Part 2: Feeling of Love

如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

Part 1: Feeling of Love

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。

说明书的趣事！

Jessie: 喂，到底仲要扑几来？
Alice: 要扑到红为止！
Elaine: 系咯，点解扑极都唔红咯？有无买错炭？
Alice: 无啦！尼个系ＢＢＱ炭莱咯！一定掂！
Jessie:有无说明书？睇下有无话点起咯。。。
Alice: 烧炭说明书？你傻咯？做ＯＬ做到Ｓｏｔ咗！
Jessie: 点解我成日卑人闹？？？（无奈）
Jessie: 所有也都有说明书 - 读书，安装，坐车，吃饭, 生仔。。 但扁扁BBQ炭盒无说明书，劲 KAI!! 请将BBQ炭盒改进一下 !!

野蛮"奶奶"大战无奈"媳妇"

Funny session we had while we trying to start our bbq..

野蛮奶奶 : 我叫你 " STOP "
无奈媳妇 : "不知情的" OKAY.. OKAY.. 对不起.. 对不起 !!
野蛮奶奶 : 你道地 "识吾识"??
野蛮奶奶 : 你五行欠 “打”??
野蛮奶奶 : 你就快要嫁左。。。但系麽都唔识。唔识park车，唔识买鸡，唔识洗鸡，唔识透炉，你识滴麽？？仲唔快滴摞扫把去扫地！？！？
野蛮奶奶 : 扑，扑，扑。。你无睇到我系到放炭啊？？？仲扑？？？？
无奈媳妇 : 我好烟吖!睇唔到。。ＳＯＲＲＹ啰！

Life is full of obstacles

no one's life is perfect
there must be something that block u to reach your goal......
just depends on how u deal with it and
how serious/big that thing is ~~~

Am a super selfish person who never being considerate on others
Ever since when i being like dis huh? am just forgot..and don't think i want to recall it.
Being selfish is not a good thing of cause but am ready to deserve what i did and what i chose.
am person who did things for own goods. unwilling to shares "obstacles"
"non of my business" is what i used to told myself these years..
living without hoping something.."special" or "bonus" is the best i ever had..
when this "special" /"bonus" comes without expecting make me feel so good.
"being responsible" is hard for me...am only able to be"responsible" what ever i did and what ever i chose. "Empty promises" to me is "SUPER BAD" which is "DISAPPOINTMENT" to me.

“金句”。。

今日返工突然而来又好多好多既“金句”。。

记得上个礼拜先至赠咗 Elaine 两句。。“几百万张心意卡都比吾上一张百金既附属卡"..仲叫佢切记啊！！

今日。。。又有新也学

空既是色，色既是空，人生本是一身空，环境所逼去做工，超级工作低人工，奸狠老板逼赶工，工作永远不曾松，时间长过马拉松，新水少过做义工，拜六出粮礼拜空，惨过孟加拉劳工，叫我如何再开工，口袋没钱脑袋空，只好学人练蛇功，天天假装好多工，蛇下蛇下又一工，成日返工等放工，年年希望 加人工！！！

读过之后。。我同Elaine既第一反应就系“甘似我地既？？”哈哈。。。

仲有一句好搞笑。。
“骑白马的不一定都是王子，有可能是唐僧。有翅膀的不一定都是天使，很可能是鸟人。”

New Colleague - LIM KOK WING???

We have a new colleague today..When Mary came by my desk and introduce this new IT colleague..i was no idea what is his name..so ..i stop Mary and asked with an embarrassed tone.."may i know what is his name again?" then Elaine who is beside me said.."LIM KOK WING" I actually heard LIM KOK WING when he spoke to Elaine early and i heard that Elaine said "same college bla bla...with her wisppered tone. It is unclear for me to listen the full conversation anyway.. So Mary again tell me he name "LIM KOK WING" and preferable to call him Kok Wing..haha..

今日第一通电话！

晨早到office得知个日bank in 咗deposit 而家话要加价，由原先既RM190 加至RM230。根本就不可理如。与是我就播个轮要佢退返钱備我，佢话唔知系假日哗，sot 既！中要我将点钱摆住先话。。等下次去。。系佢自己都无check 清楚，都唔关我地既事。。！我一论咀甘讲完要讲既也就收咗佢线。然后sms佢我既bank account number。原先以为佢会ignore 我，点知佢call 翻来要我既名。。哈哈。。有时真系唔知点讲呢的人！唉。。。。

My new watches!!!!

finally got my new watches! many thanks ar my lovely "月月清"..
after i lost so many of my beloved watches last september
finally found something i love from FCUK!
muaks!

