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Cool Shih tzu...

When my barry going to have long hair ar??sob sob~~

StarLight Joey Yung Live In Genting

Went her last Reflection Of Joey’s Live in Genting 2007
last year was my pleasure to went Joey's concert for 2 days.
but this time i went on FRI..she is still a great singer ofcos..although is not as full as last year.. but the atmosphere is still great!...
she been singing lots of her hardcore karaoke songs as usual during the concert..

the greatest news i got from this concert is Sammi is coming again to have live in malaysia.!!!!
will be at Arena of Stars, Genting Highlands, dates: Friday, 26 Sept & Saturday, 27 Sept 2008. cant wait for this!!!

GOOD LOGIC!

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS ROMANCE MATHEMATICS
Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

OFFICE ARITHMETIC
Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

SHOPPING MATH
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need.

GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

HAPPINESS
To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

LONGEVITY
Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.

PROPENSITY TO CHANGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED
Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, 'You're next.' They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

HELLO KITTY FRUITY CUBE BOX MARSHMALLOW

Thx trix...thx for the souvenir...luvz it so much..i actually saw dis 2 months ago when am in hk..ahahha...neva thought that u will bought dis to me..it's so sweet..
wondering what is in the LEGO?
it's actually
HELLO KITTY FRUITY CUBE BOX MARSHMALLOW

Jason Mraz - I'm Yours

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
and now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And It's our God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

Scooch closer dear
and i will nibble your ear

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
My breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what i be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
this is our fate, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find the sky is yours
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
A lá one big family (2nd time: A lá happy family; 3rd time: A lá peaceful melody)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't hesitate
no more, no more
It cannot wait
The sky is your's!

哄老婆秘籍

问题一：你爱我吗？
错误答案A：'爱。'
错误答案B：'这还用问吗？'
错误答案C：'你烦不烦啊？
标准答案：目光怜爱的望着对方三秒，然后神情的点一下头，同时发出'嗯'的声 音，然后一把把她揽在怀里......
解析：答案A会让她觉得你太不严肃了，纯粹胡弄她；答案B会让她觉得你对她的爱不够坚定，而且她一定会喋喋不休的问到底，让你给她明确的答案，够你烦的；答案C过 后一定是一顿大架或冷战。其实女人对男人是不是爱她这件事儿心里特有数，她这么问纯粹就是撒娇调情，你抱抱她亲亲她比回答什么都让她高兴。


问题二：你看我这件衣服好看吗？
错误答案A：'挺好看的。'
错误答案B：'还行。'
错误答案C：'真好看，我老婆穿什么都好看。'
标准答案：来来来，转一圈让我看看......'待她害羞的转完一圈后，把她拉过来，拉 着她的手微笑的看着他说：'真挺好看的。
解析：答案A会让她觉得你应付她；答案B会让她觉得没自信，在她心里她穿什么你都 应该觉得好；可是如果真说好看，像答案C一样她又会觉得你花言巧语不真诚。所以啊，你要表示出对她提的这个问题的认真程度，必须要仔细的看看再说。


问题三：在她把她的闺蜜介绍给你认识之后，回到家她问：'你觉得我这朋友怎么样 啊？'
错误答案A：'挺漂亮的。'
错误答案B：'不怎么样，比你差远了。'
错误答案C：'我都没怎么注意她。'
标准答案：我觉得她对你挺真诚的，应该好好珍惜这样的朋友。
解析：答案A纯粹是没事儿找抽型的，女人是绝不能允许你在她面前说别的女人好的（当然，母亲除外。）；答案B听着就太假了；答案C你一定觉得回答得挺高明的吧，她压根儿就不会信，而且她会展开想像分析你为什么不愿意对她的朋友进行评价。所以，要避开问题，转个弯儿回答，让她觉得你一切都是为她着想，她会有被呵护照顾的感觉。



