Relaxing week..

Beach...
i like beach
kind of tiring weekend i ever had.
the very 1st time i went out of town with people that i just known for a month plus..
but all can said it's fantastic.
my genting shooting trip..was great and my pd trip is kinda relax..
within 3 days i guess we had snap about 1000 pictures..
i really cannot inmagine if we not using the digital camara..
how much we going to spend on printing..
one more thing is...am interested in SLR camera..hahah..it's kinda sharp and damn lot function dat can play around..

Pre Christmas Celebration @ Inmagine

Party day..
Last day..
Pre Christmas Day..
i think i gonna miss all the inmagineers..
though just a month plus working here..
but ppl here is ..hmm..i think i should said.."great"
especially my lovely partner --> Trixie..
i guess i will never forget every moment that we been working together..
it's kind of funny actually..
both us like having never ending topics to chat everyday..
i will never forget we spend our whole day looking "online sms"
hahhaa...
well..my lovely trixx...please dun be so emo..
i knew u gonna miss me ..and me as well da same ya!!

back to reality

1)不辛苦點得世間財 ...
2)choosing a challenging work or a comfortable is like choosing to 面對現實 or to 逃避現實..

Got this from wenping's blog.thx for supporting me all these while.. i know i hav to back to the real world..
There's nothing to be perfect in this world..
After talking to you ..i only realize that i 've been "changed" What's goes wrong to me huh?
am too slumber for the past 3 months..am lazy enuf i guess..hahaha..
well..back to reality...we have to chase for our future..never stop as i used to said ..never try to be slumber as i used to be..

These are the type of women we should be marrying....Mordern women - so says the men ?

It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter-in-law arrives in the family, everything changes.
Some daughters-in-law are well trained and well mannered....They don't come to change the family, they are here to... (READ ON!)

The new wife was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner. As expected she gave a speech;
"My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family, firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine ."No, I will never do that, never in a million years."

"What do you mean my child?" asked the father-in-law.
"What I mean dad is (looking at her in-laws);

Those who used to wash the dishes must carry on washing them.
Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it.
Those who cooked should not stop at my account, AND
Those who used to clean should continue cleaning!!!

"And what are you here for?" enquired the mother-in-law.

"AS FOR ME, I'M HERE JUST TO ENTERTAIN YOUR SON!!!!!"

our first date after a month..

finally went PM with trix..she alwis said that we cannot go out after work since we known each other not even one month..
well, today is our "one month" anniversary..
we went pm together..
i think we both is crazy like hell..
keep buying alot and talked loud in da pm..
even one of the uncle turn back and looked at us one kind..
after our pm session really hot and tired.
we ate ice cream out side the cybercafe and taking pictures out there..
strange rite..hahaha..

Love quote of the day..

"i love life. am sad, but at the same time, am really happy that something can make me feel that sad. It's like it makes me feel alive. It makes me feel human. The only way i can feel this sad now is if i felt something really good before. So i have to take the bad with the good. So i guess what am feeling now is a beautiful sadness."

Trix showed me dis from her fren's blog..hmm..somehow..it's telling the truth i guess..

幾種令你又愛又恨的男人

妳會喜歡那一種?.....而你又是那一種?

1. 孝順父母的男人……裙腳仔

* 愛他的原因︰

對家人好的男人，十分注重家庭觀念，思想傳統，有責任感有承擔, 個性較為斯文有耐性，是賢妻良母型女性的絕配。

* 恨他的原因︰一句「阿媽話……」成為了他的擋箭牌，買樓、結婚、生仔，無一不徵詢過阿媽同意，沒有主見的裙腳仔，你受得了嗎？


2. 「好 man」的男人……野蠻人

* 愛他的原因︰缺乏安全感的女人都想有一個性格剛烈的男人來保護自己。你會臣服在他的威嚴之下，更會相信他使用暴力是有必要的。

* 恨他的原因︰當事情發展到「好man」的男人認為「女人唔聽話就要打」，你便不得不死心了。而且性格剛烈的男人，容易與人結怨，與他出街，小心有人尋仇。


3. 「無腳鳥」男人……多情種

* 愛他的原因︰愛追求浪漫的女人，開始的時候都喜歡與「無腳鳥」男人把酒談歡，因為他們風趣幽默，無憂無慮。更重要的是，天真的女人常以為自己能夠成為「無腳鳥」男人的最後一站……

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當女人發現自己不是尾站，便心有不甘，幾經拉扯仍然不得要領，唯有怨恨多情種欺騙其感情，有些烈女更會將這個「臭男人」唱通街，以洩心頭之恨。其實「無腳鳥」男人一直無變，只是女人忽然醒覺罷了。


4. 令得你滿心歡喜的男人……空頭支票

* 愛他的原因︰男人沒有幽默感，比起長相平凡更可悲。女人總是愛聽有新意的情話，懂得用說話令得你滿心歡喜的男人，比起靚仔更討好。

* 恨他的原因︰當你發現他的話無句真，發誓當食生菜，你便開始討厭他的甜言蜜語，開始懷疑他對別的女人也是同樣口蜜，甚至你會懷疑他是一張空頭支票...


5. 為你排難解紛的男人……大男人

* 愛他的原因︰沒有主見的女人都會愛上一個能替她排難解紛的男人。他是你的指南針、盲公竹，事事有他來決定，自己亦樂得清閒。

* 恨他的原因︰然而，當你有天驚覺這個男人反客為主，固執霸道之餘， 對你的感受更是愛理不理，你便會開始抱怨這個大男人不解溫柔兼粗心大意

Got this article from jobby's blog..
hmm..i love and hate... is the combination of
孝順父母的男人+令得你滿心歡喜的男人 = 裙腳仔+空頭支票
how come am so stupid ar?haihss...

meaningful quote of life

The way to find love,

isn't finding the person but loving the imperfect person perfectly,

true love has no happy ending.

