你而去,你卻仍然一頭霧水。男人就像你手中的風箏,放得太高太遠,你還不知道是哪一天他離開了你的手。信任是一種理性的行為,它是建立在事實的基礎上的。
記住:只有當你知道事情的前因後果,你才可以作出判斷:相信他,或者不信。

第六宗不合情理的期待
他說,下個月發了薪水,便給你買下那條你看中好久的紫水晶項鏈。於是你美美地想了好幾天。可是發薪的日子到了,他卻告訴你他剛為自己買好了新力的迷你小音響,現在荷包羞澀。自然,你的項鏈也就閉口不提了。他還說,下部美國大片一來,就和你一同前去欣賞,於是你就天天關注報紙上的電影放映消息。誰知,公映沒多久,當你向他提出約請,他卻輕描淡寫地告訴你他已經與單位裏的幾個哥們一起看過了,並不怎麼精彩。一句話,頓時讓你無精打彩……
他總是不斷地給你希望,為你製造一些可以想像的快樂,於是你就開始你的等待。只是你的等待總是沒有結果,因為他總是說得多,做得少。試想一下,這樣的一些小事,他都無法兌現,你又怎麼可以相信他會給你一個未來呢?也許他會找到一些藉口為自己解釋,但很可能將來他也會有冠冕堂皇的理由來放棄對你的承諾。
記住,這樣的人是不值得你期待的,還是像一首歌裏唱的那樣:“有些人你永遠不必等。

第七宗無可奈何的忍耐
在整個戀愛過程中,也許你並不總處在盲目的狂熱狀態。有時候,你也會非常清醒而理智地看清你們之間的問題。可是,每一次,你轉身又會對自己說上一些理由:“已經愛了這麼長的日子,放棄未免太可惜了。”“就算換一個男友又會怎麼樣呢,說不定也有這樣那樣的問題,比現在也好不了多少,白添那麼多麻煩……”
其實,以上種種只不過是你在為愛他而找的藉口,你真實想說的是:“我離不開他,即使我知道這些問題也只好算了,誰叫我愛他呢。”可是,你不覺得這樣的愛,太辛苦了嗎?更何況,你已經清醒地知道你在你們的愛情關系裏只是一種忍耐。當你這樣覺得的時候,你應該可以問自己,你真的像你以為的那麼愛他嗎?愛是一種感覺,而感覺是隨時都會有變化的。
記住:忍耐不再是一種美德,有時它與懦弱同義。

Destiny Child - Emotion

"It's over and done
But the heartache lives on inside
And who's the one you're clinging to
Instead of me tonight?"

This song really took my emotion away...sighs

Monday, May 28, 2007

How To Cheer Yourself Up When You're Down

Thursday, May 24, 2007
How To Cheer Yourself Up When You're Down

1) Dance! Put on your favourite music, turn it up loud and dance! This is guaranteed to make you feel good. If you are unable to dance, don't let that stop you having fun - sing at the top of your voice instead.

2) Smile! Force yourself to smile even if you don't feel like it. This tricks your brain into thinking that you are happy. You do want to be happy don't you? Okay then - a great big cheesy grin. After three, one, two, three, - smile :0)

3) Spend time with children. Their natural zest for life is infectious. As well as the pleasures of a spontaneous hug or a chubby little hand in yours, try to take away with you some of their joy in simple things, licking an ice cream, playing with water, tramping through fallen leaves or following a butterfly.

4) Reward yourself. If there is a job that you hate to do, household accounts, home repairs etc. don't keep putting it off so that it is constantly nagging at you. Just get it done. Then reward yourself with whatever you love, a shiny new magazine, a bunch of flowers, a long soak in an aromatic bath, two bars of chocolate or an evening in front of the tv doing absolutely nothing. Or even all of the above if you can afford it. The peace of mind that comes from having got the job done will be the greatest reward of all.

5) See your old friends. It's easy to get into a work, family, housework, shopping, sleep and back to work again routine that leaves you no time at all to be the person you once were. The funny, up for a laugh, outgoing young woman you used to be. Spending time with friends who knew the old you seems to resurrect that side of your character. You will come away feeling younger, more positive and more excited by life than you were before you met up. Go on, invite them over to share a pizza and catch up on each other's lives.

6) Take the happiness option. You have the choice whether to spend this day, which you will never live through again, in a state of happiness or unhappiness. Choose to spend it as happily as you possibly can.

try it..if u r down...It might help ya.....

posted by Jobby @ 3:15 PM 0 comments


Read this in Jobby's blog..the 1st option couldnt help me anymore. "Dance" --> no more dancing! 2ndly, "Smile"--> have to do it everyday every minutes! I have immuned to everything i guess.

