Condolence

am shock when i received my colleague's sms telling dat his mom just passed away cos we was just talking on phone an hour ago...

Dear friend,
In this sad world of ours,
sorrow comes to all...
Perfect relief is not possible,
except with time.
You cannot now realize
that you will ever feel better...
And yet this is a mistake.
You are sure
to be happy again.

"Our love and support will always be here for you."

am dandelion??haha

蒲公英 --不受常理和规矩的束缚，想要自由飞翔的人，喜欢逃避现实

基本特征 -- 你是乘着风自由自在地飞向远方的蒲公英。在那种上下级关系紧张，不能包容你那超脱想法的环境中，会热衷于那些无足轻重的没有现实感的事。但蒲公英人缘好，容易让人亲近，无论落在什么样条件的土地上都会开花，有很强的适应能力。所以不要轻易为自己的能力下结论，应该挑战自己所喜欢的一切事情，那才是带着白色绒绒翅膀的蒲公英独有的生存方式。


恋爱中的蒲公英 -- 人气很旺的蒲公英有很多异性朋友，但却很难发展成为恋爱关系。那是因为你把自己与他人划分得太清楚的原因。你会直观地判断对方的心情，其实是因为你不愿去费心理解，或许是因为你不善于与人进行深层次的交流。你随时会改变的各种想法也会令对方无所适从。你的恋爱成功的秘诀是：一旦感觉到爱情，就要在没有厌倦前做出自己的结论。

幸福秘诀 -- 自由空间带来更多的恋爱机会。但蒲公英总是以相遇为乐，不能从中抓到什么，总是想以后或者换个地方，也许……结局恐怕总是成为折断了尾巴的蜻蜓或者没有根的草。因此无论做什么都要以指南针般的感觉为原则，喜欢随兴致做自己喜欢做的事情。而且无论做什么都干净利落的蒲公英，如果在此过程中再多用一些情感去体会，那么它的绒毛会更加灿烂闪光。

蒲公英的朋友-- 对太多事物都感兴趣，速度过快的蒲公英可以依靠的是杜鹃。她会将你混乱的心整理得有条理。可以跟得上你那超速的工作作风的是非洲菊。

Don't Write Me Off

It’s never been easy for me
To find words to go along, with a melody
But this time there’s actually something, on my mind
So please forgive these few brief awkward lines

Since I’ve met you, my whole life has changed
It’s not just my furniture, you’ve rearranged
I was living in the past, but somehow you’ve brought me back
And I haven’t felt like this since before Frankie said relax

And while I know, based on my track record
I might not seem like the safest bet
All I’m asking you, is don’t write me off, just yet

For years I’ve been telling myself, the same old story
That I’m happy to live off my so called, former glories
But you’ve given me a reason, to take another chance
Now I need you, despite the fact, that you’ve killed all my plants

And though I know, I’ve already blown more chances
Than anyone should ever get
All I’m asking you, is don’t write me off, just yet
Don’t write me off just yet

Way Back Into Love

I've be living with a shadow overhead
I've be sleeping with a cloud above my bad
I've be lonely for so long
Trapped in the past,
I just can't seen to move on

I've been hidding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need em again someday
I've be setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find away back into love
I can't make it trough without a way back into love

I've be watching but the stars refuse the shine
I've be searching but i just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for me soul somewhere

I've be looking for someone to shed some light
Not just somebody just to get me trought the night
I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make is trough without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'am hopping you'll be there for me in the end

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way
I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it trough without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I hopping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end

To all my dearest friend

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if theyaren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'

To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else butit's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you

To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

Unfaithful???

1. Not adhering to promises, obligations, or allegiances; disloyal.
2. Not true or constant to one's sexual partner.
3. Not true to one's spouse; guilty of adultery.
4. Not justly representing or reflecting the original; inaccurate.
5. Obsolete Deficient in or lacking religious faith; unbelieving.

what's the meaning of unfaithful actually? How to be faithful? This is wat i alwis wondering..everyone wanna to be faithful i guess..but how many people can actually do dat?

one of my girlfren had posted dis to her blog..

