Love quote of the day..

"i love life. am sad, but at the same time, am really happy that something can make me feel that sad. It's like it makes me feel alive. It makes me feel human. The only way i can feel this sad now is if i felt something really good before. So i have to take the bad with the good. So i guess what am feeling now is a beautiful sadness."

Trix showed me dis from her fren's blog..hmm..somehow..it's telling the truth i guess..

幾種令你又愛又恨的男人

妳會喜歡那一種?.....而你又是那一種?

1. 孝順父母的男人……裙腳仔

* 愛他的原因︰

對家人好的男人，十分注重家庭觀念，思想傳統，有責任感有承擔, 個性較為斯文有耐性，是賢妻良母型女性的絕配。

* 恨他的原因︰一句「阿媽話……」成為了他的擋箭牌，買樓、結婚、生仔，無一不徵詢過阿媽同意，沒有主見的裙腳仔，你受得了嗎？


2. 「好 man」的男人……野蠻人

* 愛他的原因︰缺乏安全感的女人都想有一個性格剛烈的男人來保護自己。你會臣服在他的威嚴之下，更會相信他使用暴力是有必要的。

* 恨他的原因︰當事情發展到「好man」的男人認為「女人唔聽話就要打」，你便不得不死心了。而且性格剛烈的男人，容易與人結怨，與他出街，小心有人尋仇。


3. 「無腳鳥」男人……多情種

* 愛他的原因︰愛追求浪漫的女人，開始的時候都喜歡與「無腳鳥」男人把酒談歡，因為他們風趣幽默，無憂無慮。更重要的是，天真的女人常以為自己能夠成為「無腳鳥」男人的最後一站……

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當女人發現自己不是尾站，便心有不甘，幾經拉扯仍然不得要領，唯有怨恨多情種欺騙其感情，有些烈女更會將這個「臭男人」唱通街，以洩心頭之恨。其實「無腳鳥」男人一直無變，只是女人忽然醒覺罷了。


4. 令得你滿心歡喜的男人……空頭支票

* 愛他的原因︰男人沒有幽默感，比起長相平凡更可悲。女人總是愛聽有新意的情話，懂得用說話令得你滿心歡喜的男人，比起靚仔更討好。

* 恨他的原因︰當你發現他的話無句真，發誓當食生菜，你便開始討厭他的甜言蜜語，開始懷疑他對別的女人也是同樣口蜜，甚至你會懷疑他是一張空頭支票...


5. 為你排難解紛的男人……大男人

* 愛他的原因︰沒有主見的女人都會愛上一個能替她排難解紛的男人。他是你的指南針、盲公竹，事事有他來決定，自己亦樂得清閒。

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當你有天驚覺這個男人反客為主，固執霸道之餘， 對你的感受更是愛理不理，你便會開始抱怨這個大男人不解溫柔兼粗心大意

Got this article from jobby's blog..
hmm..i love and hate... is the combination of
孝順父母的男人+令得你滿心歡喜的男人 = 裙腳仔+空頭支票
how come am so stupid ar?haihss...

meaningful quote of life

The way to find love,

isn't finding the person but loving the imperfect person perfectly,

true love has no happy ending.

It simply doesn't end

Today, my coll Trix suddenly asked me dis..

Trix : Gal, would you go for someone you love or beloved by someone?

me : hmm...i always like to go for someone i love but am learning to how to beloved..

Trix : why?..

me : it's tiring to love someone..

Trix : but don't you think it's won't be as happy as it is..

(silence ~~ )

(1 min later)

me : yea. i do know that. but somehow..life is complicated. (life always goes the opposite way we want..sighs..)

THE CALLING - Could It Be Any Harder

You left me with goodbye and open arms
A cut so deep I don't deserve
You were always invincible in my eyes
the only thing against us now is time
[Chorus:]
Could it be any harder to say goodbye and without you,
Could it be any harder to watch you go, to face whats true
If I only had one more day
I lie down and blind myself with laughter
A quick fix of hope is what I'm needing
And now i wish that i could turn back the hours
But i know i just don't have the power
[Chorus]
I'd jump at the chance
Wed drink and wed dance
And I'd listen close to your every word,
As if its your last, I know its your last,
Cause today, oh, you're gone
[Chorus]
Like sand on my feet
The smell of sweet perfume
You stick to me forever,baby
and I wish you didn't go,
I wish you didn't go
I wish you didn't go away
To touch you again,
With life in your hands
It couldn't be any harder

Got this song from Fara's blog. it's meaningful i guess..