Excalmatory Point

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration not just another negotiation


It's been 5 days after all.
It's just ended with Excalmatory Point after everthing and years within 6 mins.
No tears but really Hurtful.
just brought me back to the reality..it's so cruel.
It have to be FULL STOP this time.
"sacrifice one's own interests for the sake of others"
sound so "grandeur" but to me it's "lampoon".

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Thursday, May 24, 2007

Love Quote of the Day

Loving is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.

when i can have dis "love" r..sighsz

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Coincidently read dis post ..

Thursday, August 04, 2005
If Missing Someone

Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think tat he/she doesn't miss u?

Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.

U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.

Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.

Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.

Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.

Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her/him missing the final episode of your favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u when out together.

Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.

Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.

When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u> know that there is actually a feeling> known as emptiness.

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible.

U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u.

Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoid.

If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.

posted by dRemmer® | 8/04/2005 10:23:00 AM | 0 comments

All Out of Love - Air Supply

Im lying alone with my head on the phone
Thinking of you till it hurts
I know you hurt too but what else can we do
Tormented and torn apart

I wish I could carry your smile in my heart
For times when my life seems so low
It would make me believe what tomorrow could bring
When today doesnt really know, doesnt really know

(chorus)
Im all out of love, Im so lost without you
I know you were right, believing for so long
Im all out of love, what am I without you
I cant be too late to say I was so wrong

I want you to come back and carry me home
Away from these long, lonely nights
Im reaching for you, are you feeling it too?
Does the feeling seem oh, so right?

And what would you say if I called on you now
And said that I cant hold on?
Theres no easy way, it gets harder each day
Please love me or Ill be gone, Ill be gone

(chorus)
Ooh, what are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
(repeat chorus)

Making Love Out of Nothing at All - Air Supply

I know just how to whisper,
And I know just how to cry;
I know just where to find the answers;
And I know just how to lie.
I know just how to fake it,
And I know just how to scheme;
I know just when to face the truth,
And then I know just when to dream.
And I know just where to touch you,
And I know just what to prove;
I know when to pull you closer,
And I know when to let you loose.
And I know the night is fading,
And I know that times gonna fly;
And Im never gonna tell you everything
Ive got to tell you,
But I know Ive got to give it a try.
And I know the roads to riches,
And I know the ways to fame;
I know all the rules
And then I know how to break em
And I always know the name of the game.

But I dont know how to leave you,
And Ill never let you fall;
And I dont know how you do it,
Making love out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all.

Every time I see you all the rays of the sun
Are streaming through the waves in your hair;
And every star in the sky is taking aim
At your eyes like a spotlight,
The beating of my heart is a drum, and its lost
And its looking for a rhythm like you.
You can take the darkness from the pit of the night
And turn into a beacon burning endlessly bright.
Ive got to follow it, cause everything I know, well its nothing till I give it to you.

I can make the run or stumble,
I can make the final block;
And I can make every tackle, at the sound of the whistle,
I can make all the stadiums rock.
I can make tonight forever,
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn;
And I can make you every promise that has ever been made,
And I can make all your demons be gone.

But Im never gonna make it without you,
Do you really want to see me crawl?
And Im never gonna make it like you do,
Making love out of nothing at all.

(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)

Friday, May 18, 2007

Girls versus Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it - using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time ( I.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ’show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ’signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

***am so confused and complicated after reading dis article..kitto told me am "Grown women" since i show her dis as well. am wondering on one of da phase there..

"Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home."

What if the man neva come home???haha...

Thursday, May 17, 2007

New toy for Baby




Baby Barry: Hey, what is this huh?
Crabbie: Am little Crabbie..Halooo..
Baby Barry: I don't care why you're on my bed.."bite u" "bite u"..


haihs....how come my baby so ganas r?my god..

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Reflection

Seems like just yesterday
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on

I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside
'Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on

Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

*thisisforu!--GROW UP--*
the real me


Read this in my cousin's Jassy page. It' s just a reflection to me..~winks~

Thursday, May 10, 2007

struggling of life

"The human being struggles with his environment"

i guess everyone had been through this.
Mon,upset..
Tues,drunken night..
Wed,insomnia..
Today,Thu..what am suppose to be?

Dear God,
Why i alwis felt the emptiness in my life?
loneliness,helpless,useless,and restless..
How i wish i can get through all these feeling..
"The human being struggles with his environment"
the phrase isit telling us ..we all have to go through this?
My wish..
wishing there's someone i can really talk to..
there's someone i think i can share everything with..
growth make me felt upset..
hate loneliness..
growth = stress + struggle