问题四：你觉得我胖了吗？
错误答案A：'没胖。'
错误答案B：'好像是胖了。'
错误答案C：'呦，是不是最近太累啊，怎么都瘦成这样了？'
标准答案：过来让我抱抱，等抱过之后你再说：我就喜欢你这样的，有点肉。
解析：答案A回答得太干脆了吧，她听着不过瘾。答案B纯属找骂，女孩子怎么能喜欢听别人说她胖呢？即使你再三强调你喜欢胖的，她还会不高兴；答案C听着都那么虚伪，现在的女人哪那么好蒙啊。其实，在女人的心里，她还是希望男人不在乎她的胖瘦，虽然嘴上说为了你减肥，其实是为了自己更漂亮，能穿更多好看的衣服。所以你用肢体语言表示出你喜欢她有点儿肉就可以了。



问题五：我和你前女友比起来，你更喜欢哪一个？
错误答案A：'废话，当然是你了，要不然干吗跟你在一起。'
错误答案B：'嗯，怎么说呢，如果让我说实话，各有千秋吧。'
错误答案C：'她比你差远了。'
标准答案：狠狠的咬她一口或亲她一下或捏她的小脸蛋，等到她撒娇的嗷嗷叫的时候
你就说：'下次再问这种无聊的问题，还得这么惩罚你。'
解析：答案A也太生硬直接了吧，她接下来就会问：'那你以后碰见比我好的是不是也得把我踹了啊？'答案B您就等着分手吧，忒实在了也。答案C听上去还不错，但你这不是抽自己嘴巴嘛，你说自己前女友不好会让女人很得意而降低了你自己的身价。其实在女人心里，她特别希望你的前女友是个特别优秀的女人，而偏偏是你不愿意跟她好了，这样女人心里会有成就感的。可是你又不能直接说前女友有多好，所以就用她喜欢的方式来回避问题吧（至于她是喜欢你捏她的脸蛋儿还是咬她一口我们就不知道了）。



问题六：如果我和你妈妈同时掉进水里，你会救哪一个？
错误答案A：'你有聊无聊啊？'
错误答案B：'一块儿救。'
错误答案C：'宝贝儿，别难为我，再说这种情况也不会发生的。'
标准答案：哦，我没告诉你吧，我妈是游泳健将。
解析：虽说问这个问题确实很无聊但你也不能像答案A那样，这会引来喋喋不休的争吵；答案B她一定会不甘心的追问下去，你不想清静清静吗？答案C听上去还不错，但还是很牵强。不如就幽默一回，别让她一天到晚的老杞人忧天没事儿找事儿了。



问题七：如果我老了难看了你还会爱我吗？
错误答案A：'不可能，你老了也好看。'
错误答案B：'女人不同的年龄段有不同年龄段的魅力......'
错误答案C：'没事儿，你老了我也好不到哪儿去，咱俩谁也别嫌弃谁。'
标准答案：我巴不得你难看点儿老点儿呢，这样放在家里多放心啊。
解析：答案A她听着也高兴，但心里知道这是绝对不可能的；答案B就赶紧打住吧，唐僧来了；答案C不就说她老了肯定不好看了嘛，她怎么能接受呢？所以啊，最聪明的答案就是既让她打消顾虑又让她知道你特别在意她特别怕失去她。

Something brighten up my day

Thanks Kel..
Thanks for your cd and dvd from far far away..
really my bad day..today..
lack of sleep. .busy with work.. and mess with sumthing..

Thanks God!!!
letting me know that am deserved to have people who really sincere and kind to me

Dear God,
people born to be selfish sometimes,
i pretty understand all the pro and con on every decision making on my own.
i never ever blame to anyone no matter how..
do leave me with my life and do bless me on whatever decision i made.
understand that everyone maybe just come and goes leave their footprint in our life..
Perhaps, those ppl who just in and out will not mess up my life.
i had do my very best to get what i have now..i guess..i really deserve what i got in my life now.
Ppl who doesn't agreed on me is non of my business..am not cold blooded or stoney..just that i have lack of energy to pay more concern on other rather that myself.
Life to me is fair and square there is no other possibility..
no one have the right to negotiate this with me unless i choose to tolerate..
and this is me..