Stephan Farewell!

another 30days of medication

hmmm..how much i spend on medical this month ar?? hmm..i think reaching rm800 edi.. it's been a month suffering in cough..and now getting worst..additional "nose" the sensitiveness from nose ->air way pipe-> lung.. so complicated..at 1st just using the accuhaler but today.am having another "medical tool" ..haha.. spray..for my nose..

when am going to recover?? i guess doctor can't even promise on that..cos he just hav another batch of tablets..it's can last for 30days..is it mean in da coming 30days, my condition still remain?? no idea huh...

难忘的一日

每年的今天。。总是想着要点样过。。结果，都是随随便便甘同朋友一齐，再吾系就一日走几场。今年终于同想过既人系埋一起，点知。。。。其实世事真系唔系所捻得甘美好！

今年既我无系自己的地盘过。。本想浪漫一翻点知换来无聊一日。人往往都好难随心所欲。。以往既今日都捻住个人，但总系无能为力，不能天从人愿甘一齐度过。直到今日，讽刺的既然同佢倾通宵。

今年系我至懂事以来过的最"incomplete" 既一日。真系好难过。。。如果要我每年都系甘过。。我捻我会想死!

不过，庆幸我身边总有好多关心我的人。。我捻我真系卑你地宠坏咗！！！好多谢你地啊。。

杯子

杯子寂寞時被人倒進了開水，
滾燙的感覺~杯子想這就是戀愛的感覺，
水溫了杯子很舒服~想這就是生活的感覺，
水變涼了杯子很害怕~也許這就是失去的感覺，
水徹底的變涼了，杯子很難受想把水倒出來，
水終于被倒了出來杯子很舒服，
但杯子也掉在地上摔成了一片一片的，
杯子發現每一片上面都有水留下的痕跡...
它知道心裏還愛着水，它想再完整的愛一次水 但卻再也不可能了...
難道只有失去了才懂的珍惜，錯過了才知道後悔，過去了才知道幸福。
所以要好好珍惜你現在擁有的，不要讓愛你疼你的人從身邊察肩而過...！

been long time never really go into blog..i just read dis from Jobby's blog.
the 1st few sentence really touched me..especially "the cup started to afraid of the water becomes cold"....sighs...

My illness...

Bronchitis Overview

Bronchitis is an acute inflammation of the air passages within the lungs. It occurs when the trachea (windpipe) and the large and small bronchi (airways) within the lungs become inflamed because of infection or other causes.

• The thin mucous lining of these airways can become irritated and swollen.

• The cells that make up this lining may leak fluids in response to the inflammation.

• Coughing is a reflex that works to clear secretions from the lungs. Often the discomfort of a severe cough leads you to seek medical treatment.

• Both adults and children can get bronchitis. Symptoms are similar for both.

• Infants usually get bronchiolitis, which involves the smaller airways and causes symptoms similar to asthma.

Bacterial Pneumonia Overview

Pneumonia is an infection of the lungs. People with pneumonia usually complain of coughing, fever, shortness of breath, and chest pain.

• Your body's immune system usually keeps bacteria from infecting your lungs. In bacterial pneumonia, bacteria reproduce in your lungs, while your body tries to fight off the infection. This response to bacterial invaders is called inflammation.
  
  
• When the inflammation occurs in the alveoli (microscopic air sacs in the lungs), they fill with fluid. Your lungs become less elastic and cannot take oxygen into the blood or remove carbon dioxide from the blood as efficiently as usual.
  
  
• When the alveoli don't work efficiently, your lungs have to work harder to satisfy your body's need for oxygen. This causes the feeling of being short of breath, which is one of the most common symptoms of pneumonia. Inflammation causes many of the other symptoms, including fever and chest pain.
  
  
• Pneumonia can be very serious, because it directly interferes with your body's ability to exchange carbon dioxide and oxygen.
  
  
• Pneumonia is different in this way from acute bronchitis, which is another disease that can cause fever, cough, chest pain, and shortness of breath. Bronchitis is caused by inflammation in the air passages (called bronchi) leading to the alveoli, not the alveoli themselves. Sometimes it is very difficult, even for a doctor, to tell pneumonia and bronchitis apart. The symptoms and physical examination can be identical. Sometimes a chest x-ray is the only way to tell pneumonia and bronchitis apart.