"Angels and demons voices tailing 360 degrees around her.. telling her what to do, what to believe, who to trust ..all that drives her completely nutty.
She knew there was something going wrong with the relationship and she almost convinced herself that she was right. All that she needed was a little more reassurance and “proofs” in that sense. Friends around were sending alert signs but none really telling her what has happened and what they saw in the whole situation. She wanted to trust him.. She should because no one was closer to him than she was. She should have known him better than anyone else. Sadly the reality turned out to be the total opposite.. She was disappointed.. once again.. and many more times after that."

my fren is really sad and disappointed, i understand how she felt now..but i've no guts to console her either..i used to be one of dis fren around her..in our situation..there is nothing much we can help actually..but i really wish dat she can get over it. I'm so sorry about dat..

"Sadly the reality turned out to be the total opposite..disappointed.. once again.. and many more times after"

I used had dis feeling all the time..but women is such a weaker..and da most stupid species in da world I guess. No matter how bad is da relationship..Women will only keeps convincing themselve it may not dat bad as they actually don't wanna accept da facts~ Always thought dat what they needed was a little more reassurance and “proofs” in that sense. But hallo...Women..I think we 're stupid enough..

Back to our topic today "Unfaithful" ..honestly.. I used to be unfaithful person. why am like dis? haha..it's been long long time ago ..I always believe in "Fair and Square". Why man can be like dis but not women? I ever thought I can be a faithful person ..but the reality always turned out to be the total opposite..again and again...is it hard to be a faithful person? am still wondering...~

the Holiday

Director: Nancy Meyers
Cast: Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet, Jude Law, Jack Black, Eli Wallach.

Iris is in love with a man who is about to marry another woman. Across the globe, Amanda realizes the man she lives with has been unfaithful. Two women who have never met and live 6000 miles apart, find themselves in the exact same place. They meet online at a home exchange website and impulsively switch homes for the holiday. Iris moves into Amanda's L.A. house in sunny California as Amanda arrives in the snow covered English countryside. Shortly after arriving at their destinations, both women find the last thing either wants or expects: a new romance. Amanda is charmed by Iris' handsome brother Graham and Iris, with inspiration provided by legendary screenwriter Arthur, mends her heart when she meets film composer Miles.

Keep in mind Before Marry

嫁人之前要背熟的 10句話!

01. 不怕嫁老,就怕嫁小。如果你的男友只有二十幾歲或十幾歲,你可以失身,但不能嫁。男人三十三歲左右是個不錯的年紀。
02. 嫁有錢的還是沒錢的？嫁願意為你花錢的!
03. 離婚的男人嫁不嫁？離一次婚的男人是塊寶,離兩次婚的男人是根草。
04. 嫁事業型的還是家庭型的？籠統而言,家庭型的。
05. 嫁什麼性格的人？嫁人嫁的是性格,其他的一切都會離你遠去,相似的性格好過互補的性格。06. 嫁人要不要占星問卜？要!最好找人問一下手相、面相和八字。如果你做不到,那至少應該深入瞭解他的血型和星座。有人管這叫「迷信」, 但「迷信」這東西很神奇。
07. 什麼樣的男人是大忌？什麼樣的男人是大善？自私的男人是大忌,有責任感的男人是大善。
08. 北方的男人好還是南方的男人好？北方的嫁北方的,南方的嫁南方南方的。
09. 花心的男人嫁不嫁？男人是多偶制動物,沒有不「花心」的男人,但有「有自制力」的男人。10. 門要當,戶要對。其實這一句話把所有的都概括了。老祖宗的話簡練精闢。呵呵,年輕時不懂事,覺著這是瞎扯。現在想來這老祖宗的經驗不能不聽啊,說的真是在理兒。老祖宗還是厲害啊。咱是越大越看的清楚嘍!好事兒啊,呵呵,環境造就人嘛!門不當,戶不對,自然也就不是一路人。

還有一條很重要很重要:嫁個有學問的還是沒有什麼學問的？嫁要嫁個和自己差不多 的,不能嫁一個你大學,他小學的,要這樣的話,我保證以後都沒有什麼共同語言。以前我還不信這個,現在我是倍兒相信。

不是看不起那些學歷低的人,但是有的時候他們的思維方式就是和你不一樣,很多話理解也和你相差甚遠。你解釋也沒有用,他還是用他的思維方式和你說話,永遠上不了該上的台階。

再加一條:老實的男人嫁不嫁？老實的男人固然有,但 要嫁那種思路敏捷的老實人。

Love quote of the day

The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.

it's been few days since da day ... i think am just hav to take it..