It simply doesn't end

Today, my coll Trix suddenly asked me dis..

Trix : Gal, would you go for someone you love or beloved by someone?

me : hmm...i always like to go for someone i love but am learning to how to beloved..

Trix : why?..

me : it's tiring to love someone..

Trix : but don't you think it's won't be as happy as it is..

(silence ~~ )

(1 min later)

me : yea. i do know that. but somehow..life is complicated. (life always goes the opposite way we want..sighs..)

THE CALLING - Could It Be Any Harder

You left me with goodbye and open arms
A cut so deep I don't deserve
You were always invincible in my eyes
the only thing against us now is time
[Chorus:]
Could it be any harder to say goodbye and without you,
Could it be any harder to watch you go, to face whats true
If I only had one more day
I lie down and blind myself with laughter
A quick fix of hope is what I'm needing
And now i wish that i could turn back the hours
But i know i just don't have the power
[Chorus]
I'd jump at the chance
Wed drink and wed dance
And I'd listen close to your every word,
As if its your last, I know its your last,
Cause today, oh, you're gone
[Chorus]
Like sand on my feet
The smell of sweet perfume
You stick to me forever,baby
and I wish you didn't go,
I wish you didn't go
I wish you didn't go away
To touch you again,
With life in your hands
It couldn't be any harder

Got this song from Fara's blog. it's meaningful i guess..

Hazzy Situation

Starry, starry night

Paint your palette blue and gray

Look out on a summer's day

With eyes that know the darkness in my soul

Shadows on the hills

Sketch the trees and the daffodils

Catch the breeze and the winter chills

In colors on the snowy linen land

Suddenly thought of this song ..and my inner heart brought me deeply to this feeling..

calm but excited..am going to have a big challenges in life again.

I'd decided to go for a super low pay job(for me)hahaha..wondering how can i get over it for the coming 3 months. Life really complicated and confusing..human always have to stand on the "scale" situation. "Choosing" and "deciding" always comes to our mind. And now, i'm looking towards to my interest. People might thinking am crazy. But somehow..if i never try to step forwards i afraid i might be regret..It had been too many things that i've been done cames to "regretness".But just bear in mind, no matter how it gonna be..is my own decison..

Tired Weekend

After my tired weekend ..finally Rivan back to Taiwan. But we did learn lots of phase from him, example.."黑暗中的你看起来很好", "竹竿插貢丸", "肥鸟依人"~~ let me explain one by one..

"黑暗中的你看起来很好" -- we was debating about this..Rivan thought this is compliment to a girl which is not pretty and this phase might make her felt better. But in our girl's opinion is .. this phase is so lampoon. Girl's will never felt better if heard this ..hahaha..

"竹竿插貢丸" -- i guess..people is wondering what is this..well, just imagine..a couple with extreamly different "bodyshapping" walks by ..i think this is clear enought for all of us to understand~

"肥鸟依人" -- there's always what we heard is "小鸟依人". i think this is easy to understand! This phase cames out because this Rivan saw a couple walks by our side when we 're having our delicious wings in Izzy Restaurant.hahahaha..

Pavillion tea-time

My 1st time to Pavillion. i think it's gonna be our hottest hang out place soon. the shopping's structure there is perfect. nice place for tea especially~~ But i will only go after the Redbox Plus and the GSC is done. i think is the best shopping in Malaysia now.

Melacca Day trip

hahaha..i almost forgot when was my last time to melacca. Basically we went this time is because of Rivan since he never been to Malaysia before. For sure we need to bring him to our most historical place. But Melacca seem changed alot. We went to the Pahlawan Mall which is brand new opposite the Mahkota Parade. hmm..not bad. Because..MNG - Mango outlet is there..hahahahah..

Jonker Walk 's for sure we went as well. I still remember that night..there's a Super Uncle. let me recall..they did mention he is what melacca 's icon ..hahaha..once he starting to voices out..damn scary man..the earth is slight shaking i guess..it's so annoying..haihz..wondering how come he dare to go up the stage??-- As usual, we bought lot earings that night also..hehe..

Pure BaR-- we went..Melacca's most popular club i guess..atmosphere is almost like KL. but peaple..hmm..there's still differences. Songs they playing is what i use to listen 2 years ago..but anyhow we still enjoy ourselves there.

latest color..

愛情自助餐

愛情就好像大酒店裡的自助餐；不同的美食琳瑯滿目、任君選擇。不同的感情，不同的食物；
日本魚生似什麼呢？生食的時候，新鮮美味，加少許日本芥辣更覺刺激，回味無窮。如果你將那些魚生煮熟了，還有沒有這種感覺？沒有了！任何調味品都找不回「生」那種口感，這就是一夜情的男女，一次生、兩次熟、三次就大結局，所以熟了後就不會再有這種感情的了。
另外，有燒牛肉，待應生一塊一塊地切那些牛肉給客人，半生熟的肉質還有少少血水，入口時候軟硬適中，咬到根的部分時，需要些牙力，就像初相識的男女，表面帶著瞭解與未瞭解之間，帶有赤裸裸的新鮮感，偶爾會出現溝通的問題，大家而要時間來尋求共識；這種初戀的感覺不竟是最叫拍拖中的男女回味的。
甜品又如何，各式各樣的布丁、蛋糕、果批、芝士餅‧‧‧各種各樣顏色鮮艷入口香甜，就像熱戀中的男女，食什麼都甜的，做什麼都好玩些，因為這世界就像甜品一樣，過了這個時間，又是另一種感覺的了！
結婚後的男女實而不華，就像平淡而又味道甘美的雜菜沙拉，不需要太多調味品，不需要複雜的煮製過程，但永遠都是最耐食的。
吃飽了，來一杯奶茶或檸檬荼，你要甜便多加些糖，你要酸便加多些檸檬，這就是懂得享受愛情的男女，一切甜酸都是由你一手創造，只要你願意，甜可以變酸，但你不理它，酸就會變得更酸！
愛情就像自助餐，吃得太多便會太飽！
你的愛情像什麼??
日本魚生 ? 牛肉 ?甜品 ? 雜菜沙拉 ? 奶茶或檸檬荼 ?

