Something meaningful..

Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

When you say, 'I love you,' mea n it.

When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

Believe in love at first sight.

Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling..

Don't judge people by their relatives.

Talk slowly but think quickly.

When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

Spend some time alone.

tiring day....and the colorful cheers me

i almost forgot we took dis picture..it's damn cute..

Grabbed from lil' pixie (sticker trix) friendster...

this is my 1st post to tell how is my new job..

it's so tiring man...i guess there is no other words can be describe how i feel but just exhausted.

am i too relaxed for the past 3 months? or am too enjoyed my life until max!!!

get back to reality the life is tiring ..tiring..and now exhausted..

just only 3 weeks here but i felt that am 3 years here..haha..

there's never ending emails reading, enquries, and essay report waiting for me every day after day..

but...frankly i learned lots here. am glad to hav 2 supportive bosses here.

hopefully i can go on track soon..and get us to this super busy working environment.

just a short break dropping by here and i found this picture i took in last christmas..

the colorful cheers me up and i think it was the best christmas i ever had.

Jan 6?

1月6日 腳 踏 實 地
宮位：魔羯座15-17
魔羯座二

本位的土象
在1月6日出生的人看來，生命就是腳踏實地、不停地探索，不管是形而上的或是現實的生活，他們的目的只是要向自己和別人証明每件事情的真相。而他們這種要找出生命意義的欲望更是多方面的展現，如哲學上的研究，甚至只是在找尋最好的一種生活的方式。
這天出生的人當中，即使是最具物質傾向的，通常也相信有神明或自然宇宙間的神靈。對他們而言，人類的存在固然是個奇跡，但仍不足以証明宇宙力量的神奇。在他們當中，信奉精神主義者會將人類肉眼所看不見的事物或經驗，透奉獻、愛、責任和犧牲，具體呈現出來。他們對于生活中較為靈異的部分具有相當大的興趣，然而，這股興趣并非建立于外在表象，而是比較哲學且詩意的確良。雖然有極端主觀的傾向，他們還是能將自己奇特的想法清楚地達出來，使別人能夠了解。因此，不管他們的職業是哪一種，他們經常都會扮演教師的角色。
這天出生的人非常勇敢，不怕面對危險。這是因為他們不但能夠認清黑暗的力量，也能散發出天真和光明的力量，即使是鐵石心腸也會為之軟化，最惡劣的批評也終將消弭于無形。他們內有絕對人信念，即使走過最艱難的路途也堅定不搖。這種信念并非來自于個人的信心，而是一種信念，相信冥冥之中存在著超越自己的力量，會在某種程度上引導著每個人的命運。
1月6日出生的人，可能會面臨几個問題。最明顯的一個問題就是，他們會在很多地方看到自己的想法得到驗証，便因此相信每個事件的發生都有其特別的意義。因此，他們可能會強烈地需要有人追隨、崇拜他們，將他們視為生命之光而敬愛﹔而這正是他們面對的另一個問題。如此一來，便會有人覺得他們要求太多了。因為這些人喜歡活得輕松一點，也認為他人沒必要來教自己如何生活，更不喜歡這種隨時向別人宣揚証明自己，驗証自己觀察的人。
但是，不管怎么說，他們的反應真實、意見誠懇。或許有人會覺得他們并不實際，太渴求被別人需要﹔或許有些人會覺得他們很天真。不過，他們都是很穩定的個人，即使是在最善變的青年期也不會變來變去。然而，正因為他們擁有一顆赤子之心，對未知事物充滿了好奇和敬畏，這種態度使得他們可以比那些批評者，看到更多的事情。事實上，在他們的生命旅途中，或許借由經驗或對自己的研究，都能夠找到最適合的路。

幸運數字和守護星
1月6日出生的人，都受到數字6以及金星的影響。數字6使人很容易取得別人的同情和敬慕，也善于表達這兩種情緒。受土星（魔羯座的主宰行星）的影響，使得這天出生的人忠心耿耿，并有偶像崇拜的傾向。土星、金星的雙重作用，表示他們的感情生活極端不平常、復雜，而且充滿了困境。對于受數字6主宰的人而言，“情”字，經常是他們生命里最重要的主題。

健康
1月6日出生的人必須注意他們崇拜某人或是自我犧牲的傾向。他們可能會為了照顧別人人的需求而忽視自己的健康，最后累垮了自己。甚至可能會因為全心崇拜某個人，而被壞了自己的健康。這天出生的人必須在健康上維持適度和平衡。建立穩定、實在的飲食習慣，同時要培養合適的運動模式，維持足夠的睡眠，對他們的健康才有助益。