Standing still is my term of life..
those whose know me well..i guess..will agree with me..on this.

Blinded by Emotions

When two people are in love, they tend to show only the best aspects of their nature and character to each other in order to project a good impression of themselves. Love is said to be blind and hence people in love tend to become completely oblivious of the darker side of each other's natures.

In practice, each will try to highlight his or her sterling qualities to the other; and being so engrossed in love, they tend to accept each other at "face value" only. Each lover will not disclose the darker side of his or her nature for fear of losing the other. Any personal shortcomings are discreetly swept under the carpet, so to speak, so as not to jeopardise their chances of winning each other. People in love also tend to ignore their partner's faults thinking that they will be able to correct them after marriage, or that they can live with these faults, that "love will conquer all".

However, after marriage, as the initial romantic mood wears off, the true nature of each other's character will be revealed. Then, much to the disappointment of both parties, the proverbial veil that had so far been concealing the innermost feelings of each partner is removed to expose the true nature of both partners. It is then that disillusion sets in.

Material Needs

Love by itself does not subsist on fresh air and sunshine alone. The present world is a materialistic world and in order to meet your material needs, proper financing and budgeting is essential. Without it, no family can live comfortably. Such a situation aptly bears out the saying that "when poverty knocks at the door, love flies through the window". This does not mean that one must be rich to make a marriage work. However, if one has the bare necessities of life provided through a secure job and careful planning, many unnecessary anxieties can be removed from a marriage.

Gandhi's remarks:

"I believe in the proper education of woman. But do believe that woman will not make her contribution to the world by mimicking or running a race with man. She can run the race, but she will not rise to the great heights she is capable of by mimicking man. She has to be the complement of man".

Souvenir from Su...bought in Malta

Thanks Su..thanks for your souvenir from Malta..hmm..dunno where is it..just a part of Europe..
All R5 got this neck less..appreciated it!!!hugss...

Happy birthday to Su..

Happy birthday to u..
Happy birthday to u..
Happy birthday to Su...
Happy birthday to u..
May you stay pretty, pretty and pretty day after day..
And all the best wishes for you..
from your R5 - alice..

Rainbow bear

Thanks Kel, thanks for remind me the rainbow bear's story..
Got both rainbow bear also from postage. the 1st rainbow bear was from Zoe posted from Singapore as my 26th birthday pressie. And this 2nd is from UK...though i had it earlier..but i still felt so happy when i saw it in the box. and now both them can be friend and no longer alone..

Kindly find the sweet story below as i posted in my previous blog date 18 may 2006.

A long time ago in a land far away lived a bar named Isis. Her fur was as white as snow. Some days Isis didn't like having white fur. She found it too boring. While she sat on a tree stump, she saw all the birds and animals run by.

Peter peacock had blue and green feathers and a tail that spread out wide. Peter had a lot of color and was not dull and boring, like Isis.

Polly parrot had purple feathers with red and green wings and a yellow tail. Polly had an orange beak and was not dull and boring.

Zack zebra had black and white stripes. Lucy leopard had spots. They were not dull and boring at all.

"All the other animals have color. Why am I so boring and dull and white?" Isis hung her head down and cried.

As she sat pouting a gray cloud floated above her in the sky. Rain fell on her and soon her fur got wet. When the rain stopped, a rainbow went from one side of the sky to the other. Isis smiled. "I have an idea." She ran through the rainbow. When she came out the other side, her fur had turned red, yellow, pink, green, purple, orange and blue. "I'm not dull and boring any more. I've got a lot of color, like Peter, Polly, Zack and Lucy."

From that day on the other animals called her Rainbow Bear and she was never sad again.

Read this story again when i received the postage from Kel. The story really brighten my day..thanks kel...

"Lost In The Crowd"

36" x 36" oil pastel, oil stick, oil paint stick, marker on paper.

