Thursday, May 24, 2007
How To Cheer Yourself Up When You're Down
1) Dance! Put on your favourite music, turn it up loud and dance! This is guaranteed to make you feel good. If you are unable to dance, don't let that stop you having fun - sing at the top of your voice instead.
2) Smile! Force yourself to smile even if you don't feel like it. This tricks your brain into thinking that you are happy. You do want to be happy don't you? Okay then - a great big cheesy grin. After three, one, two, three, - smile :0)
3) Spend time with children. Their natural zest for life is infectious. As well as the pleasures of a spontaneous hug or a chubby little hand in yours, try to take away with you some of their joy in simple things, licking an ice cream, playing with water, tramping through fallen leaves or following a butterfly.
4) Reward yourself. If there is a job that you hate to do, household accounts, home repairs etc. don't keep putting it off so that it is constantly nagging at you. Just get it done. Then reward yourself with whatever you love, a shiny new magazine, a bunch of flowers, a long soak in an aromatic bath, two bars of chocolate or an evening in front of the tv doing absolutely nothing. Or even all of the above if you can afford it. The peace of mind that comes from having got the job done will be the greatest reward of all.
5) See your old friends. It's easy to get into a work, family, housework, shopping, sleep and back to work again routine that leaves you no time at all to be the person you once were. The funny, up for a laugh, outgoing young woman you used to be. Spending time with friends who knew the old you seems to resurrect that side of your character. You will come away feeling younger, more positive and more excited by life than you were before you met up. Go on, invite them over to share a pizza and catch up on each other's lives.
6) Take the happiness option. You have the choice whether to spend this day, which you will never live through again, in a state of happiness or unhappiness. Choose to spend it as happily as you possibly can.
try it..if u r down...It might help ya.....
posted by Jobby @ 3:15 PM 0 comments
Read this in Jobby's blog..the 1st option couldnt help me anymore. "Dance" --> no more dancing! 2ndly, "Smile"--> have to do it everyday every minutes! I have immuned to everything i guess.
Monday, May 28, 2007
Excalmatory Point
There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration not just another negotiation
It's been 5 days after all.
It's just ended with Excalmatory Point after everthing and years within 6 mins.
No tears but really Hurtful.
just brought me back to the reality..it's so cruel.
It have to be FULL STOP this time.
"sacrifice one's own interests for the sake of others"
sound so "grandeur" but to me it's "lampoon".
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration not just another negotiation
It's been 5 days after all.
It's just ended with Excalmatory Point after everthing and years within 6 mins.
No tears but really Hurtful.
just brought me back to the reality..it's so cruel.
It have to be FULL STOP this time.
"sacrifice one's own interests for the sake of others"
sound so "grandeur" but to me it's "lampoon".
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Love Quote of the Day
Loving is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.
when i can have dis "love" r..sighsz
when i can have dis "love" r..sighsz
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Coincidently read dis post ..
Thursday, August 04, 2005
If Missing Someone
Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think tat he/she doesn't miss u?
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.
U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.
Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her/him missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u when out together.
Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.
When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.
Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u> know that there is actually a feeling> known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible.
U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u.
Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoid.
If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
posted by dRemmer® | 8/04/2005 10:23:00 AM | 0 comments
If Missing Someone
Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think tat he/she doesn't miss u?
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.
U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.
Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her/him missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u when out together.
Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.
When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.
Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u> know that there is actually a feeling> known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible.
U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u.
Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoid.
If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.
posted by dRemmer® | 8/04/2005 10:23:00 AM | 0 comments
All Out of Love - Air Supply
Im lying alone with my head on the phone
Thinking of you till it hurts
I know you hurt too but what else can we do
Tormented and torn apart
I wish I could carry your smile in my heart
For times when my life seems so low
It would make me believe what tomorrow could bring
When today doesnt really know, doesnt really know
(chorus)
Im all out of love, Im so lost without you
I know you were right, believing for so long
Im all out of love, what am I without you
I cant be too late to say I was so wrong
I want you to come back and carry me home
Away from these long, lonely nights
Im reaching for you, are you feeling it too?