Hazzy Situation

Starry, starry night

Paint your palette blue and gray

Look out on a summer's day

With eyes that know the darkness in my soul

Shadows on the hills

Sketch the trees and the daffodils

Catch the breeze and the winter chills

In colors on the snowy linen land

Suddenly thought of this song ..and my inner heart brought me deeply to this feeling..

calm but excited..am going to have a big challenges in life again.

I'd decided to go for a super low pay job(for me)hahaha..wondering how can i get over it for the coming 3 months. Life really complicated and confusing..human always have to stand on the "scale" situation. "Choosing" and "deciding" always comes to our mind. And now, i'm looking towards to my interest. People might thinking am crazy. But somehow..if i never try to step forwards i afraid i might be regret..It had been too many things that i've been done cames to "regretness".But just bear in mind, no matter how it gonna be..is my own decison..

Tired Weekend

After my tired weekend ..finally Rivan back to Taiwan. But we did learn lots of phase from him, example.."黑暗中的你看起来很好", "竹竿插貢丸", "肥鸟依人"~~ let me explain one by one..

"黑暗中的你看起来很好" -- we was debating about this..Rivan thought this is compliment to a girl which is not pretty and this phase might make her felt better. But in our girl's opinion is .. this phase is so lampoon. Girl's will never felt better if heard this ..hahaha..

"竹竿插貢丸" -- i guess..people is wondering what is this..well, just imagine..a couple with extreamly different "bodyshapping" walks by ..i think this is clear enought for all of us to understand~

"肥鸟依人" -- there's always what we heard is "小鸟依人". i think this is easy to understand! This phase cames out because this Rivan saw a couple walks by our side when we 're having our delicious wings in Izzy Restaurant.hahahaha..

Pavillion tea-time

My 1st time to Pavillion. i think it's gonna be our hottest hang out place soon. the shopping's structure there is perfect. nice place for tea especially~~ But i will only go after the Redbox Plus and the GSC is done. i think is the best shopping in Malaysia now.

Melacca Day trip

hahaha..i almost forgot when was my last time to melacca. Basically we went this time is because of Rivan since he never been to Malaysia before. For sure we need to bring him to our most historical place. But Melacca seem changed alot. We went to the Pahlawan Mall which is brand new opposite the Mahkota Parade. hmm..not bad. Because..MNG - Mango outlet is there..hahahahah..

Jonker Walk 's for sure we went as well. I still remember that night..there's a Super Uncle. let me recall..they did mention he is what melacca 's icon ..hahaha..once he starting to voices out..damn scary man..the earth is slight shaking i guess..it's so annoying..haihz..wondering how come he dare to go up the stage??-- As usual, we bought lot earings that night also..hehe..

Pure BaR-- we went..Melacca's most popular club i guess..atmosphere is almost like KL. but peaple..hmm..there's still differences. Songs they playing is what i use to listen 2 years ago..but anyhow we still enjoy ourselves there.

latest color..