Shinedown - Lost In The Crowd lyrics
Should I offer up my hand
And save a wish for once
For all of us
And should I offer up my hand
And lay the guilt on myself
So it's easier , to not stay, to not stay

[Chorus]
Because I found you in your corner
I pulled you out of the clouds
You left in such a hurry
Your face got lost in the crowd

Should I open up my eye's or just ignore who you are
And what you could have been
And should I open up my eye's and make believe you will change
So it's easier to not stay, to not stay

[Chorus Out]

Difference between wife & girlfriend

Cant believe someone can think of such about us .


Wife is like TV, girlfriend is like Handphone (HP)
At home watch TV, go out bring HP.
No money, sell TV. Got money change HP.
Sometimes enjoy TV, but most of the time play with HP.
TV free for life but HP, if you don't pay the services will be terminated
TV is big, bulky and most of the time old, but handphone is cute, slim,
curvy and very portable at any time.
Operational cost for TV is often acceptable but for HP is high and often demanding,
Most Important, TV got remote.. HP don't have..
Last but not least........
TV do not have virus, but h/p yes..........have VIRUS............... once
get it, terus KONG........hahahahaha......
so better choose TV .....

Jobby send me this article. after reading this. recalled me about plasma tv and LCD TV. Luckily there is variance of chooses nowaday..bear in mind we can choose to become what kind of TV we wanted to be. haha..just do not become a black and white TV else..it's not enjoyable and not valuable though.hahaha..

Thanks!

The Cave @ SS2

Went back to Cosmos for beta conversion. Then Carmen and i decided to have dinner together. Was a super jam day. Took 2 hours plus to reach ss2 from damansara perdana. Everyone is crazy looking for petrol station( no choice..fuel price increase 0.78/litre) and i saw all the petrol station is crowed like club aje..so happening..i got no choice i got empty tank also..1st time i queued for petrol le..tooks me another 20 mins. When Carmen reached my place she said she wanted to pump petrol also..so i took her to the station i went just now..we queue for 30mins and reached our turn..guess how much she pump??only 25 riggit..she actually hav more that half tank le..i guess all petrol station crowded because of this kind of people ...
Finally we can go for our dinner..we went to this new restaurant so called - couple cafe.. the whole cafe's interior was a "CAVE"

Finger Art

What fantastic art-paintings!
Finger Art recalls me R5...
The reason why we name ourselves R5 is because we never get too attached with each other. From the very beginning non of us is attached and all of us is always free and easy to each other..
Our outing was as colorful as the finger art above.
Non of us have the same characteristic..but we enjoyed and entertained ourselves max!!
From the 1st Genting trip to our last Penang trip in 3 months time..
As time goes by we so used to be with each other but it's seem that pretty hard to stay the joy and pride..
Trix is so emo today..she told me R5 is breaking up..she is sad ..
but i believe all R5 felt so...
i believe non of us ever forget those crazy time we've been through together..
snapping photo in the middle of road, singing as loud as we like in public..
Thousands of the photos became the evidence that showing how R5 is and am pretty sure we never ever get to form another R5 ..we R5 is just like finger arts..cheers~~

Memorable...

Billy Elliot...a very old movie which i watched in year 2000 with one of my very old friend ...almost forgot the movie name..but this movie really impressed me and do make me cried..haha..this is the 1st movie we went together..and he almost fall asleep..glad to hear from him again recently..there is lot of memories flashing back ...
how's thing start???

hmm..year 1999 should be..i was still fooling around...we met when we both working part time..
introduce by our friend name Sai Hoi..(well, lost contact with him...) ..
it's a sweet memories i can recalled..Billy Elliot was the 1st movie we catched together...
the last time we met up was you back from your industry training..and u telling me that u going to uk further studies...in Pan Bakery.. you're the only person who bought flower that night from the uncle..i guess...he should appreciated a lot and i do...

Thanks for not forgetting and brings back those sweet memories to me...
perhaps we can meet up very soon..and catch back those stories together...
You told me that Billy Elliot is showing live in London...really hope that we may watch it together..perhaps i may visit u one day later and we able to catch it together...

