flying kites

Went Seremban together with colleague. Eating session actually..
from morning..we start eating my favorite beef noodles,chicken rice, and hakka's noodles. then summore ice kacang wor.."raise pig" !!!

After our makan session we went the most happening mall in seremban which is Jusco..haha..we played bowling..haihs..so heavy ..dunno y ppl like to play~~
then..out "flying kites" session start~~

It was my 1st time playing..damn fun all i can said..hmmm..hope i can plat dis coming week end again!!!

5 month old Barry..

Dead Silence

There is an old ghost story in the sleepy town of Ravens Fair about Mary Shaw, a ventriloquist who went mad. Accused of the murder of a young boy, she was hunted down by vengeful townspeople who cut out her tongue and killed her. They buried her along with her "children," a hand-made collection of vaudeville dolls. Since that time, Ravens Fair has been plagued by death. The ghastly dolls from Mary Shaw's collection have gone missing from the grave and reappeared over the decades. In the dead of night--wherever they are glimpsed--families are found gruesomely murdered...with their tongues torn out. Far from the pall of their hometown, newlyweds Jamie (Ryan Kwanten) and Lisa Ashen thought they had established a fresh start. But when his wife is grotesquely killed, Jamie reluctantly returns to Ravens Fair for the funeral, intent on unraveling the mystery of her death. Once reunited with his ill father (Bob Gunton) and his father's new young bride (Amber Valletta), Jamie must dig into the town's bloody past to find out who killed his wife and why. As he uncovers the legend of Mary Shaw, Jamie unlocks the story of her curse and the truth behind the song from his childhood: if you see her and scream, you will never speak again.



The poem used to commercialize the film was not present in the movie; instead a close variation was used.

In online banners, trailers, and commercials promoting Dead Silence, the poem from Jamie's childhood was displayed as:

Beware the stare of Mary Shaw
he had no children, only dolls
And if you see her, do not scream
Or she'll rip your tongue out at the seam.

In the movie, however, the poem was recited as:

Beware the stare of Mary Shaw
She had no children, only dolls
And if you see her in your dreams
Be sure you never, ever scream.

不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段

Got dis article from one of the blog..

生命，不會只是一帆風順有高潮，當然也會有低潮的時候，但是，不管是怎樣的情況總是不會逗留太久，於是，學會去接受它解決它放開它，不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段。
我有位女性朋友，非常地會賺錢，在目前這樣不景氣的情況下，她每月依舊保持著月入百萬的紀錄，只是這些賺進來的錢又輾轉的送到別人的口袋去了。因為前幾年她和朋友一起做生意失敗積欠了許多債務，於是，她開始放下身段做起業務的工作來，每天看著她早出晚歸從無埋怨可言，好像那些千萬的債務不存在一般，絲毫沒有將她的士氣給擊垮，她的臉上仍是用著一雙迷人的雙眼注視著，用著開朗的笑聲來溫暖每個朋友，有天，我好奇的問了她難道妳沒有埋怨過嗎？她只回了這麼一句話『不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段』最壞的情況我都已經遇過了，我想再壞也壞不到哪裡去了。所以我明白低潮過後，高潮就不遠了，妳說這樣地想我還有什麼好抱怨的，既然抱怨也改變不了事實，
那麼我何不學習去接受它，同時去改變我的心態呢！
因為她的一番話給了我很大的省思，同時讓我對於很多事有了更開闊的想法，人生不過就是這樣地有趣，只要你懂得去適應它，不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段，別讓低潮的氣壓，埋藏了自己的熱情了，
※期盼每個朋友能夠因為她的這一番話有了更開朗的人生觀※

Sammi!!!

Be happy always..

Thank ya Wenping..Thanks for you lovely cuppacakes..luv it very much..although it's late ..i no more upset..hahaha..but anyhow..really appreciate what you 've done for me all these while..make sure you get ready da cuppacakes alwis when am sad ya..haha..

Thanks for being there for me no matter how..
Thanks for companied me when am down..
Thanks for sharing every precious moment..
Thanks for being such supportive friend..