~~讨厌甜品热爱日本魚生的我又能如何？唯有舍弃挚爱追求幸福~~哇哈哈！！真伟大~~

換個愛的角度

Got this article from jobby....

有時，伴侶之間的相處，時間越久，大家越親近，一切開始變得奉旨、routine、沈悶，沒有一個意識要保持當初「愛的狀態」，或許亦覺得無謂、懶得去製造什麼新鮮感，去維繫大家的關係。當然也會將對方的缺點不斷放大，然後什麼都變得不順眼了，甚至開始懷疑自己當初是否瞎了眼才選那樣的人。不過，如果願意退後一步，用一個嶄新的角度去認識對方，用最初的一份單純/尋找刺激新鮮感的態度去跟對方相處，當他是一個初相識的人去交心談情，你會重新發現那個可愛的他，那一個「真愛」、那個「成世未試過遇到咁夾的人」。換個角度、換個期待、換個心情，身邊的人就會變得不一樣。到最後，一切還是從自己出發吧。

We love because it's the only true adventure.

the worst day i had of da year

Actually it must be the happiest day i should have since my best friend is getting married tomolo and my cousin also..
but..things just happened..
2 of my bro caught in accident ..
when eric called me and tell me that they caught in accident..i thought it's not that serious until i reach the place.
the car was total lost and alan is lying there and keep vommiting bloodssss..it's so scary..
the worst thing is the 1st ambulance rejected to send him to the hospital which i requested
end up we need to send him by ourselves.
we 1st send him to kelana medical but doctor tranfer him to subang medical since he need to admit to ICU.
really worries of him..until morning 6am only settled everything
7.30pm need to reach my best fren house to be her sis..
it's so tired and exhausted.
it's another lesson i had.
no matter how worried and sad..
life still goes on..
extremely exhausted..
back from hospital ..be my best friend's sis..visited alan..attended cousin wedding and my best friend wedding..
seem like am super active ..
luckily...everything..just goes well..
graceful wedding my best friend had
alan 's in stable condition now ..

Happy Birthday to my dearest~

Happy Happy 25th birthday!!
Have a great one and a glorious yeat ahead~
May you stay pretty pretty and healthy 4va!!

The Courtyard Garden

Down-to-earth and unpretentious with excellent food and service. This will certainly leave a lingering, pleasant after-taste and an experience to treasure. Established in 2003, The Courtyard Garden is nestled amidst a charming haven of greenery and tranquility right in the heart of Damansara Heights, Kuala Lumpur. A charming bungalow refurbished in Balinese décor, fine-dining takes on new heights with an exciting range of flavors and culinary styles, offering a colorful gastronomic adventure with a fusion of cultural influences topped off with excellent service. Food and ambience stand on equal footing when it comes to a memorable dining experienc e here at The Courtyard Garden.Looking for a charming haven to wine and dine your most important clients? A cozy place to unwind in the company of good friends? The Courtyard Garden makes an exquisite choice for any occassion. Because here, dining is more than a tantalizing encounter. It is an experience to treasure.

Food that we ordered

Appetizer

1. Katipas chesse and mushroom


2. Wagyu roll

Delicious mushroom soup

Main course:

1. Eastern Lamb
   Aromatic oriental five spices marinated lamb shanks braised to perfection served with mashed potato and brunoise of vegetables


2. Char Grilled Wagyu Beef (200gms)
   Our house specialty, juicy wagyu beef served with an exotic mix of sautéed potatoes, vegetables of the day and accompanied with oven roasted garlic sauce

鱼与熊掌，不能两者兼得!有得必有失..

Day after day...
being a decision maker is so damn hard
someone asked me list out the pro and con
someone asked me just follow your heart
someone even asked me not to think so much~
Well,
no matter how hard but still need to make the decision
dear god,
i've make up my mind
after listening to all my supporting friends
they never make any decision for me
but all the advised really helps~~
bless all my friends 4eva ya

barry barry

marathon weekend..kite flying and kite flying

kite ..kite..kite..and kite..
hahaha..my 1st octopus flew away on saturday..
but ..i bought another octopus again..hahahha..
sunday went kite flying again..
1st time playing under the rain..
luckily not too heavy~~

kites flying..

another day of kite flying..no more seremban but selayang dis time.
luv my lovely kites so much le..but it's spoiled and cant fly any more.
haihz..