建議
切記，這是你自己的生命，別為他人而活，或依賴他們人而活。照顧自己，維持開放的心胸，與人分享。只服務值得你服務的人。

塔羅牌
大秘儀塔羅牌的第6張是“戀人”，這象征透過兩性結合的“愛”，能使全人類團結在一起。牌面正立時，這張牌代表道德、美學以及肉體上更高層次的感情與渴望﹔不過倒立時，則代表欲求不滿、多悉善感和遲疑不決。

靜思語
每個人都可能有無限的力量。

優點
有遠見、表達能力佳、藝朮性。

缺點
容易誤解、個性極端、脫離現實。

something touched..

finally got to read dis message which posted in wenping's blog...
and i wanna shares dis to everyone who reading my blog here..


Friday, January 04, 2008
you're somebody ..

i understand how ya feel..
receiving so many pressie one shot in midnite..
sorry tht me too being acting weird..
and..
can;t wait to give u all the pressie at one shot..
as i get used to it celelbrating ya birthday every 4th as u knw..
i'm so delighted that u like all the pressie that i gave ya..
as usual..
the pressie was nothing,
the most importantly i managed to suprise ya ..
haha~

i can;t believe we knwn each others for almost 5 yrs..
our meeting in pasar malam..
still so fresh in my mind too..
seriously..
i really do touched..
and..
appreaciate with all the compliment u wrote in your blog..
futher more..
even remember things tht we did together..
how we met met..
our first SG trip in 2nd week whn we met..
so many and everything that we did together..
so many great memories with ya..
you're the one who never fails to brighten my day all these yrs..
where ever i'm with ya..

perhaps its' like what u say..
"God blessed..
faith brought us together"..
i do hope you dun always think tht..
u're "nothing but an empty seats"..
although i dun really knw what really means..
but..
u knw i'll always be there for ya..
you're "somebody" to me..
last and least..
i really hope ya..
Be Happy Always...

posted by wenPing @ 12:22 AM

Thanks for being such a supportive friend to me always ya...
really appreciate that! hugssss~~~

Zodiac

SCORPIO - The Addict
EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humour. Energetic. Predict future. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want. Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Caring.

VIRGO - The One that Waits
Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only.

LIBRA - The Lame One
Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! however not the kind of person you wanna mess with ... u might end up crying...

ARIES - The Liar
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, Addictive. Loud.

AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water
Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out.

GEMINI - Irresistible
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in the you know where... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

LEO - The Lion
Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

CANCER - The Cutie
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

PISCES - The Partner for Life
Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around.Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover
Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to own Gemini's in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

TAURUS - The Tramp
Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth!

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One
Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give.
Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone They meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!!
Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying.

爱到八十岁。。

5岁的时候，我说我爱你。你歪着脑袋，眨着水晶般的大眼睛，疑惑地问我：'什么意思呀？

15 岁的时候，我说:' 我爱你'. 你的脸红得像火烧云，头深 深地低着，摆弄著衣襟，你好像在笑。

20 岁的时候，我说我爱你，你把头靠在我的肩上 ，紧紧地挽住我的手臂，像是下一秒 我就要消失一样。

25岁的 时候，我说我爱你，你把早餐放在桌上，跑过来刮了一下我的鼻子说： '知道了 !懒虫，该起床了！

30岁的时候，我说我爱你，你笑着说：'你呀！要是真的爱我，就别下了班到处跑，还有，别再忘了我叫你买的菜！'

40岁的时候 ，我说我爱你，你边收拾碗筷边无表 情的嘟囔着：'行了，行了，快去帮 孩子复习功课去吧！'

50 岁的时候，我说我爱你，你打着毛线 头也不抬：'真的？你心里是不是巴 不得我早点儿死掉。然后就咯咯咯地笑个不停。

60 岁的时候，我说我爱你，你笑着捶了 我一 ?shy;：死老头子 ! 孙子都这么大了，还贫嘴！

70岁的时候，我 们坐在摇椅上，戴着老花镜，欣赏着 50年前我给你的情书，我们已?shy;布满皱纹的手又握在了一起，那时侯我说我爱你， 你深情地望着我，你那已 ?shy;皱纹满面的脸仍是那么美丽?shy;?shy;炉子上的开 水咕嘟咕嘟地冒烟 , 温馨的暖意充满了整个屋子 ......

80岁的时候，你说你爱我。我什么也没说，因为我流泪了，但是那 是我人生最最快乐的日子，因为你终于说出了那句 '我--爱 --你 '。

Inmaginery

Thanks guys..

millions thanks for the makan session on my birthday..

especially andrewk..

great snap shot ~

Well,

just a lil intro of my buddy..

sherly, sticker trix, connie,

James, inmaginery, Su fei,

aLice, lovely boy, Bettina

(from left to right)

Wishes from my lovely AnnChyi..

