the Holiday

Director: Nancy Meyers
Cast: Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet, Jude Law, Jack Black, Eli Wallach.

Iris is in love with a man who is about to marry another woman. Across the globe, Amanda realizes the man she lives with has been unfaithful. Two women who have never met and live 6000 miles apart, find themselves in the exact same place. They meet online at a home exchange website and impulsively switch homes for the holiday. Iris moves into Amanda's L.A. house in sunny California as Amanda arrives in the snow covered English countryside. Shortly after arriving at their destinations, both women find the last thing either wants or expects: a new romance. Amanda is charmed by Iris' handsome brother Graham and Iris, with inspiration provided by legendary screenwriter Arthur, mends her heart when she meets film composer Miles.

Keep in mind Before Marry

嫁人之前要背熟的 10句話!

01. 不怕嫁老,就怕嫁小。如果你的男友只有二十幾歲或十幾歲,你可以失身,但不能嫁。男人三十三歲左右是個不錯的年紀。
02. 嫁有錢的還是沒錢的？嫁願意為你花錢的!
03. 離婚的男人嫁不嫁？離一次婚的男人是塊寶,離兩次婚的男人是根草。
04. 嫁事業型的還是家庭型的？籠統而言,家庭型的。
05. 嫁什麼性格的人？嫁人嫁的是性格,其他的一切都會離你遠去,相似的性格好過互補的性格。06. 嫁人要不要占星問卜？要!最好找人問一下手相、面相和八字。如果你做不到,那至少應該深入瞭解他的血型和星座。有人管這叫「迷信」, 但「迷信」這東西很神奇。
07. 什麼樣的男人是大忌？什麼樣的男人是大善？自私的男人是大忌,有責任感的男人是大善。
08. 北方的男人好還是南方的男人好？北方的嫁北方的,南方的嫁南方南方的。
09. 花心的男人嫁不嫁？男人是多偶制動物,沒有不「花心」的男人,但有「有自制力」的男人。10. 門要當,戶要對。其實這一句話把所有的都概括了。老祖宗的話簡練精闢。呵呵,年輕時不懂事,覺著這是瞎扯。現在想來這老祖宗的經驗不能不聽啊,說的真是在理兒。老祖宗還是厲害啊。咱是越大越看的清楚嘍!好事兒啊,呵呵,環境造就人嘛!門不當,戶不對,自然也就不是一路人。

還有一條很重要很重要:嫁個有學問的還是沒有什麼學問的？嫁要嫁個和自己差不多 的,不能嫁一個你大學,他小學的,要這樣的話,我保證以後都沒有什麼共同語言。以前我還不信這個,現在我是倍兒相信。

不是看不起那些學歷低的人,但是有的時候他們的思維方式就是和你不一樣,很多話理解也和你相差甚遠。你解釋也沒有用,他還是用他的思維方式和你說話,永遠上不了該上的台階。

再加一條:老實的男人嫁不嫁？老實的男人固然有,但 要嫁那種思路敏捷的老實人。

Love quote of the day

The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.

it's been few days since da day ... i think am just hav to take it..

Another challenge with my dearest friend

One forgives to the degree that one loves.

After a talks with tears..
I hope it really help to us..
Indulgence made us apart?
I never ever thought of this..
upset to see you in sad,
hurt when we facing each other speechless,
Consolable that you too felt the pretending and acting..and the pain,
am sorry if I ever hurt your feeling,
am sorry if I really push you to the edge,
am sorry that I couldn't help in your situation,
am sorry to tell you that your selfishness brought you a side
am sorry that I have to tell you the truth thou I know you it might hurt your feeling,
am sorry, because I don't want you to be abandon by everyone..
But do keep in mind,
am still side you and defer to the decision that you made.
but still have to remind you before everything is too late
Not to offend if my wording is sharp..
I had lost many thing recently
and I can't afford to lose you..
Please take care your self,
Although you didn't promise me anything after all
But your hugs safe my soul..

Tamia - Officially Missing You

Hmm... Ooh...ooh...

All I hear is raindrops falling on the rooftop
Oh baby, tell me why’d you have to go
'Cause this pain I feel it won’t go away
And today I’m officially missin’ you

I thought that from this heartache, I could escape
But I’ve fronted long enough to know
There ain’t no way
And today I’m officially missing you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

All I do is lay around, 2 years full of tears
From looking at your face on the wall
Just a week ago you were my baby
Now I don’t even know you at all, I don’t know you at all

Well, I wish that you would call me right now
So that I could get through to you somehow
But I guess it’s safe to say, baby, safe to say
that I-I’m officially missin’ you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially

Well, I thought I could just get over you, baby
But I see there’s something I just can’t do
From the way you would hold me
To the sweet things you told me
I just can’t find a way to let go of you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

It’s official
Hoo, you know that I’m missin’ you, yeah, yes
All I hear is raindrops, oh, yeah
And I-I’m officially missin’ you

to my dear..