Does the feeling seem oh, so right?
And what would you say if I called on you now
And said that I cant hold on?
Theres no easy way, it gets harder each day
Please love me or Ill be gone, Ill be gone
(chorus)
Ooh, what are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
(repeat chorus)
Thinking of you till it hurts
I know you hurt too but what else can we do
Tormented and torn apart
I wish I could carry your smile in my heart
For times when my life seems so low
It would make me believe what tomorrow could bring
When today doesnt really know, doesnt really know
(chorus)
Im all out of love, Im so lost without you
I know you were right, believing for so long
Im all out of love, what am I without you
I cant be too late to say I was so wrong
I want you to come back and carry me home
Away from these long, lonely nights
Im reaching for you, are you feeling it too?
Does the feeling seem oh, so right?
And what would you say if I called on you now
And said that I cant hold on?
Theres no easy way, it gets harder each day
Please love me or Ill be gone, Ill be gone
(chorus)
Ooh, what are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
(repeat chorus)
Making Love Out of Nothing at All - Air Supply
I know just how to whisper,
And I know just how to cry;
I know just where to find the answers;
And I know just how to lie.
I know just how to fake it,
And I know just how to scheme;
I know just when to face the truth,
And then I know just when to dream.
And I know just where to touch you,
And I know just what to prove;
I know when to pull you closer,
And I know when to let you loose.
And I know the night is fading,
And I know that times gonna fly;
And Im never gonna tell you everything
Ive got to tell you,
But I know Ive got to give it a try.
And I know the roads to riches,
And I know the ways to fame;
I know all the rules
And then I know how to break em
And I always know the name of the game.
But I dont know how to leave you,
And Ill never let you fall;
And I dont know how you do it,
Making love out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all.
Every time I see you all the rays of the sun
Are streaming through the waves in your hair;
And every star in the sky is taking aim
At your eyes like a spotlight,
The beating of my heart is a drum, and its lost
And its looking for a rhythm like you.
You can take the darkness from the pit of the night
And turn into a beacon burning endlessly bright.
Ive got to follow it, cause everything I know, well its nothing till I give it to you.
I can make the run or stumble,
I can make the final block;
And I can make every tackle, at the sound of the whistle,
I can make all the stadiums rock.
I can make tonight forever,
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn;
And I can make you every promise that has ever been made,
And I can make all your demons be gone.
But Im never gonna make it without you,
Do you really want to see me crawl?
And Im never gonna make it like you do,
Making love out of nothing at all.
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
And I know just how to cry;
I know just where to find the answers;
And I know just how to lie.
I know just how to fake it,
And I know just how to scheme;
I know just when to face the truth,
And then I know just when to dream.
And I know just where to touch you,
And I know just what to prove;
I know when to pull you closer,
And I know when to let you loose.
And I know the night is fading,
And I know that times gonna fly;
And Im never gonna tell you everything
Ive got to tell you,
But I know Ive got to give it a try.
And I know the roads to riches,
And I know the ways to fame;
I know all the rules
And then I know how to break em
And I always know the name of the game.
But I dont know how to leave you,
And Ill never let you fall;
And I dont know how you do it,
Making love out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all.
Every time I see you all the rays of the sun
Are streaming through the waves in your hair;
And every star in the sky is taking aim
At your eyes like a spotlight,
The beating of my heart is a drum, and its lost
And its looking for a rhythm like you.
You can take the darkness from the pit of the night
And turn into a beacon burning endlessly bright.
Ive got to follow it, cause everything I know, well its nothing till I give it to you.
I can make the run or stumble,
I can make the final block;
And I can make every tackle, at the sound of the whistle,
I can make all the stadiums rock.
I can make tonight forever,
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn;
And I can make you every promise that has ever been made,
And I can make all your demons be gone.