想知道结婚后你会变成怎样的女人吗？

算算你是哪种类型的老婆 想知道结婚后你会变成怎样的女人吗？女生请测试，男生请发给你认识的女生。

1、你理想中的屋子外形是怎样的？
A、具欧洲古堡风情的红砖屋
B、素净简单的美式白色小屋
C、有大自然风味的木制乡村屋

2、你觉得屋子门口放什么会吸引别人呢？
A、充满大自然感觉的大鱼缸
B、富贵堂皇的大理石大道
C、浪漫温馨的鲜花拱门

3、如果有与众不同的柜子，你觉得是怎样的？
A、可以抽真空的衣柜，衣服不易变坏。
B、有香味的衣柜，可令衣服带有芳香。
C、高科技电动衣柜，可自动感应开关。

4、你的书房会设计成怎样？
A、Office 大老板房的事业型
B、经典设计的简约型
C、学校式木制台椅般的怀旧型。

5、你房间的墙型会用什么颜色？
A、简约的使用单色
B、如云、鸟或树等大自然的图案
C、方格、图形或直间等图案

6、房里有个柜子会是什么形状？
A、正方形
B、不规则的几何形
C、太空式的圆桶形
计分: 选A得1分，B得2分，C得3分。

算好了吗？算好再往下看答案:


A 、6~8分　　终极黄脸婆
你从结婚之日起，脸上就开始变色，天天妆也不化，身材也懒得理，脸色渐渐从白里透红变成暗黄惨白，老公开始对你有微言,下班也不愿回来对着你。之后你会终日郁郁寡欢，乱发脾气，经常和老公吵闹，其实婚后外貌要保持外，感情也一样要Keep。


B 、9~11分　　女强人老婆
你算是模范女子的佼佼者，不止入得厨房出得厅堂，还有自己的事业，深得男人心之余，女人也会以你为榜样。你坚持要有自己的事业，不用老公养，且具备中国传统女性的美德，无论工作有多忙，你都一定会抽空打理家务，照顾家人，相对来说家庭是你的首选。


C 、12~14分　富贵型老婆
你视财如命，物欲与享乐是你生命中不能缺少的，所以你婚后的生活会多姿多采，天天逛街Shopping。你的老公没钱也不要紧，反正你一生都在研究如何压诈你的另一半，而且你一定会找到想找的那个人。


D、15~18分　残废型老婆
婚后的你会致力于被老公照顾为己任，从拍拖开始，他已经把你照顾得无微不至，有钱的话他一定会请保姆帮你做家务，就算没钱也不会让你做，象拖地、洗碗这样的事他一定会争着做，最多让你抹抹桌子，你真是好命啊！

happy 4eva to Joey and Sunny

http://picasaweb.google.com/hazzyalice/JoeyWeddingAlbum

As the matter of fact, there was some little mixed complicated feeling.
Never thought that Joey is the person who get married..hehehe..
We're close as sister i guess,
Basically I known her since my whole Life, I think we knew each other since
i was 7?? (She owned my childhood le..sighzzz) JOEY is a pretty cool gal
although my nicks is coolgal but I still hav to named her this., she's
veRy kind in her ways, and she's the Gal that understand me the most. We can
read each other mind ya..don’t play play r. Thankz for being there for me
Since we were young. =) Well, she is alwis steady-going and loyal to friend. dat's the impression she gave me although sometime maybe abit stubborn..hahaha,not bad, right? (Coz everyone will go to her when problem arised)..her house is our lee to hide alwis.SeRious!hehehe
18' years friendship and both us now is 25. And today she is getting married.
am here wishing her happy 4eva with her hubby mr.sunny kam ..!!

nice hair color hor..??

little baRRy new hairstyle

mini coupe??

Haha...1st time i sit on dis super "mini" ...dat day of us~~ me, mc and pierro..went pasar malam together..all the way so many people looking at us dis "mini"..cant imagine 3 of us like "giant" cramp inside da car??
Pierro thought of vommiting once the car stop..cos back seat is incommodious...






Never under estimate dis car..it's auto and with high-end sound system inside..hahhaa..only cost RM30k to get dis car done..!!so guys..think bout it le..it's nice..!!!

flying kites

Went Seremban together with colleague. Eating session actually..
from morning..we start eating my favorite beef noodles,chicken rice, and hakka's noodles. then summore ice kacang wor.."raise pig" !!!

After our makan session we went the most happening mall in seremban which is Jusco..haha..we played bowling..haihs..so heavy ..dunno y ppl like to play~~
then..out "flying kites" session start~~

It was my 1st time playing..damn fun all i can said..hmmm..hope i can plat dis coming week end again!!!

5 month old Barry..

Dead Silence

There is an old ghost story in the sleepy town of Ravens Fair about Mary Shaw, a ventriloquist who went mad. Accused of the murder of a young boy, she was hunted down by vengeful townspeople who cut out her tongue and killed her. They buried her along with her "children," a hand-made collection of vaudeville dolls. Since that time, Ravens Fair has been plagued by death. The ghastly dolls from Mary Shaw's collection have gone missing from the grave and reappeared over the decades. In the dead of night--wherever they are glimpsed--families are found gruesomely murdered...with their tongues torn out. Far from the pall of their hometown, newlyweds Jamie (Ryan Kwanten) and Lisa Ashen thought they had established a fresh start. But when his wife is grotesquely killed, Jamie reluctantly returns to Ravens Fair for the funeral, intent on unraveling the mystery of her death. Once reunited with his ill father (Bob Gunton) and his father's new young bride (Amber Valletta), Jamie must dig into the town's bloody past to find out who killed his wife and why. As he uncovers the legend of Mary Shaw, Jamie unlocks the story of her curse and the truth behind the song from his childhood: if you see her and scream, you will never speak again.



The poem used to commercialize the film was not present in the movie; instead a close variation was used.