Ann text mi and wishing mi happy birthday..
but too bad she wont be around..
she's on her way to Beijing le..
she promised will celebrate with me after she back wo..
can't wait to see her le..smiless..

2nd pressie..

Mum's called at 10am.
received parcel from Singapore..
i guess..is ZOE..
am still in office now..and can't wait to see my 2nd pressie le..
no matter what is the pressie is...
i will love it..so Zoe..no worries k..
happy not because of pressie..
appreciate that so much..
especially some blessing and wishing from far away..

1st pressie of year 2008

am speechless when i 1st saw my 1st pressie for my birthday..
sorry to acting strange and i think my reaction when i received.
millions thanks to my lovely fren ..
And i should mentioned his name here --> WENPING
appreciate that he alwis be there for me no matter what happen and whenever.
the feeling of SURPRISE left me many yearss...
and today...out of no where..i recall dis FEELING
really HIT my HEART~
while dropping every single words now ..the feeling of EXCITED still remains~
We been fren for 5 years i guess..but actually he is my primary schoolmate.
2 different people with totally different characters met one day in SS2 pasar malam 5 years ago. Our 1st topic is ..we both love movies..

Our 1st movie is staring by Miriam Yeung as i still remembered.

His favorite artist..hehe..

Uncountable movies we had been watching together..

We used to chased every latest show and we used to watched all the sneak preview and we even watched movies 5 days a week..

Strange that we hardly yumcha together until recent year

Our 1st yumcha session was at Pan Bakery at PJ Newtown as i remembered.

Our 1st trip was the 1st year and 2nd week we met after pasar malam to Singapore.

We even used to went church when both us are down..

We guess God blesss...

Faith brought us together..

i know U will alwis there for me as i promise i will be there for you whenever u needed me..

Last and least...

besides of THANK YOU i think there 's nothing all i can say to you..

my 1st 2008 Quote

Giving opens the way for receiving.

Relaxing week..

Beach...
i like beach
kind of tiring weekend i ever had.
the very 1st time i went out of town with people that i just known for a month plus..
but all can said it's fantastic.
my genting shooting trip..was great and my pd trip is kinda relax..
within 3 days i guess we had snap about 1000 pictures..
i really cannot inmagine if we not using the digital camara..
how much we going to spend on printing..
one more thing is...am interested in SLR camera..hahah..it's kinda sharp and damn lot function dat can play around..

Pre Christmas Celebration @ Inmagine

Party day..
Last day..
Pre Christmas Day..
i think i gonna miss all the inmagineers..
though just a month plus working here..
but ppl here is ..hmm..i think i should said.."great"
especially my lovely partner --> Trixie..
i guess i will never forget every moment that we been working together..
it's kind of funny actually..
both us like having never ending topics to chat everyday..
i will never forget we spend our whole day looking "online sms"
hahhaa...
well..my lovely trixx...please dun be so emo..
i knew u gonna miss me ..and me as well da same ya!!

back to reality

1)不辛苦點得世間財 ...
2)choosing a challenging work or a comfortable is like choosing to 面對現實 or to 逃避現實..

Got this from wenping's blog.thx for supporting me all these while.. i know i hav to back to the real world..
There's nothing to be perfect in this world..
After talking to you ..i only realize that i 've been "changed" What's goes wrong to me huh?
am too slumber for the past 3 months..am lazy enuf i guess..hahaha..
well..back to reality...we have to chase for our future..never stop as i used to said ..never try to be slumber as i used to be..

These are the type of women we should be marrying....Mordern women - so says the men ?

It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter-in-law arrives in the family, everything changes.
Some daughters-in-law are well trained and well mannered....They don't come to change the family, they are here to... (READ ON!)

The new wife was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner. As expected she gave a speech;
"My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family, firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine ."No, I will never do that, never in a million years."

"What do you mean my child?" asked the father-in-law.
"What I mean dad is (looking at her in-laws);

Those who used to wash the dishes must carry on washing them.
Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it.
Those who cooked should not stop at my account, AND
Those who used to clean should continue cleaning!!!

"And what are you here for?" enquired the mother-in-law.

"AS FOR ME, I'M HERE JUST TO ENTERTAIN YOUR SON!!!!!"

our first date after a month..

finally went PM with trix..she alwis said that we cannot go out after work since we known each other not even one month..
well, today is our "one month" anniversary..
we went pm together..
i think we both is crazy like hell..
keep buying alot and talked loud in da pm..
even one of the uncle turn back and looked at us one kind..
after our pm session really hot and tired.
we ate ice cream out side the cybercafe and taking pictures out there..
strange rite..hahaha..