Another challenge with my dearest friend

One forgives to the degree that one loves.

After a talks with tears..
I hope it really help to us..
Indulgence made us apart?
I never ever thought of this..
upset to see you in sad,
hurt when we facing each other speechless,
Consolable that you too felt the pretending and acting..and the pain,
am sorry if I ever hurt your feeling,
am sorry if I really push you to the edge,
am sorry that I couldn't help in your situation,
am sorry to tell you that your selfishness brought you a side
am sorry that I have to tell you the truth thou I know you it might hurt your feeling,
am sorry, because I don't want you to be abandon by everyone..
But do keep in mind,
am still side you and defer to the decision that you made.
but still have to remind you before everything is too late
Not to offend if my wording is sharp..
I had lost many thing recently
and I can't afford to lose you..
Please take care your self,
Although you didn't promise me anything after all
But your hugs safe my soul..

Tamia - Officially Missing You

Hmm... Ooh...ooh...

All I hear is raindrops falling on the rooftop
Oh baby, tell me why’d you have to go
'Cause this pain I feel it won’t go away
And today I’m officially missin’ you

I thought that from this heartache, I could escape
But I’ve fronted long enough to know
There ain’t no way
And today I’m officially missing you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

All I do is lay around, 2 years full of tears
From looking at your face on the wall
Just a week ago you were my baby
Now I don’t even know you at all, I don’t know you at all

Well, I wish that you would call me right now
So that I could get through to you somehow
But I guess it’s safe to say, baby, safe to say
that I-I’m officially missin’ you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially

Well, I thought I could just get over you, baby
But I see there’s something I just can’t do
From the way you would hold me
To the sweet things you told me
I just can’t find a way to let go of you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

It’s official
Hoo, you know that I’m missin’ you, yeah, yes
All I hear is raindrops, oh, yeah
And I-I’m officially missin’ you

to my dear..

Dear, am up set when I received your sms just now, I have been trying thousand time hope to talk to you but you turn off the phone. Yes, you’re damn selfish. You just drop a sms when you felt like you wanted to tell me something. But you never give me a single chance to reply or anything. Frankly, even now, I still take you as my very close friend and I wish our relationship will not chance just because of this. I understand your situation, not to offend though I disagree with the decision you had made. But at least I hope we could share everything together. Just like how we use to be last time. Try to remember those days we had been through together. As your sms you mention that you had no guts to face me, please dear. You’re too much. I took you not only my normal friend. You’re some kind like my sibling now. You told me that you’re really sad on that Saturday night. You felt the strange between us. I do felt that. I’m so sorry that I didn’t say Hi to him. You know am playing mahjong what. Am not avoiding or ignoring him either. To me no matter he is there or not is not important to me. Both us become strange because he is there with you and I thought you should accompany him since he doesn’t know anyone there. That’s why I thought not to interrupt. But if this make you think that because of him and make both us become strange then I can tell you, you had got me wrong. Our relationship always comes 1st to me no matter how and what happen. I really appreciate you a lot dear. The day in msn I told you that I felt that we’re getting apart. It’s true since you send me the sms just now. But I hope you can really give us a chance to hold back our relationship and not just to inform each other thru sms.

We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.

25th Birthday - GRowing Up..

As the matter of fact, there was some mixed complicated feeling.There are everlasting memories ->-> the feeling when being alone with fear recalling the couple of years with my “buddy”, no matter what and how they're alwis there for me.
unforgettable and indeed all that am thirstily depriving of nowadays. But now, thing is not alwis to be share frankly. There is something that need to be overtaking by ownself. I guess this is one of the growing-up thing. It was simply occupied and feeling complete when we were young. Life was just about what we like to do momentarily and feeling great about it; of cause plus some naïve anticipation about the beautiful future being an adult. Well, when we finally earned the title as an “ADULT”.. Does that sound as exciting as it was supposed to be? Can we do just what we like to do? Life is more about what we have to do.. We are doing what is necessary and pleasures have become a bonus. Too much stress about life.. too much consideration for the reality.. we are doing what we need to do pursuing the ultimate goal in our lives.. Hypothetically a better life and presumably a happier one….. but what is a happier life? "Tired" is what i can said after all. Recalling my "buddy" make me strong and the third dimension of living. TOday is my 25th birthday and the mixed complicated feeling wake me up to the reality. Thank you to all my "buddy" especially emily whose purposely came back from Penang for me and others whose really keep me as their "buddy". Thank you for your accompanied in my hard time and GLaD to have you guyz.