Eustoma with Amy

Nice Handbouquet huh..really impressed me..1st time i saw dis flowers..

Forever White' eustoma is a cultivated form of prairie gentian. You may also have heard this flower called "lisianthus." As its common name implies, the native prairie gentian thrives in dry, well-drained soils and full sunlight. So does Forever White' eustoma. There are two major differences, though. The cultivated form is far more compact than its "wild" ancestor and its flowers are larger and showier.Forever White' eustoma has beautiful ivory-white blooms that look like delicate rosebuds at first, then unfurl to become cup-shaped flowers, 2 ? inches across. The plant itself grows to about twelve inches, which means it's ideal for use in containers. Just be sure to pair it with other sun-loving plants that don't like to stay too moist.

My 4 month old Barry

Time flies ..my babybarry already 4 month old..
Does he look cute?or still sad r?ahahhaa..
First time he knew how to climb on the stairs..
Barry is timid as a hare..when i bring him upstair my room..he dare not to move.just stay and stare at me..hahaha..

Sammi - 紅綠燈 -

http://video.xanga.com/joejoeyuen/84d6b349166/video.html

從小老師也加倍認真 來教導我步過紅綠燈
右與左 必須清楚看真 哪管一次做錯 也都可摧毀這生
何解我戀愛雙倍殘忍 從來是快樂過便不會僥倖
動作少 簡單偏偏最深 我怎可以做個 最優秀路上行人
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 假使相當勇敢 怎可挽回自身
若要衝 損傷怎可以不留痕 來又去 要找的際遇未接近
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 抬頭前望去 對面馬路如此吸引
逐秒等 心急總加倍的難行 難道我 要必先壯烈地犧牲 去換吻
誰想到走錯死裡逃生 才明白較沒有夢想更不幸
若誕生 不好好開過心 也不可以被愛 我不過是像泥塵
#明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 假使相當勇敢 怎可挽回自身
若要衝 損傷怎可以不留痕 來又去 要找的際遇未接近
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 抬頭前望去 對面馬路如此吸引
逐秒等 心急總加倍的難行 如夜了 我衣衫太薄便歸家 靠路燈

~~the greatest song of da night..~~

Sammi Concert 07 @ Genting

鄭秀文“瘋狂”開唱，狀態“勇猛”得讓人驚嚇！相比過去的個唱，休戰多時的Sammi在唱勁歌上的“氣”度反而更勝從前，表現亦更為穩定。經過時間的洗禮，Sammi的天后架勢始終如一！

瘋狂篇

闊別歌迷3年，可想而知歌迷是如何地飢渴，所以，相比對上一次葉蒨文個唱的“冷”，這一場可說是熱到爆炸！歌迷反應不再話下，就連Sammi本身也有如“狂人”上身般，快歌部份唱到連頭髮都被甩得亂七八糟，踢腿、當眾抽褲頭等算是小事，外八字腳開開走下樓梯的“粗魯”畫面才是震撼！
在舞蹈上，Sammi展露的是“Man”和“猛”，不過，這么肆無忌憚地“High瘋”和“開放”的Sammi，反而讓人有種“脫胎換骨”的新鮮感。而自稱只將香港個唱精華部份帶過來，但卻沒化上誇張眉妝的她，除了表現狂野之外，也不失感性和鬼馬的一面。

感情篇

剖白心事強忍淚可以說，Sammi在演繹慢歌上的投入，反而更顯精彩和有Feel，尤其從《默契》到《紅綠燈》部份，Sammi每唱歌前，都和大家分享“心事”。而當中，Sammi就提到說，要獨立一人去面對種種負面新聞並不容易，但幸好有家人的支持，才讓她成功撐下去。她說父母在她人生中扮演最重要的角色，也因為有爸爸的笑容和支持，所以，才放膽做出無限期休假的決定。
不過，台上的她也表示，現在她的事業再次亮起綠燈，所以，一定要提起勇氣走過對面的馬路，在人生、事業和感情上都要重新出發！
雖然這番“設計對白”之前在香港個唱上已講過好幾次，但這晚Sammi說來，還是相當真情流露。
后來到了安哥時，Sammi更頻頻拭擦眼角欲掉下的淚水，也一度哽咽，但最終還是把淚忍了下來，將傷感情緒減至最低啦！

