A NOTE to MYSELF

 "There’s no point in being in a relationship, if you are still going to have a single person’s mentality"

This is what I told myself after one of my best mate advised me. And this is very true and I felt am lucky that I can keep the promised in my relationship.
Of course, I always wanted things to be fair! But i think i am too week to keep my own self a promise.. and i like to tell myself..

Dear Alice,

Please take note on the below,

1. Nothing is more irritating and hurtful than a person who makes promises and breaks them over and over again. It shows lack of consideration for the others feelings and also means the person cannot be trusted or relied on.
2. The biggest mistake I have made in my life is letting people stay in my life far longer than they deserve
3. Being single is so much better than being cheated on, lied to and disrespected
4. You don’t have to have sex to cheat, once you find yourself deleting text’s you’re probably already there. Keep this is mind and do not easily let people go beyond my self limitation
5. Real men stay faithful. They don’t have time to look for other women because they’re too busy looking for new ways to love their own
6. It’s better to be unhappy alone, than unhappy with someone
7.  Forgiving is easy, trusting again is virtually IMPOSSIBLE
   
   I know myself.. Apologies or not, you could never be sorry enough!
   
   

Ulu Yam Day trip

Lake..

Waterfall..

Eat.Drink.Play

Memoirs. Friendship

2012 Easter's treats

CNY Movies Marathon..

I just cannot imagine I actually went to cinema SIX days in a row..
20 Jan 2012 - AH BENG THE MOVIE: THREE WISHES
21 Jan 2012 - I LOVE HONG KONG 2012
22 Jan 2012 - ALL'S WELL END'S WELL 2012
23 Jan 2012 - (3D) JOURNEY 2: THE MYSTERIOUS ISLAND
24 Jan 2012 - (3D) UNDERWORLD: AWAKENING

25 Jan 2012 - THE GREAT MAGICIAN

Belated 30th birthday celebration

I almost forgot I actually needa to meet her tonight. Glad that she text-ed. lols. We made it.

She craving for wines? haha.. it really surprised me. To me she is a super beer's 'tanker' .. 

We end up had 2 bottles of wine and of course we catch up a lot. Time flies, things changed. We no longer colleague but I would says we are good old friend. 

We seen each other grow through ups and downs. We got our hair shorten, longer, cut, curled and colored ... she left jobs, I remain in same jobs, she found new jobs and finally i left jobs... we had a blast of life, down of life, being attached, became single and now she gotten married, I am in a new relationship, we gotten better, gotten fatter ... both us had added new spice in life, removed some qualms ... but I am sure that our friendship is still growing.

I will never forget she is the only one who looked for me and brought me out on my 27th birthday's eve.

Winter Holiday in Hong Kong

Let's the pictures tell our story..

Eating Out...

Fun Buddies. Having sweet potatoes together.

We knew we going to be RICH..shhhh..Thank You Very Much Wong Tai Sin!

All the way to NgongPing 360 and lamma island

Oh yeah..again we are eating..

Party time ofcoz! is a MUST in our itinerary. Shake Shake here we come!

Happie Birthday to Mi! :P Thanks buddies!

wow..too many 'Bao' we ordered i guess? lols

Cool and Cold place with nice view..

we really have FUN here!

Bruce Lee! SO?

ops...soreee.. we are eating again! lols

Dancing night at Fifty. We will be back for sure!

Walking down the street in Central..cam-whoaring...

THE END

Christmas XOXO Party

Every year we get together with this rowdy group!! FUN FUN FUN. Everyone went to get their own pressiex for the merry exchange session and look very forward to this evening of laughter.

Last year, we held the party in Pearl International Hotel with the dresscode green, red and white. Fun games, hard core drinkers, wines with big laughs. So this year, much surprise for everyone, we have new members, I decided to get them some Christmas accessories instead of specified dresscode.
Masquerade party mask + novelty Christmas hair accessories. As usual we will going to have the gift exchange session with some additional quizs session. I believe tonight will be a great night.

New Year's Eve

I love this movie! The combination of mixed emotions and I will absolutely give an "A"!
A resolution can become a revelation. And when one night can change everything. Never mess with serendipity.

Happie birthday 2011

15 years friendship.. Our 29th birthday! It's gonna be a blast one. Million thanks to Cass doing this special celebration for us!
We laughs and share our tears all these years.. Really meant alot! Luv u girls!

Count down - Day 1

Another BIG day for the women - Emily & Jacqueline. Both them found their love one in SG.
Jacqueline having her ROM in SG today with our blessing.

Here is my wishes for both of you girls..

"Wishing you all the happiness there is and as you both live out your lives together may they be entwined as you grow old together."