In online banners, trailers, and commercials promoting Dead Silence, the poem from Jamie's childhood was displayed as:

Beware the stare of Mary Shaw
he had no children, only dolls
And if you see her, do not scream
Or she'll rip your tongue out at the seam.

In the movie, however, the poem was recited as:

Beware the stare of Mary Shaw
She had no children, only dolls
And if you see her in your dreams
Be sure you never, ever scream.

不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段

Got dis article from one of the blog..

生命，不會只是一帆風順有高潮，當然也會有低潮的時候，但是，不管是怎樣的情況總是不會逗留太久，於是，學會去接受它解決它放開它，不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段。
我有位女性朋友，非常地會賺錢，在目前這樣不景氣的情況下，她每月依舊保持著月入百萬的紀錄，只是這些賺進來的錢又輾轉的送到別人的口袋去了。因為前幾年她和朋友一起做生意失敗積欠了許多債務，於是，她開始放下身段做起業務的工作來，每天看著她早出晚歸從無埋怨可言，好像那些千萬的債務不存在一般，絲毫沒有將她的士氣給擊垮，她的臉上仍是用著一雙迷人的雙眼注視著，用著開朗的笑聲來溫暖每個朋友，有天，我好奇的問了她難道妳沒有埋怨過嗎？她只回了這麼一句話『不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段』最壞的情況我都已經遇過了，我想再壞也壞不到哪裡去了。所以我明白低潮過後，高潮就不遠了，妳說這樣地想我還有什麼好抱怨的，既然抱怨也改變不了事實，
那麼我何不學習去接受它，同時去改變我的心態呢！
因為她的一番話給了我很大的省思，同時讓我對於很多事有了更開闊的想法，人生不過就是這樣地有趣，只要你懂得去適應它，不管喜不喜歡，它都只是個..片段，別讓低潮的氣壓，埋藏了自己的熱情了，
※期盼每個朋友能夠因為她的這一番話有了更開朗的人生觀※

Sammi!!!

Be happy always..

Thank ya Wenping..Thanks for you lovely cuppacakes..luv it very much..although it's late ..i no more upset..hahaha..but anyhow..really appreciate what you 've done for me all these while..make sure you get ready da cuppacakes alwis when am sad ya..haha..

Thanks for being there for me no matter how..
Thanks for companied me when am down..
Thanks for sharing every precious moment..
Thanks for being such supportive friend..

Eustoma with Amy

Nice Handbouquet huh..really impressed me..1st time i saw dis flowers..

Forever White' eustoma is a cultivated form of prairie gentian. You may also have heard this flower called "lisianthus." As its common name implies, the native prairie gentian thrives in dry, well-drained soils and full sunlight. So does Forever White' eustoma. There are two major differences, though. The cultivated form is far more compact than its "wild" ancestor and its flowers are larger and showier.Forever White' eustoma has beautiful ivory-white blooms that look like delicate rosebuds at first, then unfurl to become cup-shaped flowers, 2 ? inches across. The plant itself grows to about twelve inches, which means it's ideal for use in containers. Just be sure to pair it with other sun-loving plants that don't like to stay too moist.

My 4 month old Barry

Time flies ..my babybarry already 4 month old..
Does he look cute?or still sad r?ahahhaa..
First time he knew how to climb on the stairs..
Barry is timid as a hare..when i bring him upstair my room..he dare not to move.just stay and stare at me..hahaha..

Sammi - 紅綠燈 -

http://video.xanga.com/joejoeyuen/84d6b349166/video.html

從小老師也加倍認真 來教導我步過紅綠燈
右與左 必須清楚看真 哪管一次做錯 也都可摧毀這生
何解我戀愛雙倍殘忍 從來是快樂過便不會僥倖
動作少 簡單偏偏最深 我怎可以做個 最優秀路上行人
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 假使相當勇敢 怎可挽回自身
若要衝 損傷怎可以不留痕 來又去 要找的際遇未接近
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 抬頭前望去 對面馬路如此吸引
逐秒等 心急總加倍的難行 難道我 要必先壯烈地犧牲 去換吻
誰想到走錯死裡逃生 才明白較沒有夢想更不幸
若誕生 不好好開過心 也不可以被愛 我不過是像泥塵
#明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 假使相當勇敢 怎可挽回自身
若要衝 損傷怎可以不留痕 來又去 要找的際遇未接近
明明綠燈 轉眼變成紅燈 抬頭前望去 對面馬路如此吸引
逐秒等 心急總加倍的難行 如夜了 我衣衫太薄便歸家 靠路燈

~~the greatest song of da night..~~

Sammi Concert 07 @ Genting

鄭秀文“瘋狂”開唱，狀態“勇猛”得讓人驚嚇！相比過去的個唱，休戰多時的Sammi在唱勁歌上的“氣”度反而更勝從前，表現亦更為穩定。經過時間的洗禮，Sammi的天后架勢始終如一！

瘋狂篇

闊別歌迷3年，可想而知歌迷是如何地飢渴，所以，相比對上一次葉蒨文個唱的“冷”，這一場可說是熱到爆炸！歌迷反應不再話下，就連Sammi本身也有如“狂人”上身般，快歌部份唱到連頭髮都被甩得亂七八糟，踢腿、當眾抽褲頭等算是小事，外八字腳開開走下樓梯的“粗魯”畫面才是震撼！
在舞蹈上，Sammi展露的是“Man”和“猛”，不過，這么肆無忌憚地“High瘋”和“開放”的Sammi，反而讓人有種“脫胎換骨”的新鮮感。而自稱只將香港個唱精華部份帶過來，但卻沒化上誇張眉妝的她，除了表現狂野之外，也不失感性和鬼馬的一面。