鬼馬篇

揶揄歌迷不留情從以前到現在，Sammi在個唱上不時會有一些比較鬼馬的對白，有時也敢敢揶揄歌迷。好像台前出現好幾個空位，她笑說對住這些‘吉凳’都不知怎辦，之后遠處有人大喊要坐，她即說：“你就想啦，買Cheap票想坐貴賓位？”
后來Sammi邀請一男歌迷上台，該男歌迷表現得相當“猴急”，要求擁抱不遂后，竟三番四次想趁機摟其香肩。而Sammi見此也對他不客氣，當男方表示不太會唱《終》曲，Sammi即叫歌迷“噓”；而當該男士說自己是“麻坡人”時，她也即說：“有這樣的人的咩？我是潮州人啊！”

其他鬼馬語錄：

甩髮踢腿抽褲頭
Sammi“豁出去”般的舞姿相當誇張，無不令人“另眼相看”。★完成歌舞段落后：你們可以坐下了，歌舞部份就是這樣多而已，沒有了啦，不然想我死咩？！
★開場不久：不好意思，因為要化妝做頭髮所以搞遲了。20分鐘罷了，等一下啦，反正幾年都等了嘛。
★返后台之時：Bye Bye，要安哥就麻煩你們做點東西啦！
★和張敬軒談起健身房相遇過程：

在Sammi面前，自稱是粉絲的張敬軒就像一個小弟弟，表露出一絲緊張。張：我們身材差不多。
鄭：紙板？那我A4你A5囉！……
鄭：我在Gym房看到一‘條’背影，心想都那么瘦了，還來跑什么步哇？
張：她很勁，做演唱會前還可以來跑步（鄭這時說她當時流汗流到像落湯雞），那時透視很Sexy。
鄭：我可是有穿內衣的呀，不要再講這些“咸濕”東西了啦！

曲目：
唯獨你是不可取替／放不低／愛情萬歲／X派對／男士今天 你很好／表演時間／一夜成名／默契／如果你有事／赤子／紅綠燈／問我／張敬軒：Hurt So Bad、笑忘事／串燒：星秀傳說／獨家試唱／非男非女／小心女人／發亮發熱／熒光粉紅／神奇女俠／煞科／Chotto等等／叮噹／我們的主題曲／安哥：親密關係／不拖不欠／回來我身邊／感情線上／終身美麗

all i can say is amazing and perfect!! i think i will fly over to HK for her coming concert..haha..she is the only performer who can impressed me so far..smiles~~

http://www.chinapress.com.my/content_new.asp?sec=entertainment&dt=2007-06-24
more pictures: http://maggielow.multiply.com/photos/album/144?mark_read=maggielow:photos:144

My Bestfren House

Tuesday June 19, 2007

Two hurt as crane falls on houses

KUALA LUMPUR: Two people were injured when a crane fell on two wooden houses in Jalan Tembaga off Jalan Pahang yesterday.

The victims, Chan Han Sin, 72, and her daughter Ho Foong Keng, 42, were having breakfast at 9am when the crane crashed down on their house.


Close call: The crane fell on two houses injuring two people in Jalan Tembaga off Jalan Pahang on Monday.

The 50m-long crane was lifting a 14-tonne concrete slab onto the concrete beam of the Duta-Ulu Klang Expressway project when it toppled over after the ground beneath it sank.

Both victims were immediately sent to the Tawakal Hospital by construction workers.

Those involved in the project declined to comment when approached.

The Department of Occupational Safety and Health and the Malaysian Highway Authority are investigating the matter.

When I heard this news is really shock me off..i was so worried..luckily it's happened day time and not night..else i think the next morning i gonna attend funeral as my bestfren told me that also..I'm glad that every of her family is fine. But everything is gone..haihs..