Love quote of the day..

"i love life. am sad, but at the same time, am really happy that something can make me feel that sad. It's like it makes me feel alive. It makes me feel human. The only way i can feel this sad now is if i felt something really good before. So i have to take the bad with the good. So i guess what am feeling now is a beautiful sadness."

Trix showed me dis from her fren's blog..hmm..somehow..it's telling the truth i guess..

幾種令你又愛又恨的男人

妳會喜歡那一種?.....而你又是那一種?

1. 孝順父母的男人……裙腳仔

* 愛他的原因︰

對家人好的男人，十分注重家庭觀念，思想傳統，有責任感有承擔, 個性較為斯文有耐性，是賢妻良母型女性的絕配。

* 恨他的原因︰一句「阿媽話……」成為了他的擋箭牌，買樓、結婚、生仔，無一不徵詢過阿媽同意，沒有主見的裙腳仔，你受得了嗎？


2. 「好 man」的男人……野蠻人

* 愛他的原因︰缺乏安全感的女人都想有一個性格剛烈的男人來保護自己。你會臣服在他的威嚴之下，更會相信他使用暴力是有必要的。

* 恨他的原因︰當事情發展到「好man」的男人認為「女人唔聽話就要打」，你便不得不死心了。而且性格剛烈的男人，容易與人結怨，與他出街，小心有人尋仇。


3. 「無腳鳥」男人……多情種

* 愛他的原因︰愛追求浪漫的女人，開始的時候都喜歡與「無腳鳥」男人把酒談歡，因為他們風趣幽默，無憂無慮。更重要的是，天真的女人常以為自己能夠成為「無腳鳥」男人的最後一站……

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當女人發現自己不是尾站，便心有不甘，幾經拉扯仍然不得要領，唯有怨恨多情種欺騙其感情，有些烈女更會將這個「臭男人」唱通街，以洩心頭之恨。其實「無腳鳥」男人一直無變，只是女人忽然醒覺罷了。


4. 令得你滿心歡喜的男人……空頭支票

* 愛他的原因︰男人沒有幽默感，比起長相平凡更可悲。女人總是愛聽有新意的情話，懂得用說話令得你滿心歡喜的男人，比起靚仔更討好。

* 恨他的原因︰當你發現他的話無句真，發誓當食生菜，你便開始討厭他的甜言蜜語，開始懷疑他對別的女人也是同樣口蜜，甚至你會懷疑他是一張空頭支票...


5. 為你排難解紛的男人……大男人

* 愛他的原因︰沒有主見的女人都會愛上一個能替她排難解紛的男人。他是你的指南針、盲公竹，事事有他來決定，自己亦樂得清閒。

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當你有天驚覺這個男人反客為主，固執霸道之餘， 對你的感受更是愛理不理，你便會開始抱怨這個大男人不解溫柔兼粗心大意

Got this article from jobby's blog..
hmm..i love and hate... is the combination of
孝順父母的男人+令得你滿心歡喜的男人 = 裙腳仔+空頭支票
how come am so stupid ar?haihss...

meaningful quote of life

The way to find love,

isn't finding the person but loving the imperfect person perfectly,

true love has no happy ending.

It simply doesn't end

Today, my coll Trix suddenly asked me dis..

Trix : Gal, would you go for someone you love or beloved by someone?

me : hmm...i always like to go for someone i love but am learning to how to beloved..

Trix : why?..

me : it's tiring to love someone..

Trix : but don't you think it's won't be as happy as it is..

(silence ~~ )

(1 min later)

me : yea. i do know that. but somehow..life is complicated. (life always goes the opposite way we want..sighs..)

THE CALLING - Could It Be Any Harder

You left me with goodbye and open arms
A cut so deep I don't deserve
You were always invincible in my eyes
the only thing against us now is time
[Chorus:]
Could it be any harder to say goodbye and without you,
Could it be any harder to watch you go, to face whats true
If I only had one more day
I lie down and blind myself with laughter
A quick fix of hope is what I'm needing
And now i wish that i could turn back the hours
But i know i just don't have the power
[Chorus]
I'd jump at the chance
Wed drink and wed dance
And I'd listen close to your every word,
As if its your last, I know its your last,
Cause today, oh, you're gone
[Chorus]
Like sand on my feet
The smell of sweet perfume
You stick to me forever,baby
and I wish you didn't go,
I wish you didn't go
I wish you didn't go away
To touch you again,
With life in your hands
It couldn't be any harder

Got this song from Fara's blog. it's meaningful i guess..