感情篇

剖白心事強忍淚可以說，Sammi在演繹慢歌上的投入，反而更顯精彩和有Feel，尤其從《默契》到《紅綠燈》部份，Sammi每唱歌前，都和大家分享“心事”。而當中，Sammi就提到說，要獨立一人去面對種種負面新聞並不容易，但幸好有家人的支持，才讓她成功撐下去。她說父母在她人生中扮演最重要的角色，也因為有爸爸的笑容和支持，所以，才放膽做出無限期休假的決定。
不過，台上的她也表示，現在她的事業再次亮起綠燈，所以，一定要提起勇氣走過對面的馬路，在人生、事業和感情上都要重新出發！
雖然這番“設計對白”之前在香港個唱上已講過好幾次，但這晚Sammi說來，還是相當真情流露。
后來到了安哥時，Sammi更頻頻拭擦眼角欲掉下的淚水，也一度哽咽，但最終還是把淚忍了下來，將傷感情緒減至最低啦！

鬼馬篇

揶揄歌迷不留情從以前到現在，Sammi在個唱上不時會有一些比較鬼馬的對白，有時也敢敢揶揄歌迷。好像台前出現好幾個空位，她笑說對住這些‘吉凳’都不知怎辦，之后遠處有人大喊要坐，她即說：“你就想啦，買Cheap票想坐貴賓位？”
后來Sammi邀請一男歌迷上台，該男歌迷表現得相當“猴急”，要求擁抱不遂后，竟三番四次想趁機摟其香肩。而Sammi見此也對他不客氣，當男方表示不太會唱《終》曲，Sammi即叫歌迷“噓”；而當該男士說自己是“麻坡人”時，她也即說：“有這樣的人的咩？我是潮州人啊！”

其他鬼馬語錄：

甩髮踢腿抽褲頭
Sammi“豁出去”般的舞姿相當誇張，無不令人“另眼相看”。★完成歌舞段落后：你們可以坐下了，歌舞部份就是這樣多而已，沒有了啦，不然想我死咩？！
★開場不久：不好意思，因為要化妝做頭髮所以搞遲了。20分鐘罷了，等一下啦，反正幾年都等了嘛。
★返后台之時：Bye Bye，要安哥就麻煩你們做點東西啦！
★和張敬軒談起健身房相遇過程：

在Sammi面前，自稱是粉絲的張敬軒就像一個小弟弟，表露出一絲緊張。張：我們身材差不多。
鄭：紙板？那我A4你A5囉！……
鄭：我在Gym房看到一‘條’背影，心想都那么瘦了，還來跑什么步哇？
張：她很勁，做演唱會前還可以來跑步（鄭這時說她當時流汗流到像落湯雞），那時透視很Sexy。
鄭：我可是有穿內衣的呀，不要再講這些“咸濕”東西了啦！

曲目：
唯獨你是不可取替／放不低／愛情萬歲／X派對／男士今天 你很好／表演時間／一夜成名／默契／如果你有事／赤子／紅綠燈／問我／張敬軒：Hurt So Bad、笑忘事／串燒：星秀傳說／獨家試唱／非男非女／小心女人／發亮發熱／熒光粉紅／神奇女俠／煞科／Chotto等等／叮噹／我們的主題曲／安哥：親密關係／不拖不欠／回來我身邊／感情線上／終身美麗

all i can say is amazing and perfect!! i think i will fly over to HK for her coming concert..haha..she is the only performer who can impressed me so far..smiles~~

http://www.chinapress.com.my/content_new.asp?sec=entertainment&dt=2007-06-24
more pictures: http://maggielow.multiply.com/photos/album/144?mark_read=maggielow:photos:144

My Bestfren House

Tuesday June 19, 2007

Two hurt as crane falls on houses

KUALA LUMPUR: Two people were injured when a crane fell on two wooden houses in Jalan Tembaga off Jalan Pahang yesterday.

The victims, Chan Han Sin, 72, and her daughter Ho Foong Keng, 42, were having breakfast at 9am when the crane crashed down on their house.


Close call: The crane fell on two houses injuring two people in Jalan Tembaga off Jalan Pahang on Monday.

The 50m-long crane was lifting a 14-tonne concrete slab onto the concrete beam of the Duta-Ulu Klang Expressway project when it toppled over after the ground beneath it sank.

Both victims were immediately sent to the Tawakal Hospital by construction workers.

Those involved in the project declined to comment when approached.

The Department of Occupational Safety and Health and the Malaysian Highway Authority are investigating the matter.

When I heard this news is really shock me off..i was so worried..luckily it's happened day time and not night..else i think the next morning i gonna attend funeral as my bestfren told me that also..I'm glad that every of her family is fine. But everything is gone..haihs..

Latest~ 9 June 2007

Thank you Jobby

死性不改

For my Friend...ALice...

作曲：張佳添＠宇宙大爆炸
作詞：黃敬佩＠宇宙大爆炸
監製：周初晨＠ｕ'ｓ　ｍｕｓｉｃ

K_又見了"我的寵愛"!
誰願接受這種意外
你讚我天生可愛
不願看著我離開

同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵在傷我

人天生根本都不可以愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到倒我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼

誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛

S_我怕可一不可再 難道你被愛都有害
我確信天真不會錯 威力會移山填海

B_同伴也話我傻 喜歡受挫
寧願情敵再傷我

#人天生根本都不可以 愛死身邊的一個
怎奈你最夠刺激我 凡事也治到我
幾多黑心的教唆 我亦捱得過
來煽風來點火 就擊倒我麼

誰戀愛就多障礙 死性我不想改
如我沒有你的愛 我沒法活得來
情人的存在 是我從來都志在
難在我拱手讓愛

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Life time warranty @ Part 2

"TV no need to be Plasma woo...small small 1 ez to carry and can accompany u to everywhere, when u boring da time alwiz b there for u. Plasma TV put in living for dust only & attract theif rob ur hse...look good but doesnt suit us...when ta Plasma TV break down tat time only will understand" by E

End up..