Dear friends, believe me...this is a very good movie...motivated and emotionality...to whom who like dancing is a very good movie also...u will love dancing after this...!!

http://www.londontheatrebookings.com/billyelliot.html

Happy Marridge...Chin Lee..

May collection..

Together with my lovely barry and my bestfriend eva..muakss~

lollipop cake

My breakfast...lollipop cake?hehe...

你听见了吗...

你听见了吗

用　什麼來弥補悲傷
用　什麼來換去彷徨
看　那灰色地帶
帶走了多少的愛
讓　我的雙手作溫暖
讓　他的肩作避風港
看　我們把淚光
化成了永恆的愛

那遠方的孩子
我都聽見了
你不要害怕
我給你曙光
讓我牵住
你的手吧
遠方的朋友
讓我們一同
走上希望的路
再創另一個天堂

Thanks ryan..
Thanks for sending me this youtube.
it's been year plus i neva heard from YiSe..
frankly speaking ..she improved lot lot...
really impressed me when i 1st listened to this song..
i will never forget the time i was together with her in da studio for the 新鲜 recording..hahaha..how many NG huh??
i was glad that she is getting famous now..

别再哭了

歌曲：别再哭了
歌手：罗忆诗

伤心情歌过期变了你对眼还是红红的
生命中有些过客现在不过多了一个
结束了何必再拉扯有心事总该遗忘的
你听着听着又哭了
我明白的谁都难免不舍
别再哭了多不值得
笑一笑把爱情看透彻
生活苦涩该他负责
他会后悔他做了这选择
别再哭了多不值得
失去也是另一种获得
伤心情歌不属你的
幸福不一定非爱谁不可
难傲的会经过的
伤心情歌过期变了你对眼还是红红的
生命中有些过客现在不过多了一个
结束了何必再拉扯有心事总该遗忘的
你听着听着又哭了
我明白的谁都难免不舍
别再哭了多不值得
笑一笑把爱情看透彻
生活苦涩该他负责
他会后悔他做了这选择
别再哭了多不值得
失去也是另一种获得
伤心情歌不属你的
幸福不一定非爱谁不可
爱错了又能如何
别再哭了不值得
笑着把爱情看透彻
生活苦涩他负责
他会后悔他做了这选择
别再哭了多不值得
失去也是另一种获得
伤心情歌不属你的
幸福不一定非爱谁不可
难傲的会经过的

Laser Google

THE ASTROLOGY OF DECEMBER 2012: DISASTER, ASCENSION OR BOTH?

According to many prophecies something important is about to happen in 2012.

In 2012 the center of the Galaxy is at 0 degree of the Western zodiacal sign Capricorn. 0 degree Capricorn is the point of the zodiac where the Sun is during the December solstice.

At December 21, 11.12 GMT during the December solstice the Sun is at the exact center of the Galaxy. According to the Mayas the center of the Galaxy is the cosmic womb: the place of dead, transformation, regeneration and rebirth. This moment shows the end of their calendar.

To the left you see a picture on how the Milky Way appears in a part of the world that has no problems with light pollution.

Below you see a picture of the center of the Galaxy. The picture shows a light cluster of stars. Underneath these light stars (a bit to the right) you see a circle of stars that surrounds a dark part of the sky. This dark part is a gigantic black hole which is the center of the Galaxy. This dark hole is a region of immense spiritual power.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THE ASTROLOGICAL CHART

The Sun is at 0 degrees Capricorn, the point of the December solstice. It makes a sextile to Neptune, right at the beginning of Pisces. This is an almost exact sextile. The orb is less then half a degree. This aspect can point towards a spiritual experience, a loss or both.

The most important configuration is a yod which we find in the chart. This is also called the Finger of God. It looks like an arrow in the chart and it indicates change and transformations. .

The yod consists of:

1. A quincunx (150 degree aspect) between Jupiter and Pluto.

2. A quincunx between Jupiter and Saturn.

3. A central opposition (180 degree aspect) made between Jupiter and the Mercury/Venus conjunction.

The two quincunxes are almost exact, they have an orb of less then half a degree. In fact the quincunx between Jupiter and Pluto is exact at December 21 2012.