But Im never gonna make it without you,
Do you really want to see me crawl?
And Im never gonna make it like you do,
Making love out of nothing at all.
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Friday, May 18, 2007
Girls versus Grown Women
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it - using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time ( I.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ’show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ’signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.
***am so confused and complicated after reading dis article..kitto told me am "Grown women" since i show her dis as well. am wondering on one of da phase there..
"Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home."
What if the man neva come home???haha...
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it - using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time ( I.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ’show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ’signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.
***am so confused and complicated after reading dis article..kitto told me am "Grown women" since i show her dis as well. am wondering on one of da phase there..
"Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home."
What if the man neva come home???haha...
Thursday, May 17, 2007
New toy for Baby
Baby Barry: Hey, what is this huh?
Crabbie: Am little Crabbie..Halooo..
Baby Barry: I don't care why you're on my bed.."bite u" "bite u"..
haihs....how come my baby so ganas r?my god..
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Reflection
Seems like just yesterday
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on
I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside
'Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on
Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...
Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes
*thisisforu!--GROW UP--*
the real me
Read this in my cousin's Jassy page. It' s just a reflection to me..~winks~
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on
I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside
'Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on
Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...
Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes
*thisisforu!--GROW UP--*
the real me
Read this in my cousin's Jassy page. It' s just a reflection to me..~winks~
Thursday, May 10, 2007
struggling of life
"The human being struggles with his environment"
i guess everyone had been through this.
Mon,upset..
Tues,drunken night..
Wed,insomnia..
Today,Thu..what am suppose to be?
Dear God,
Why i alwis felt the emptiness in my life?
loneliness,helpless,useless,and restless..
How i wish i can get through all these feeling..
"The human being struggles with his environment"
the phrase isit telling us ..we all have to go through this?
My wish..
wishing there's someone i can really talk to..
there's someone i think i can share everything with..
growth make me felt upset..
hate loneliness..
growth = stress + struggle
i guess everyone had been through this.
Mon,upset..
Tues,drunken night..
Wed,insomnia..
Today,Thu..what am suppose to be?
Dear God,
Why i alwis felt the emptiness in my life?
loneliness,helpless,useless,and restless..
How i wish i can get through all these feeling..
"The human being struggles with his environment"
the phrase isit telling us ..we all have to go through this?
My wish..
wishing there's someone i can really talk to..
there's someone i think i can share everything with..
growth make me felt upset..
hate loneliness..
growth = stress + struggle
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Saddie Baby
My "saddie baby". He looks so innocent when i 1st met him at the pet's shop. The moment the pet's shop owner brought it into my hand. i feel pity for it..but dis still didnt make me choice him..cos i thought of getting a female shih tsu actually..until i saw his D.O.B is exactly same as my car. 24 FEB. Dis really impressed me.Finally i choose him.
Named him as "baby" now..cos he is still baby mah..hahaha..everyone saw dis picture kept asking "how come da puppy seem so sad ar?" hmmm..i really got no idea on it. Anyhow.."baby" will be named "baby barry"..i guess or "saddie baby" haha..how's it ?
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Reflection Of Joey’s Live in Genting 2007
Missed her 1st concert in Malaysia 2 years ago..
Never thought of I went for 2 sessions this time. She is a very good singer all i can said. Her dancer is perfect thou..
But the 1st session which in on Friday is bit bored..it's not crowded as i thought compared to Saturday's show. Fans on Saturday is much more happening..
really enjoy dis two show..
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Soulmate
A soulmate is someone with whom you feel a deep connection, regardless of whether that connection is a platonic friendship or a physically intimate relationship.
I got dis from my fren jobby's blog that soulmate can be calculated and it looks at relationships in terms of cost and benefits.