Latest~ 9 June 2007

Thank you Jobby

死性不改

For my Friend...ALice...

作曲：張佳添＠宇宙大爆炸
作詞：黃敬佩＠宇宙大爆炸
監製：周初晨＠ｕ'ｓ　ｍｕｓｉｃ

K_又見了"我的寵愛"!
誰願接受這種意外
你讚我天生可愛
不願看著我離開

同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵在傷我

人天生根本都不可以愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到倒我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼

誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛

S_我怕可一不可再 難道你被愛都有害
我確信天真不會錯 威力會移山填海

B_同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵再傷我

#人天生根本都不可以 愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼

誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛

posted by Jobby @ 3:55 PM 0 comments

Life time warranty @ Part 2

"TV no need to be Plasma woo...small small 1 ez to carry and can accompany u to everywhere, when u boring da time alwiz b there for u. Plasma TV put in living for dust only & attract theif rob ur hse...look good but doesnt suit us...when ta Plasma TV break down tat time only will understand" by E

End up..

"am still thinking plasma or 29inch woo....cannot decide leh....because cannot compare woo..I think go cinema watch movie lor.. can watch any movie you want when u r free....this is ta good solution before u make ta decision....hehehee.." by Jobby

And me..

am "死性不改"..i just want watever i wan and and hopefully it can be my "life time warranty"..am sorry to disappoint you guys..thx for all the advise which i really learned alot from Plasma, 29' tv, and cinema..haha..

Life time warranty

Our conversation today.
am confused to hav a life warranty in relationship.
Never thought that Jobby will describe it as belows..

"u wan an old tv with life warranty but..u see plama tv also look nice..u both also wan just becoz the old wan can keep and still can use mah..u duno wan to dump it where and if give it to ppl .. can't let go and if buy a new one..then ta old one duno how??end up...upstair 1 tv...downstair 1 tv....see which one expired first. But ofcourse,cannot be both also life time warranty woo.."

hahhaa..wat is this ar..like dis also works..she really a good tv seller..ahahah..

Vincent

Artist: Don McLean

Starry, starry night.
Paint your palette blue and grey,
Look out on a summer's day,
With eyes that know the darkness in my soul.
Shadows on the hills,
Sketch the trees and the daffodils,
Catch the breeze and the winter chills,
In colors on the snowy linen land.

Now I understand what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they did not know how.
Perhaps they'll listen now.

Starry, starry night.
Flaming flowers that brightly blaze,
Swirling clouds in violet haze,
Reflect in Vincent's eyes of china blue.
Colors changing hue, morning field of amber grain,
Weathered faces lined in pain,
Are soothed beneath the artist's loving hand.

Now I understand what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they did not know how.
Perhaps they'll listen now.

For they could not love you,
But still your love was true.
And when no hope was left in sight
On that starry, starry night,
You took your life, as lovers often do.
But I could have told you, Vincent,
This world was never meant for one
As beautiful as you.

Starry, starry night.
Portraits hung in empty halls,
Frameless head on nameless walls,
With eyes that watch the world and can't forget.
Like the strangers that you've met,
The ragged men in the ragged clothes,
The silver thorn of bloody rose,
Lie crushed and broken on the virgin snow.

Now I think I know what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they're not listening still.
Perhaps they never will...

My Love Will Get You Home

Artist: Christine Glass

If you wonder off too far, my love will get you home.
If you follow the wrong star, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If the bright lights blinds your eyes, my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If you ever feel ashame, my love will get you home.
If its only you to blame, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

so sick

Artist: Ne-yo
Song: So Sick
Album: In My Own Words

mmmm mmm yeah
do do do do do do do-do
ohh yeah

gotta change my answering machine
now that i'm alone
cuz right now it says that we
can't come to the phone
and i know it makes no sense
cuz you walked out the door
but it's the only way i hear your voice anymore
(it's ridiculous)
it's been months
and for some reason i just
(can't get over us)
and i'm stronger then this
(enough is enough)
no more walkin round
with my head down
i'm so over being blue
cryin over you

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

gotta fix that calender i have
that's marked july 15th
because since there's no more you
there's no more anniversary
i'm so fed up with my thoughts of you
and your memory
and how every song reminds me
of what used to be

that's the reason i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

(leave me alone)
leave me alone
(stupid love songs)
dont make me think about her smile
or having my first child
i'm letting go
turning off the radio

cuz i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

said i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tearsso done with wishin you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)
why can't i turn off the radio?