THE MEANING OF THE ASTROLOGICAL CHART

Pluto is the planet of radical transformation, death and rebirth.

Saturn is the planet of the earthly realm and of learning experiences, especially those of a more painful nature.

Jupiter is the planet of expansion. It is the focus of the yod, the planet which receives the strong energy of the other planets involved. It also expands the energy of the other planets involved (especially Saturn and Pluto).

This yod indicates transformational processes which can be painful for many.

Jupiter has a central place in this because it is the focal point of the energy. This indicates changes in our religious systems, beliefs, philosophical systems. These fall under Jupiter.

Another notable configuration is the T-square with Neptune as focal point:

• Jupiter makes a square (90 degree aspect) to Neptune.
• Neptune makes a square to Venus.
• Venus opposes Jupiter, this is the central opposition that activates the yod.

Therefore Neptune, the planet of spirituality, ascension, confusion and floods is a crucial planet in this chart.

R5 Wine Session

Am so sorry dat i couldn't join the session..
really touched when Trix sent me dis pic..she told me although am not there but they neva forget me..and took picture together with me ( am in the tiny mobile phone..it's me !!!)
hahaha...
so sorry gals..and boy.
Replied Messages that given by them on that day when i refused to join as below:
Betty: not excepted!!!
Boy: Unforgiven!
Su: Owe us a meal...
Connie: Eat & Drink u pay 4 a month..
Trix: niasing kns!!! (rude???but dis is Trixxx!!...haha!!!)
Sheryl: james b my slave 4 a month..
Chai: come & pay for the bill!!! ( who is dis anyway???no idea!!!!...)

RELATIONSHIP: Did I Marry The Right Person

This is a very good article. Got it from Kitto's blog. Those who are still single may learn something from here...

Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their
idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to
DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened
TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will
notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.'
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make'
love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.

放手不代表承认失败，放手只是为自己再找更美好的路走!

当你遇到一件事，已无法解决，甚至是已经影响到你的生活，心情时，何不停下脚步，暂时得想一想是否有转寰的空间。或许换种方法，换条路走，诗情便会简单点。
但，通常在那一刻，我们并来不及想到这些，只是一昧的在原地踏步，绕圈，让自己一直的陷在痛苦的深渊中。
生命中总有挫折，那不是尽头，只是在提醒你：该转弯了！
放手不代表承认失败，放手只是为自己再找条更美的路走！

请记得：

不是路已走到尽头，而是该转弯了！

人生有许多出口。

只不过有些路的确不好走；只不过它不是原先设想的结果;只不过我们经常执意碰壁，不肯转身，回头;只不过因为内心实在不愿面对现实。。所以，赖着不走。

人生，不管走到什么绝境，总有许多个出口，你可以在理性分析之后，做出选择。就算别无选择，也是一种选择。只要你愿意积极面对，然后对那个选择负起着责任，总有一天，会从这个出口，找到属于自己的幸福。

做人嘛，真的不该要求太多。待人嘛，标准更不该订的抬高。长长，我们总是看见事情的某一个角度罢了，坏的一面也须先露了出来，但我们看看好的一面又有何妨呢？可能坏的那一面是你能接受的，而好的一面是你过去所寻找的。

有些事与物可能有着普通的外表，但里边藏着的也许是好的馅儿，所以我们不如先尝尝，再来作定断也不迟，总比错过而后悔来的强。

人生，最可喜的事莫过于轻视现在所能拥有的，一直要等错过以后，才发现拥有的当时多么的痴傻。

[ 失去] 的本身，并不真得那么可惜，可惜的事，[拥有]的时候，没有认真对待。

人的不快乐往往在于不知道珍爱自己有的，却去羡慕别人有的

人的失败却又常常源于不懂得开发自己有的，却去妒嫉别人有的

别等到失去了，才知道自己要的是什么
别等到失去了，才懂得自己拥有是什么

Thanks kit, thanks for the article you posted into ur blog...

Stress???