The formula is Soulmate Ratio = Total Love Benefit / Total Love Cost
What this formula means is that your soulmate is the one person on earth who will provide maximum benefits for the cost, making them the one person who will make you truly happy. In other words, a person searching for a soulmate is looking for the person who provides the highest soulmate ratio. That ratio increases over the length of time you know each other because of communication and shared experiences. By this definition, soulmates are a result of mutual benefits, and recognizing them happens only after a long period of knowing each other.
I strongly agreed with jobby's friend tat soulmate should be someone that is a piece in your life puzzle.....the key into your heart.....But what if I really find my soulmate...will this stay forever??
I got dis from my fren jobby's blog that soulmate can be calculated and it looks at relationships in terms of cost and benefits.
The formula is Soulmate Ratio = Total Love Benefit / Total Love Cost
What this formula means is that your soulmate is the one person on earth who will provide maximum benefits for the cost, making them the one person who will make you truly happy. In other words, a person searching for a soulmate is looking for the person who provides the highest soulmate ratio. That ratio increases over the length of time you know each other because of communication and shared experiences. By this definition, soulmates are a result of mutual benefits, and recognizing them happens only after a long period of knowing each other.
I strongly agreed with jobby's friend tat soulmate should be someone that is a piece in your life puzzle.....the key into your heart.....But what if I really find my soulmate...will this stay forever??
Saturday, April 21, 2007
monopoly??
after celebration in selina house..went back to ss2 play monopoly..but unfortunately they closing so early..
end up go home continues..haha..
we plays till 5am in da morning le..
really nice game to plays
end up go home continues..haha..
we plays till 5am in da morning le..
really nice game to plays
Friday, April 20, 2007
~home sweet home~
finally shifted back to ss2..i love staying there..
i love my room decoration..all in gReen ..but joey said it's too gReen wor...
hahahaa..cos all my "buddies"(soft toys) is gReen in color.
hopefully my coming days will be shine..
but anyhow..for da past time really make me strong..
phew~
damn tired and happy after settle everything..
just like working non - stop 30 hours..haha
i love my room decoration..all in gReen ..but joey said it's too gReen wor...
hahahaa..cos all my "buddies"(soft toys) is gReen in color.
hopefully my coming days will be shine..
but anyhow..for da past time really make me strong..
phew~
damn tired and happy after settle everything..
just like working non - stop 30 hours..haha
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
cuppacakes® by +wondermilk
mini cuppacakes
size: approx 1.5 inches in diameter
WEDDING ROSES
FLAVOUR: original vanilla only
DESIGN: gum paste roses (available in yellow, orange & red)
BE MINE
FLAVOUR: very delicious in choc chip flavour but equally great with vanilla, strawberry drops, mint choc chip or coffee circus. (1 flavour per box only please)
DESIGN: lovey dovey hearts and kisses
hmm...When can i have dis 2 cupcakes r?hehehe..anyhow..dunno how it taste..but i think have to giv a try since it's so cute..and lovely..
Thursday, April 12, 2007
nice bracelet!!
saw dis bracelet from jobby's blog..wondering where can get it..if anyone there know..please let me know ya..thx~~
pox pox~~
caught in chicken pox afta my kk trip..
almost 2 weeks without stepping out my doorstep.
full body of rashes really scared me and while my bestfren was there talking dat i wont recover from that it's really makes me cried..
just can't imagine there is no more bikini,sleeveless in my life.
no more beach activities..really make my life dull..
am glad to hav many frens who shown me their concern..
impressed when ppl bring me herbal tea and foods..
impressed when my bestfren kept her promise brought me my fav shorbet ice-cream..
thanks to all .. and now..am recovered!
almost 2 weeks without stepping out my doorstep.
full body of rashes really scared me and while my bestfren was there talking dat i wont recover from that it's really makes me cried..
just can't imagine there is no more bikini,sleeveless in my life.
no more beach activities..really make my life dull..
am glad to hav many frens who shown me their concern..
impressed when ppl bring me herbal tea and foods..
impressed when my bestfren kept her promise brought me my fav shorbet ice-cream..
thanks to all .. and now..am recovered!
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