Purple Rose Wrist Corsage

Calvin & Jacqueline ROM in SG

Alan & Emily Wedding reception

Count down - Day 2

Congratulation to Winson & Selina..
Finally visit them on the Baby Braydon full moon celebration.
Baby Braydon is really cutez!

Time Well Spent

See tiny fingers and tiny toes,
Bright baby eyes, cute baby nose;
Hear baby gurgles and baby sighs,
As Mom and Dad sing lullabies.

Life is changed, but that's okay;
It's fun to spend glad hours each day,
Taking time for all the good
That comes along with parenthood.

By Joanna Fuchs

Count down - Day 4

Manage to clean my wardrobe? not at all, but at least do the laundry. Just realised i had super lot clothes that still pending to settle.The washer machine has been turn on twice only manage to settle my clothes..hahaha

Thought wanted to clean up my room on during this break but am so sorry to myself.  I am super lazy to to do.. the mess really caused me headache. lolx.

3pm. manicure time.. RED again. am in love with RED

Thanks for the nice dinner Ivan.

Allo Paris. - nice dining place with nice food also.

Movie of the day - You are the Apple of my Eye
It is a very simple story but it reminds us of something that was once special and important in our life. We laughed through out the movie and our emotion was triggered by a very simple but very hearty story.

Count down - Day 5

My first day off. No special plan for this short break but my schedule seem really full.

As usual i am awake at 9 plus morning. Finished 2 episodes of drama then meet Cass and Wai Meng at Sunway Pyramid.

9 hours shopping is much tired compared to work i believe but we just manage to shops in 5 outlet after all. It's really fun to went shopping at working hours.

We been spending hours in the fitting room and playing so hard with the dooodolls hat.

Ta Ta For Now - Sam Media

Dear fellow colleagues,

It is with mixed emotions that I send this email. I just left a bunch of wonderful, colourful, loud, boisterous team members. It is with a heavy heart that I will leave here.

I feel blessed to have to get to know each and every one of these people, share laughter and tears (not mine), and the support and guidance given are honestly, beyond compare. We go through the ups and downs of life together – just like a real family does. That experience is priceless.

But moving on, hoping the grass will be really greener is always on everyone's mind, I guess. So here's me writing this email to bid all of you "Ta Ta For Now" in search of the greener pasture. :P

I would especially like to thank Marnix : Boss, over the 3 years 11 mths, you have taught me more than I could ever ask for and, in most cases, ever did ask for. Your demands were high and your patience short, but I take great solace knowing that my work was, as stated on my annual review, “mostly satisfactory.” 

To those souls with whom I’ve actually interacted, here are my personalized notes of farewell:

Alexis : Thanks for hiring me and given me the opportunity to work and grow in Sam together. I’ve learned a lot and have a lot of good time here. Hope to see you again!
Robert : You are a good leader and I’m glad to work with you although we do not speak to each other much.
Mary : Thanks for arranging Jelly cake on birthday! Really touched! I remember the time we having lunch in super small group and you like the Chinese food stall. Time flies and you already mother of 2 kids but your wedding ceremony is just like a mirror reflection in my mind now.  Thanks for everything!

Marketing Team
Isma : It’s nice to be your colleague and thanks for sharing info all these years.
Salma : You’re a wonderful colleague although we didn’t talk much but I like the way you asked me “ Alice, you not going home?” Or “ Alice, you going off now?”haha..
Matthias : My apologize of not being patience enough when you having question. I’m just too bz on the handover. Forgive ok?
Amanda : I like your accuracy! I know you can handle well at Sam Media.
Carene : Gal, Thanks for your lovely gift! I’m touched. As I said, we talked the most during office hours over the years. Be confident and focus with your work and directions, you have my supports!!

Online Marketing Team
Monica : You are a wonderful colleague who have taught me so many things directly or indirectly. Please call me lunch ok?
Max : Your motivation drives me crazy. I hate to see your message early morning in Skype but I know I am going to miss it so much!
Dawn : FFK friend! Haha.. I live your laugh.. - Be rational – (we both understand what is it) haha..
Awan : Twin sista of Max, it’s nice to be your colleague!
Jeff : I will not forget you got me birthday pressie on the first birthday in Sam Media. The times we car pool. Lastly, I am happy for you that you finally get your dream came true. You’re with Online Marketing team now! Best of Lucks!!

Design Team
Hui Yee : Congratulations on the arrival on your bundle of joy. I missed the chance to see you on my last day but we will meet again for lunch k. Thanks for your support all the time.
Khong : Thanks for buying me McDonald’s breakfast all these years! I always remember the comic drawing with RED hair you drew me in years ago. Signature of mine. :P
July : Finally we no longer to colleague. Perhaps we can be friend now? Haha.. I know I gonna miss your massages, pillow and YOU! Thanks for teaching me Photoshop!
Jean/Inn : Canto/ Mandarin gals. I always need to swap my language when I talking to both of you.
Lee : Really appreciate that you always being nice to me when I had request from u.
Alvin : You are a nice and helpful guy. I love the video you help me on my friend wedding!
Tay : Ever since we stopped TVC, we have not dealing much at work but nice working with you.