A lecturer was giving a lecture to his student on stress management.

He raised a glass of water and asked the audience,

"How heavy do you think this glass of water is?"

The students answers ranged from 20g to 500gm.

"It does not matter on the absolute weight.

It depends on how long you hold it.

If I hold it for a minute. It is Ok.

If I hold it for an hour, I will have an ache in my right arm.

If I hold it for a day, you will have to call an ambulance.

It is the exact same weight but the longer I hold it,

the heavier it becomes."

"If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later,

we will not be able to carry on as the burden becoming

increasingly heavier.

What you have to do is to put the glass down,

rest for a while before holding it up again."

We have to put down the burden periodically,

so that we can be refreshed and are able to carry on.

So before you return home from work tonight,

put the burden of work down.

Don't carry it back home. You can pick it up tomorrow.

Whatever burdens you are having now on your shoulders,

let it down for a moment if you can.

Pick it up again later when you have rested.

Rest and relax. Life is short.

International Balloon Fiesta @ Malaysia

Date: 1st - 4th May 2008
Venue: Shah Alam Stadium, Selangor Darul Ehsan

International Balloon Fiesta @ Malaysia (IBFM) is a novel, colourful, family-oriented festival to showcase the wonderful world of ballooning sport.

•IBFM will promote ballooning to ASEAN countries & Malaysia as an ideal tropical destinations for balloonists.

- More than 40 International balloonist teams participating
- Estimate 500,000 visitors
- 3 ½ Days of Fun Filled Programs:
- Over 100 Trade Vendors (Arts, Craft, Food)
- Morning & Evening Flight
- Night Glow
- Concerts, Sky Diving Stunts & Motorcycle Stunts
- Cultural Performances
- Competitions - Photography, Paintball, Futsal, Go Kart, Remote Control Cars, Mountain Bike & Rock Climbing
For more details, browse to www.balloonfiesta.com.my or call 03-5638 8890.

Earth Day

SAVE the EARTH!!! BE GREEN............

Earth Day is a name used for two different observances, both held annually during spring in the northern hemisphere, and autumn in the southern hemisphere. These are intended to inspire awareness of and appreciation for the Earth's environment. The United Nations celebrates an Earth Day each year on the March equinox, a tradition which was founded by John McConnell in 1969. A second Earth Day, which was founded by Gaylord Nelson as an environmental teach-in in the late 1960s, is celebrated in many countries each year on April 22.

Random 5 Freeze!

R5 coundn't manage to FREEZE together at 8pm. but...we FREEZE ourselve after that..hahaha
here some pic we took.. Let's see how R5 posed....

Before and After Marriage...

Before marriage....

He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.She: Darling!

After marriage.... Simply read from bottom to top.

World Earth Day" FREEZE @ Sunway Pyramid

FREEZE???? What's that?

All i knew is dress in green and be there at 7.30pm. this is what information i got from boy.

We were given a paper note of instruction as to where the check point was and what to do then.

So, my friends and I gathered with a few familiar faces and friends in front of Jusco. Many shoppers looked at us puzzled and wondered why this whole bunch of people suddenly flood the lower ground floor of the new wing. We are just chatting and wondering what is going to happen next. AND SO IT GOES.... 5....4....3....2...... 1!! *crak!!* all jadi batu d... STONED! shit...we're not into the pose we wanted yet. am trying to turned and looked what's happening..my body was half turn..Boy are facing me with his 2 hand..he actually come towards me and shake me..hahaha..but end up.. STONED! DIE!! we 're still chatting with each other cos we does not freeze our mouth and eyes..hahaha..it's fun and weird when we saw some poeple really hold da pose even eye's ball..just like a waxworks for 5 minutes.

more pictures will be posting soon once i got it.. :)

happy birthday to my dearly jiu zai!!!

coco banana?

Breakup letter generator..

Jobby told me that there is a breakup letter generator..just a click away to change your love letter to a breakup letter..it's fun ya..!

dunno how to write a letter??click the link below, it will help ya!
http://www.dearjohn.com/