Dear, am up set when I received your sms just now, I have been trying thousand time hope to talk to you but you turn off the phone. Yes, you’re damn selfish. You just drop a sms when you felt like you wanted to tell me something. But you never give me a single chance to reply or anything. Frankly, even now, I still take you as my very close friend and I wish our relationship will not chance just because of this. I understand your situation, not to offend though I disagree with the decision you had made. But at least I hope we could share everything together. Just like how we use to be last time. Try to remember those days we had been through together. As your sms you mention that you had no guts to face me, please dear. You’re too much. I took you not only my normal friend. You’re some kind like my sibling now. You told me that you’re really sad on that Saturday night. You felt the strange between us. I do felt that. I’m so sorry that I didn’t say Hi to him. You know am playing mahjong what. Am not avoiding or ignoring him either. To me no matter he is there or not is not important to me. Both us become strange because he is there with you and I thought you should accompany him since he doesn’t know anyone there. That’s why I thought not to interrupt. But if this make you think that because of him and make both us become strange then I can tell you, you had got me wrong. Our relationship always comes 1st to me no matter how and what happen. I really appreciate you a lot dear. The day in msn I told you that I felt that we’re getting apart. It’s true since you send me the sms just now. But I hope you can really give us a chance to hold back our relationship and not just to inform each other thru sms.

We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.

25th Birthday - GRowing Up..

As the matter of fact, there was some mixed complicated feeling.There are everlasting memories ->-> the feeling when being alone with fear recalling the couple of years with my “buddy”, no matter what and how they're alwis there for me.
unforgettable and indeed all that am thirstily depriving of nowadays. But now, thing is not alwis to be share frankly. There is something that need to be overtaking by ownself. I guess this is one of the growing-up thing. It was simply occupied and feeling complete when we were young. Life was just about what we like to do momentarily and feeling great about it; of cause plus some naïve anticipation about the beautiful future being an adult. Well, when we finally earned the title as an “ADULT”.. Does that sound as exciting as it was supposed to be? Can we do just what we like to do? Life is more about what we have to do.. We are doing what is necessary and pleasures have become a bonus. Too much stress about life.. too much consideration for the reality.. we are doing what we need to do pursuing the ultimate goal in our lives.. Hypothetically a better life and presumably a happier one….. but what is a happier life? "Tired" is what i can said after all. Recalling my "buddy" make me strong and the third dimension of living. TOday is my 25th birthday and the mixed complicated feeling wake me up to the reality. Thank you to all my "buddy" especially emily whose purposely came back from Penang for me and others whose really keep me as their "buddy". Thank you for your accompanied in my hard time and GLaD to have you guyz.

Happy 2007

2006 is gone but it has also made us strong.
The path was long but we walk it with a song.
There were fears and tears.
And now 2007 has arrived,
It will be a good year and bright year for us,
Therefore we cheers..

农夫 爱似林一峰 (Feat. 林一峰)

你愛一架飛機　我愛一個杯
你愛我個細佬　我愛你個妹
你應愛李英愛　李英愛愛李英宰
定係愛冇話應該唔應該

愛似是陽光空氣　愛似是陽光空氣

愛　愛有人話真愛係無價
愛　愛我話真愛無得講價
首先要有大把身家
再有奶媽管家
車唔只得一架最好有司機楂
事實係事實　愛情係現實
你無車無樓無番狗
做乜要拖我手
女人最忌無品　男人最忌無銀
所以幾百張心意卡比唔上白金既附屬卡
林子祥無呃你　係你自己呃自己

鹹魚白菜也好好味

戶口得幾舊水
仲想養埋佢個女

Oh 叫佢食陽光空氣

愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車
愛　似是一個人一直搵
一直等個一個人　一世一齊訓
愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車

愛似是陽光空氣

你愛我　所以你俾左我
我愛你　所以我愛理不理
你愛我　因為我愛你
我愛你　因為佢唔愛我

準新娘　準備紅杏出牆
搶新娘　你點同人搶
人地送寶馬　你就送花
人地去飲紅酒　你就飲茶
所以我愛你　唔駛理夠唔夠match
我愛你　係睇你夠唔夠cash
我愛你　唔介意落雨擔下遮
最緊要行多兩步你會楂架車

你咪叫我愛你看你有冇誠意
你若然愛我咪叫我與你逼巴士
有心意　但係冇生意
你叫我點樣安心鍾意

愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車
愛　似是一個人一直搵
一直等個一個人　一世一齊訓
愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車

愛似是陽光空氣

你最愛傳教　我愛狗仔
你愛睇裙仔　我愛睇三仔
你愛佢有型格　我愛佢無格
愛要黎到既時候邊個都冇辦法

愛似是陽光空氣
愛似是陽光　空氣