愛情自助餐

愛情就好像大酒店裡的自助餐；不同的美食琳瑯滿目、任君選擇。不同的感情，不同的食物；
日本魚生似什麼呢？生食的時候，新鮮美味，加少許日本芥辣更覺刺激，回味無窮。如果你將那些魚生煮熟了，還有沒有這種感覺？沒有了！任何調味品都找不回「生」那種口感，這就是一夜情的男女，一次生、兩次熟、三次就大結局，所以熟了後就不會再有這種感情的了。
另外，有燒牛肉，待應生一塊一塊地切那些牛肉給客人，半生熟的肉質還有少少血水，入口時候軟硬適中，咬到根的部分時，需要些牙力，就像初相識的男女，表面帶著瞭解與未瞭解之間，帶有赤裸裸的新鮮感，偶爾會出現溝通的問題，大家而要時間來尋求共識；這種初戀的感覺不竟是最叫拍拖中的男女回味的。
甜品又如何，各式各樣的布丁、蛋糕、果批、芝士餅‧‧‧各種各樣顏色鮮艷入口香甜，就像熱戀中的男女，食什麼都甜的，做什麼都好玩些，因為這世界就像甜品一樣，過了這個時間，又是另一種感覺的了！
結婚後的男女實而不華，就像平淡而又味道甘美的雜菜沙拉，不需要太多調味品，不需要複雜的煮製過程，但永遠都是最耐食的。
吃飽了，來一杯奶茶或檸檬荼，你要甜便多加些糖，你要酸便加多些檸檬，這就是懂得享受愛情的男女，一切甜酸都是由你一手創造，只要你願意，甜可以變酸，但你不理它，酸就會變得更酸！
愛情就像自助餐，吃得太多便會太飽！
你的愛情像什麼??
日本魚生 ? 牛肉 ?甜品 ? 雜菜沙拉 ? 奶茶或檸檬荼 ?

~~讨厌甜品热爱日本魚生的我又能如何？唯有舍弃挚爱追求幸福~~哇哈哈！！真伟大~~

換個愛的角度

Got this article from jobby....

有時，伴侶之間的相處，時間越久，大家越親近，一切開始變得奉旨、routine、沈悶，沒有一個意識要保持當初「愛的狀態」，或許亦覺得無謂、懶得去製造什麼新鮮感，去維繫大家的關係。當然也會將對方的缺點不斷放大，然後什麼都變得不順眼了，甚至開始懷疑自己當初是否瞎了眼才選那樣的人。不過，如果願意退後一步，用一個嶄新的角度去認識對方，用最初的一份單純/尋找刺激新鮮感的態度去跟對方相處，當他是一個初相識的人去交心談情，你會重新發現那個可愛的他，那一個「真愛」、那個「成世未試過遇到咁夾的人」。換個角度、換個期待、換個心情，身邊的人就會變得不一樣。到最後，一切還是從自己出發吧。

We love because it's the only true adventure.

the worst day i had of da year

Actually it must be the happiest day i should have since my best friend is getting married tomolo and my cousin also..
but..things just happened..
2 of my bro caught in accident ..
when eric called me and tell me that they caught in accident..i thought it's not that serious until i reach the place.
the car was total lost and alan is lying there and keep vommiting bloodssss..it's so scary..
the worst thing is the 1st ambulance rejected to send him to the hospital which i requested
end up we need to send him by ourselves.
we 1st send him to kelana medical but doctor tranfer him to subang medical since he need to admit to ICU.
really worries of him..until morning 6am only settled everything
7.30pm need to reach my best fren house to be her sis..
it's so tired and exhausted.
it's another lesson i had.
no matter how worried and sad..
life still goes on..
extremely exhausted..
back from hospital ..be my best friend's sis..visited alan..attended cousin wedding and my best friend wedding..
seem like am super active ..
luckily...everything..just goes well..
graceful wedding my best friend had
alan 's in stable condition now ..

Happy Birthday to my dearest~

Happy Happy 25th birthday!!
Have a great one and a glorious yeat ahead~
May you stay pretty pretty and healthy 4va!!

The Courtyard Garden

Down-to-earth and unpretentious with excellent food and service. This will certainly leave a lingering, pleasant after-taste and an experience to treasure. Established in 2003, The Courtyard Garden is nestled amidst a charming haven of greenery and tranquility right in the heart of Damansara Heights, Kuala Lumpur. A charming bungalow refurbished in Balinese décor, fine-dining takes on new heights with an exciting range of flavors and culinary styles, offering a colorful gastronomic adventure with a fusion of cultural influences topped off with excellent service. Food and ambience stand on equal footing when it comes to a memorable dining experienc e here at The Courtyard Garden.Looking for a charming haven to wine and dine your most important clients? A cozy place to unwind in the company of good friends? The Courtyard Garden makes an exquisite choice for any occassion. Because here, dining is more than a tantalizing encounter. It is an experience to treasure.