"am still thinking plasma or 29inch woo....cannot decide leh....because cannot compare woo..I think go cinema watch movie lor.. can watch any movie you want when u r free....this is ta good solution before u make ta decision....hehehee.." by Jobby

And me..

am "死性不改"..i just want watever i wan and and hopefully it can be my "life time warranty"..am sorry to disappoint you guys..thx for all the advise which i really learned alot from Plasma, 29' tv, and cinema..haha..

Life time warranty

Our conversation today.
am confused to hav a life warranty in relationship.
Never thought that Jobby will describe it as belows..

"u wan an old tv with life warranty but..u see plama tv also look nice..u both also wan just becoz the old wan can keep and still can use mah..u duno wan to dump it where and if give it to ppl .. can't let go and if buy a new one..then ta old one duno how??end up...upstair 1 tv...downstair 1 tv....see which one expired first. But ofcourse,cannot be both also life time warranty woo.."

hahhaa..wat is this ar..like dis also works..she really a good tv seller..ahahah..

Vincent

Artist: Don McLean

Starry, starry night.
Paint your palette blue and grey,
Look out on a summer's day,
With eyes that know the darkness in my soul.
Shadows on the hills,
Sketch the trees and the daffodils,
Catch the breeze and the winter chills,
In colors on the snowy linen land.

Now I understand what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they did not know how.
Perhaps they'll listen now.

Starry, starry night.
Flaming flowers that brightly blaze,
Swirling clouds in violet haze,
Reflect in Vincent's eyes of china blue.
Colors changing hue, morning field of amber grain,
Weathered faces lined in pain,
Are soothed beneath the artist's loving hand.

Now I understand what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they did not know how.
Perhaps they'll listen now.

For they could not love you,
But still your love was true.
And when no hope was left in sight
On that starry, starry night,
You took your life, as lovers often do.
But I could have told you, Vincent,
This world was never meant for one
As beautiful as you.

Starry, starry night.
Portraits hung in empty halls,
Frameless head on nameless walls,
With eyes that watch the world and can't forget.
Like the strangers that you've met,
The ragged men in the ragged clothes,
The silver thorn of bloody rose,
Lie crushed and broken on the virgin snow.

Now I think I know what you tried to say to me,
How you suffered for your sanity,
How you tried to set them free.
They would not listen, they're not listening still.
Perhaps they never will...

My Love Will Get You Home

Artist: Christine Glass

If you wonder off too far, my love will get you home.
If you follow the wrong star, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If the bright lights blinds your eyes, my love will get you home.
If your troubles break your stride, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

If you ever feel ashame, my love will get you home.
If its only you to blame, my love will get you home.
If you ever find yourself, lost and all alone,
get back on your feet and think of me, my love will get you home.
Boy, my love will get you home.

so sick

Artist: Ne-yo
Song: So Sick
Album: In My Own Words

mmmm mmm yeah
do do do do do do do-do
ohh yeah

gotta change my answering machine
now that i'm alone
cuz right now it says that we
can't come to the phone
and i know it makes no sense
cuz you walked out the door
but it's the only way i hear your voice anymore
(it's ridiculous)
it's been months
and for some reason i just
(can't get over us)
and i'm stronger then this
(enough is enough)
no more walkin round
with my head down
i'm so over being blue
cryin over you

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

gotta fix that calender i have
that's marked july 15th
because since there's no more you
there's no more anniversary
i'm so fed up with my thoughts of you
and your memory
and how every song reminds me
of what used to be

that's the reason i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?

(leave me alone)
leave me alone
(stupid love songs)
dont make me think about her smile
or having my first child
i'm letting go
turning off the radio

cuz i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

said i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tears
so done with wishing she was still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
so why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)

and i'm so sick of love songs
so tired of tearsso done with wishin you were still here
said i'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
why can't i turn off the radio?
(why can't i turn off the radio?)
why can't i turn off the radio?

七種會讓自己心碎的錯

一生只愛一次是幸福的，不幸的是，那些被情感傷害了的人們，卻註定不止愛一次。所以，只要你還不想把太多的時間花在失戀的療傷上，那麼你就該審視一下，是不是在愛情這個危險的遊戲裏，曾經為愛對自己犯了“罪”。

第一宗自欺欺人的原諒
原諒就象你錢袋裏的金子，每一次的給予都應該合情合理，否則便成了一種毫無價值的浪費。
記住：背叛不是愛情的唯一殺手，所有的不歡而散不是只發生在某一天。