Happy 2007

2006 is gone but it has also made us strong.
The path was long but we walk it with a song.
There were fears and tears.
And now 2007 has arrived,
It will be a good year and bright year for us,
Therefore we cheers..

农夫 爱似林一峰 (Feat. 林一峰)

你愛一架飛機　我愛一個杯
你愛我個細佬　我愛你個妹
你應愛李英愛　李英愛愛李英宰
定係愛冇話應該唔應該

愛似是陽光空氣　愛似是陽光空氣

愛　愛有人話真愛係無價
愛　愛我話真愛無得講價
首先要有大把身家
再有奶媽管家
車唔只得一架最好有司機楂
事實係事實　愛情係現實
你無車無樓無番狗
做乜要拖我手
女人最忌無品　男人最忌無銀
所以幾百張心意卡比唔上白金既附屬卡
林子祥無呃你　係你自己呃自己

鹹魚白菜也好好味

戶口得幾舊水
仲想養埋佢個女

Oh 叫佢食陽光空氣

愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車
愛　似是一個人一直搵
一直等個一個人　一世一齊訓
愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車

愛似是陽光空氣

你愛我　所以你俾左我
我愛你　所以我愛理不理
你愛我　因為我愛你
我愛你　因為佢唔愛我

準新娘　準備紅杏出牆
搶新娘　你點同人搶
人地送寶馬　你就送花
人地去飲紅酒　你就飲茶
所以我愛你　唔駛理夠唔夠match
我愛你　係睇你夠唔夠cash
我愛你　唔介意落雨擔下遮
最緊要行多兩步你會楂架車

你咪叫我愛你看你有冇誠意
你若然愛我咪叫我與你逼巴士
有心意　但係冇生意
你叫我點樣安心鍾意

愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車
愛　似是一個人一直搵
一直等個一個人　一世一齊訓
愛　似是一間屋一張卡
一齊擔一把遮　陽光空氣一架車

愛似是陽光空氣

你最愛傳教　我愛狗仔
你愛睇裙仔　我愛睇三仔
你愛佢有型格　我愛佢無格
愛要黎到既時候邊個都冇辦法

愛似是陽光空氣
愛似是陽光　空氣

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Happy Wedding Day

It's actually Jeat and SooBee Wedding day...
butthen turn up like our gathering day..
all of us busy capturing during da wedding dinner..hahaha
well, SooBee is da most gorgeous's bride i seen dis 2 month..
Time flies,
still remember when jeat 1st met SooBee is together with both of us..joey and i..
jeat brought us to 1utama..then he went for their 1st dating..
i still remember dat day SooBee is dressed up with floral's dress.
it's been 7 years ago if not mistaken..hahaha
am glad to attend their wedding today and glad to be SooBee's ji mui as well..
am here wishing them happy eva after..


aLice^ymeng^teressa^seLina^Jobby


JaNice and aLice


aLice and Yvonne

hate chinese!!!die of reading..

got dis assignment...translation wor..die man..
luckily got my best bud wenping there to help mi ..
else i think i work till morning also i cant finished it on time..
thanks ya for your help..wenping..

Something impressed..

Dear i wish that your heart only has me and no one else.
I wish that there is no one else in your eyes and mind except for me.
I wish that you will come and sweep me off my feet.
I wish that you will take care of me.
I wish that you will protect me.
I wish that you will lend me a shoulder to cry on.
I wish that you will support me and guide me.
Most of all, I wish you were here. Hugs.

Got dis msg from you at 6.43am..
really impressed me when i reading dis..
but dis is wat i alwis wish for all da time..
why never tell me when am with you..
by then, are you really mean wat u said?
am sorry that can't by your side now..
am afraid that i might get to da sad situation ..
am afraid that i might be da loser once again..
am just afraid..i have no guts to get everything in hand..
am just afraid..