七種會讓自己心碎的錯

一生只愛一次是幸福的，不幸的是，那些被情感傷害了的人們，卻註定不止愛一次。所以，只要你還不想把太多的時間花在失戀的療傷上，那麼你就該審視一下，是不是在愛情這個危險的遊戲裏，曾經為愛對自己犯了“罪”。

第一宗自欺欺人的原諒
原諒就象你錢袋裏的金子，每一次的給予都應該合情合理，否則便成了一種毫無價值的浪費。
記住：背叛不是愛情的唯一殺手，所有的不歡而散不是只發生在某一天。

第二宗沒有原則的寵愛
你是不是非常喜歡他？以至於很多事情都由他說了算？休息日，你興致盎然，想拖他一起去逛街，買一些換季服裝。可是他偏偏不想，硬要坐在家裏看足球。於是乎，你為了討他歡喜，或者是一種潛意識的跟從，你也毅然放棄了自己的計劃，與他一起坐到電視機前。他過生日，你精心挑選了非常有型的一款西服送給他，可是他卻說那太難看，他只喜歡T恤和牛仔。被澆了一頭冷水的你暗暗責怪自己太粗心，居然不知道心愛的人的好惡。第二天悄悄地去商店買到他喜歡的衣飾……
捫心自問：你快樂嗎？也許你覺得能夠和心愛的人在一起，看見他快快樂樂，你也就覺得很開心。可是，這樣的情形，可能短時間不會有不好的感覺，而一旦長久在一起，你就會產生不滿。本來嘛，愛就應該是平等的、相互尊重的。過分地嬌縱對方，會讓他覺得你對他的好都是應該的，反而會不珍惜。相反地，他還會反復地比較，如果有一天你沒有像以前那樣寵他，他會覺得你對他不好，兩人的不合就埋下種子。
記住：不適度的寵愛會讓你們的愛情變了味。

第三宗一廂情願的熱情
你是否也曾有過這樣的信念：相信精誠所至，金石為開。悄悄地記著你們共度的每一個有意義的日子。在相識週年的紀念日裏，精心為他挑選一份禮物，或者苦思冥想一個意味深長的舉動。而他，卻木然地望著你，怎麼也想不起是個什麼樣子的節日。你也曾熱切地邀請他一同出席好友的聚會，想讓更多的朋友知道你們的關係，可他卻淡淡地告訴你，這時他更願意在家裏休息、睡覺……
也許，有一天他真的會為你的熱情付出而感動，但千萬不要相信這是愛情，即使你們會成為戀人、愛人，甚至夫妻。這樣的愛情是非常脆弱的，他相信的僅僅是你愛他，而不是他也同樣愛你。“正是因為她對我好，我才和她結婚。”他往往會這樣說，而當生活裏出現一個他所愛的人，他便會毫不猶豫地將你放在一個從屬的位置。
記住：愛的付出是相互的，它永遠不是一個人快樂一個人委屈。