Contents Team:
Yani/Adi/ Nana : I love working with you all. You are the best content team I met so far!

IT Team: (Back in 2008, IT is just a small team and we only have 2 IT people > Jacky and Jeffery and now the IT team has been grown up to 20++ staffs. Wow~)
Jacky : Thanks for supporting me when I have hard time at work. Good that you finally improve your drinking skill. I will never forget how you drunk with one pint of Kilkenny in Irish bar 3 years ago. Haha..
Khew : Thanks for sharing your IT knowledge with me. Please be more patience when explaining k. I’m sorry for asking WHY WHY WHY always.  Btw, all the best for the new venture!
Kok Wing : The silence one. Remember to buy me McDonald Happy meal toy! I want Hamburglar! lolx
Makesan : You still owe me the CLUB sessions which you promised 2 years ago. Mist Club still exist?? lolx Btw, all the best for the new venture!
Kannan : Thanks for everything. I know I am the stupidest one even Recycle Bin I can removed from my pc! I will call you when I need to buy Saree again!
Callista : Please follow me watch more Cantonese movies so you can improve your Chinese. lolx
CheeV : What a coincidentally? We know each other in Redang, saw you are the mutual friend between July and I and we become colleague! Hope to see you again!
Grace : Shan Shan mui mui… Happie belated birthday! Remember do not shout with my Chinese name if you see me in public k. lolx.
CC : Good ‘tea mate’ although the time is short but really had good time!
Suhaimi, Rizzal, Farizul bieber, Efendi, Khairul, Jefry, Din, Razimi : I love the stories when we bump into each other during breakfast/ tea time. Especially Rizzal, Efendi and Din. I will never forget how you guys explained to me how to married 4 wife?! Whahaha.. Also something I really don’t know. My apologies for not speaking good Bahasa.

My lunch group of members (you know who you are!) – We seen each other grow through ups and downs. Some of us got our hair shorten, longer, cut, curled and colored ... some of us added new spice in life, removed some qualms ... but what made us special is that we are randomly different individuals who find similarity in our friendship

And finally, to JC: How can I missed out as everyone know you are my best friend within Sam Media. We have so many nick names here..e.g. Chopstick Sista, Ribena Sista? Lolx Our friendship is the most graceful thing I’ve in Sam Media and you were right, I need more time on this email. :p

I will never forget the wonderful experiences and challenges we have shared and gone through.

I wish all of you nothing but the best and I do hope our paths will cross again.

Farewell Gifts and Lunch

Why can't we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together? I guess that wouldn't work. Someone would leave and I need to leaves. Then we would have to say good-bye. I hate good-byes. I know what I need. I need more hellos.

I'm really surprised and touched when i received the first gift yesterday and the second one today.

Thank you Lee, I will not forget what you told me yesterday when you suddenly came over my place. really appreciate it.. i know you always being nice to me when i had request from u.

Thank you Carene, although we just know each other for one month but you are the one that i talked most in this office during working hours. haha.. you are really sweet. thanks for the lovely gift.

Thank you Monica for the lunch. I've learn a lot from you!

ah Boy meeting

Silly boy! i almost tears out while i reading your mail then i recall how fun we was when i look into those pics..and you're right we really grow through together. am so glad that twitter and instagram that keeping us so close so we can have each other update anytime, anywhere!

Good luck in your new venture, to myself as well!

JC birthday celebration

Nix always name us - the devil's group..
I just known the devil's group 3 years. We were really close after our HK trip.
We always gather for happy hour session or weekend chilling session.
We drinks, We laughs, We shops, We gossip...the only thing we not doing together is having TEA
They always told me.. 'WE ARE ADULT. TEA FOR KID'

the Silly Two

The silly TWO - always the best friend even we do not see each other often.
We both plays childhood game ' street fighter' in McDonald early Sunday!

The beginning of November

15 years friendship ain't easy to maintain i could say. We seen each other grow through ups and downs. We seen each other bare faced also flawless look. We starting to see each other fine lines and wrinkles. Time flies, things changed but not our friendship..

We see our efforts how to maintain the friendship and it is growing even stronger..

I can still remember we actually went apart when the first few years we graduated from high school. some of us went to college, started the first job ... some of us even abroad for greener pastures, becomes one of the expertise in different fields..

Then years after, we finally can spend more time together.. We calling each other any one or two day.. we see each other every week.. we plans short trip or long trip year.. we eat, we play and we love each other more.

and November, we celebrate the last person birthday of the year - Teressa.. then we all going into 30' in 2012.