Food that we ordered

Appetizer

1. Katipas chesse and mushroom


2. Wagyu roll

Delicious mushroom soup

Main course:

1. Eastern Lamb
   Aromatic oriental five spices marinated lamb shanks braised to perfection served with mashed potato and brunoise of vegetables


2. Char Grilled Wagyu Beef (200gms)
   Our house specialty, juicy wagyu beef served with an exotic mix of sautéed potatoes, vegetables of the day and accompanied with oven roasted garlic sauce

鱼与熊掌，不能两者兼得!有得必有失..

Day after day...
being a decision maker is so damn hard
someone asked me list out the pro and con
someone asked me just follow your heart
someone even asked me not to think so much~
Well,
no matter how hard but still need to make the decision
dear god,
i've make up my mind
after listening to all my supporting friends
they never make any decision for me
but all the advised really helps~~
bless all my friends 4eva ya

barry barry

marathon weekend..kite flying and kite flying

kite ..kite..kite..and kite..
hahaha..my 1st octopus flew away on saturday..
but ..i bought another octopus again..hahahha..
sunday went kite flying again..
1st time playing under the rain..
luckily not too heavy~~

kites flying..

another day of kite flying..no more seremban but selayang dis time.
luv my lovely kites so much le..but it's spoiled and cant fly any more.
haihz..

想知道结婚后你会变成怎样的女人吗？

算算你是哪种类型的老婆 想知道结婚后你会变成怎样的女人吗？女生请测试，男生请发给你认识的女生。

1、你理想中的屋子外形是怎样的？
A、具欧洲古堡风情的红砖屋
B、素净简单的美式白色小屋
C、有大自然风味的木制乡村屋

2、你觉得屋子门口放什么会吸引别人呢？
A、充满大自然感觉的大鱼缸
B、富贵堂皇的大理石大道
C、浪漫温馨的鲜花拱门

3、如果有与众不同的柜子，你觉得是怎样的？
A、可以抽真空的衣柜，衣服不易变坏。
B、有香味的衣柜，可令衣服带有芳香。
C、高科技电动衣柜，可自动感应开关。

4、你的书房会设计成怎样？
A、Office 大老板房的事业型
B、经典设计的简约型
C、学校式木制台椅般的怀旧型。

5、你房间的墙型会用什么颜色？
A、简约的使用单色
B、如云、鸟或树等大自然的图案
C、方格、图形或直间等图案

6、房里有个柜子会是什么形状？
A、正方形
B、不规则的几何形
C、太空式的圆桶形
计分: 选A得1分，B得2分，C得3分。

算好了吗？算好再往下看答案:


A 、6~8分　　终极黄脸婆
你从结婚之日起，脸上就开始变色，天天妆也不化，身材也懒得理，脸色渐渐从白里透红变成暗黄惨白，老公开始对你有微言,下班也不愿回来对着你。之后你会终日郁郁寡欢，乱发脾气，经常和老公吵闹，其实婚后外貌要保持外，感情也一样要Keep。


B 、9~11分　　女强人老婆
你算是模范女子的佼佼者，不止入得厨房出得厅堂，还有自己的事业，深得男人心之余，女人也会以你为榜样。你坚持要有自己的事业，不用老公养，且具备中国传统女性的美德，无论工作有多忙，你都一定会抽空打理家务，照顾家人，相对来说家庭是你的首选。


C 、12~14分　富贵型老婆
你视财如命，物欲与享乐是你生命中不能缺少的，所以你婚后的生活会多姿多采，天天逛街Shopping。你的老公没钱也不要紧，反正你一生都在研究如何压诈你的另一半，而且你一定会找到想找的那个人。


D、15~18分　残废型老婆
婚后的你会致力于被老公照顾为己任，从拍拖开始，他已经把你照顾得无微不至，有钱的话他一定会请保姆帮你做家务，就算没钱也不会让你做，象拖地、洗碗这样的事他一定会争着做，最多让你抹抹桌子，你真是好命啊！