第四宗變本加厲的嫉妒
嫉妒是所有戀愛男女的特權，是愛的產物。正是因為你在乎他，你才會關注到他身邊的每一個女孩子，悄悄地拿自己與她們比較。嫉妒便由此而生。在路上你看到年輕女孩同你男友熱情地打呼你，你會毫無理由地對那女孩產生反感，於是冷嘲熱諷，甚至拂袖而去。再如，你偶爾在相冊裏發現男友和別人的合影，即便是最普通的姿式，你也會斷然要求他將照片從影集中撤出，甚至撕毀，除非那女孩子的長相實在不可恭維……
雖然說，愛人的心是玻璃做的，情人的眼裏容不下一顆沙子，但過多的干涉，有可能激起對方的逆反心理，對你產生反感。深愛他的你正是親自將他趕出了你的世界，豈不悲哀？也許你倒不是猜疑他，就是想讓他做到只對你一個人好。可是，只要你還沒有喪失理智，你就該知道你永遠不可能是唯一。沒有你，他也會有最愛的女人。所以，放寬心腸，與其花時間來嫉妒，不如兩人好好相待。
記住：正常的嫉妒是可以接受的，甚至可以是你和他之間的調味品，而一旦過分就不好了。

第五宗盲目過分的信任
和嫉妒相比，過度信任也會導致兩人關係的淡化。比如週末，他告訴你，他要在公司加班，不能陪你去看那場你們很久就約好的電影。不用過多的解釋和理由，你完全相信他的話。再比如，他在和你約會的時候，居然在一個電話線上佔了一個多小時，輕聲細語，溫柔非常。問及對方，他對你說是外地的遠房表妹。於是，你也就不再追究…… 這樣的小事情可以有很多。我們說，愛情的基礎在於相互信任，但是信任不等於放任。你一味地不聞不問，導致的結果便是他在不知不覺中離你越來越遠。將來有一天，他突然離你而去，你卻仍然一頭霧水。男人就像你手中的風箏，放得太高太遠，你還不知道是哪一天他離開了你的手。信任是一種理性的行為，它是建立在事實的基礎上的。
記住：只有當你知道事情的前因後果，你才可以作出判斷：相信他，或者不信。

第六宗不合情理的期待
他說，下個月發了薪水，便給你買下那條你看中好久的紫水晶項鏈。於是你美美地想了好幾天。可是發薪的日子到了，他卻告訴你他剛為自己買好了新力的迷你小音響，現在荷包羞澀。自然，你的項鏈也就閉口不提了。他還說，下部美國大片一來，就和你一同前去欣賞，於是你就天天關注報紙上的電影放映消息。誰知，公映沒多久，當你向他提出約請，他卻輕描淡寫地告訴你他已經與單位裏的幾個哥們一起看過了，並不怎麼精彩。一句話，頓時讓你無精打彩……
他總是不斷地給你希望，為你製造一些可以想像的快樂，於是你就開始你的等待。只是你的等待總是沒有結果，因為他總是說得多，做得少。試想一下，這樣的一些小事，他都無法兌現，你又怎麼可以相信他會給你一個未來呢？也許他會找到一些藉口為自己解釋，但很可能將來他也會有冠冕堂皇的理由來放棄對你的承諾。
記住，這樣的人是不值得你期待的，還是像一首歌裏唱的那樣：“有些人你永遠不必等。

第七宗無可奈何的忍耐
在整個戀愛過程中，也許你並不總處在盲目的狂熱狀態。有時候，你也會非常清醒而理智地看清你們之間的問題。可是，每一次，你轉身又會對自己說上一些理由：“已經愛了這麼長的日子，放棄未免太可惜了。”“就算換一個男友又會怎麼樣呢，說不定也有這樣那樣的問題，比現在也好不了多少，白添那麼多麻煩……”
其實，以上種種只不過是你在為愛他而找的藉口，你真實想說的是：“我離不開他，即使我知道這些問題也只好算了，誰叫我愛他呢。”可是，你不覺得這樣的愛，太辛苦了嗎？更何況，你已經清醒地知道你在你們的愛情關系裏只是一種忍耐。當你這樣覺得的時候，你應該可以問自己，你真的像你以為的那麼愛他嗎？愛是一種感覺，而感覺是隨時都會有變化的。
記住：忍耐不再是一種美德，有時它與懦弱同義。

Destiny Child - Emotion

"It's over and done
But the heartache lives on inside
And who's the one you're clinging to
Instead of me tonight?"

This song really took my emotion away...sighs