All the above is for those people who are care and concerning what am suffering recently... sorry that i really don't how to explain in detail and why i got this every year.. am currently having both infections and under medication now. hopefully it can be under control in 7 days. or else i needed to have another CXR again!...i guess i can do filing for all my CXR report in folder..hahaha

The Invasion

Finally i recalled the movie name - THE INVASION
I missed this movie when it was showing in cinema in year 2007.
coincidentally i managed to watched it in BALI
I finished the whole movie just because I wanted to find out is this the one I missed out in past.
well..as I remember I missed 2 of Nicole Kidman movies in recent years which is
THE INTERPRETER and THE INVASION
Anyway,
nice movie, although I watching alone in BALI (Yvonne half way fell asleep)
but still I really enjoyed the show.

twilight

Never finished a book within a week..it's really a nice book..dare not to start reading New Moon because i still can't get Eclipse and Breaking Dawn ..shit..where and when can i get it????

Lady Cop & Papa Crook 大搜查之女

not really good movie but love Sammi!!!! hahaha
she is so "ying" in the show..


http://www.mediaasia.com/lcpc/eng/index.htm

Birthday Celebration

Credits:
Chairman: Alice

Special thanks to:
Kevin Lim
Jack Lim
Elaine Chew
Jeffrey Ho
Angeline Choo
Yvonne Ho
James Wong
Jobby Cheong
Violet Chan
Selina Sze-tho
Teressa Eng
Cass Ng
Wenping
Gavin Chong
Trixie

Venues:
Neway@1u
Pan Bakery
Deutsches Haus@Tmn Tun
Tenji@Solaris
Akari Restaurant@Solaris
Ole Ole Bali @ Solaris

5th Jan 09

lampoon? i kena ffk by my so "call" best friend for dinner today..really dissapointed on this..i wonder why she cant let me know earlier. but anyway..this will be the last time i ever place some tiny hope on her.

Dinner?? end up ..i went with kelvin..we suppose to catch my fav sammi's movie tonight..but i really don't want to count down in the cinema...i still hope something surprise might be happen...so..after dinner..i just asked for home..when my 1st step to home..i found that am home alone..shit! i should ask him go for a drink with me at least...well...he then starting the sms me ..wondering what am doing..countdowning with me over the phone..haha. we did chat lot today..even..reliase this is the 2nd dinner we ever had together on my bday since years we known. any way..simple dinner but great chat with him..

I almost gonna asked wenping to teman me countdown..luckily my day was not dat bad..my lovely neighbour collegue Elaine called up..finally..within 10 min she reached my doorstep...we then call jeff and his gf together and grabbed a countdown session together at TTDI. never thought of i will spend my eve with my new friends.

"5 min" i got this sms from kelvin, aahha..as i know am goin to be exciting?? yeah...welcoming my day!
am super appreciate for those who called and sms me...especially trix..i even forced her to wish me getting prettier and meet more guys in my up coming days..hahaha..thx TRIX!!!! do not forgot our SPA session on 11th (SUN ) ya!!!

and million thx to all my friend who sms and called me on my day..!!really appreciate!!

Andrew..another old time friend..we been chatting for my 1st 3 hours on my day..hahah..really old time stories..everything start from 1998..hmm..when i was still 16th? hahaha 11th years ago...really long time ago..

am so tired...and finally get to bed at ...hmm..4am? luckily is not sunrise yet..cos long long time ago we used to chat from the sunset til the sunrise..~ really miss those days

4th Jan 09

Back from Bangkok and got into wenping's car..we always have pre celebrate my birthday on 4th. i got out from custom is already 9pm. reached back pj and we then have a casual dinner..

ofcos!!!i got my 1st present of my day on year 2009!
i got a limited Edition Monopoly. it's not a simple monopoly ar...dun play play ar..there is no dollar notes needed to be count on. it's credit card and slot machine edition..hahahaha..finally i got something special..anyway...wenping alwis got me something special..millions thx to my dearest lovely so call primary schoolmate and ofcos we're very best friend now..i know you alwis here for me no matter how and whenever i needed someone..
as i used to says...
you're my TV which can entertain me MAX..cos u provided me alots of drama series and also teman me for no matter what kind of movies in cinema..
my ambulance when i needed to go for doctor i guess..hahah..i guess you been teman me to clinic more than my mom..SERIOUS!

i really donno how to thank you...but really appreciate and glad to hav a friend like you..

Right after my drink i got my bros's called. Kevin and Kit, they said celebration is starting at 11pm @ Neway. haha...surprised huh...although am so damn tired but i think i shouldnt miss this out..been many years they celeb my birthday without early notice..we all brought out zippo lighter today...every of our lighter are embended with our name.cool!