第二宗沒有原則的寵愛
你是不是非常喜歡他？以至於很多事情都由他說了算？休息日，你興致盎然，想拖他一起去逛街，買一些換季服裝。可是他偏偏不想，硬要坐在家裏看足球。於是乎，你為了討他歡喜，或者是一種潛意識的跟從，你也毅然放棄了自己的計劃，與他一起坐到電視機前。他過生日，你精心挑選了非常有型的一款西服送給他，可是他卻說那太難看，他只喜歡T恤和牛仔。被澆了一頭冷水的你暗暗責怪自己太粗心，居然不知道心愛的人的好惡。第二天悄悄地去商店買到他喜歡的衣飾……
捫心自問：你快樂嗎？也許你覺得能夠和心愛的人在一起，看見他快快樂樂，你也就覺得很開心。可是，這樣的情形，可能短時間不會有不好的感覺，而一旦長久在一起，你就會產生不滿。本來嘛，愛就應該是平等的、相互尊重的。過分地嬌縱對方，會讓他覺得你對他的好都是應該的，反而會不珍惜。相反地，他還會反復地比較，如果有一天你沒有像以前那樣寵他，他會覺得你對他不好，兩人的不合就埋下種子。
記住：不適度的寵愛會讓你們的愛情變了味。

第三宗一廂情願的熱情
你是否也曾有過這樣的信念：相信精誠所至，金石為開。悄悄地記著你們共度的每一個有意義的日子。在相識週年的紀念日裏，精心為他挑選一份禮物，或者苦思冥想一個意味深長的舉動。而他，卻木然地望著你，怎麼也想不起是個什麼樣子的節日。你也曾熱切地邀請他一同出席好友的聚會，想讓更多的朋友知道你們的關係，可他卻淡淡地告訴你，這時他更願意在家裏休息、睡覺……
也許，有一天他真的會為你的熱情付出而感動，但千萬不要相信這是愛情，即使你們會成為戀人、愛人，甚至夫妻。這樣的愛情是非常脆弱的，他相信的僅僅是你愛他，而不是他也同樣愛你。“正是因為她對我好，我才和她結婚。”他往往會這樣說，而當生活裏出現一個他所愛的人，他便會毫不猶豫地將你放在一個從屬的位置。
記住：愛的付出是相互的，它永遠不是一個人快樂一個人委屈。

第四宗變本加厲的嫉妒
嫉妒是所有戀愛男女的特權，是愛的產物。正是因為你在乎他，你才會關注到他身邊的每一個女孩子，悄悄地拿自己與她們比較。嫉妒便由此而生。在路上你看到年輕女孩同你男友熱情地打呼你，你會毫無理由地對那女孩產生反感，於是冷嘲熱諷，甚至拂袖而去。再如，你偶爾在相冊裏發現男友和別人的合影，即便是最普通的姿式，你也會斷然要求他將照片從影集中撤出，甚至撕毀，除非那女孩子的長相實在不可恭維……
雖然說，愛人的心是玻璃做的，情人的眼裏容不下一顆沙子，但過多的干涉，有可能激起對方的逆反心理，對你產生反感。深愛他的你正是親自將他趕出了你的世界，豈不悲哀？也許你倒不是猜疑他，就是想讓他做到只對你一個人好。可是，只要你還沒有喪失理智，你就該知道你永遠不可能是唯一。沒有你，他也會有最愛的女人。所以，放寬心腸，與其花時間來嫉妒，不如兩人好好相待。
記住：正常的嫉妒是可以接受的，甚至可以是你和他之間的調味品，而一旦過分就不好了。

第五宗盲目過分的信任
和嫉妒相比，過度信任也會導致兩人關係的淡化。比如週末，他告訴你，他要在公司加班，不能陪你去看那場你們很久就約好的電影。不用過多的解釋和理由，你完全相信他的話。再比如，他在和你約會的時候，居然在一個電話線上佔了一個多小時，輕聲細語，溫柔非常。問及對方，他對你說是外地的遠房表妹。於是，你也就不再追究…… 這樣的小事情可以有很多。我們說，愛情的基礎在於相互信任，但是信任不等於放任。你一味地不聞不問，導致的結果便是他在不知不覺中離你越來越遠。將來有一天，他突然離你而去，你卻仍然一頭霧水。男人就像你手中的風箏，放得太高太遠，你還不知道是哪一天他離開了你的手。信任是一種理性的行為，它是建立在事實的基礎上的。
記住：只有當你知道事情的前因後果，你才可以作出判斷：相信他，或者不信。

第六宗不合情理的期待
他說，下個月發了薪水，便給你買下那條你看中好久的紫水晶項鏈。於是你美美地想了好幾天。可是發薪的日子到了，他卻告訴你他剛為自己買好了新力的迷你小音響，現在荷包羞澀。自然，你的項鏈也就閉口不提了。他還說，下部美國大片一來，就和你一同前去欣賞，於是你就天天關注報紙上的電影放映消息。誰知，公映沒多久，當你向他提出約請，他卻輕描淡寫地告訴你他已經與單位裏的幾個哥們一起看過了，並不怎麼精彩。一句話，頓時讓你無精打彩……
他總是不斷地給你希望，為你製造一些可以想像的快樂，於是你就開始你的等待。只是你的等待總是沒有結果，因為他總是說得多，做得少。試想一下，這樣的一些小事，他都無法兌現，你又怎麼可以相信他會給你一個未來呢？也許他會找到一些藉口為自己解釋，但很可能將來他也會有冠冕堂皇的理由來放棄對你的承諾。
記住，這樣的人是不值得你期待的，還是像一首歌裏唱的那樣：“有些人你永遠不必等。

第七宗無可奈何的忍耐
在整個戀愛過程中，也許你並不總處在盲目的狂熱狀態。有時候，你也會非常清醒而理智地看清你們之間的問題。可是，每一次，你轉身又會對自己說上一些理由：“已經愛了這麼長的日子，放棄未免太可惜了。”“就算換一個男友又會怎麼樣呢，說不定也有這樣那樣的問題，比現在也好不了多少，白添那麼多麻煩……”
其實，以上種種只不過是你在為愛他而找的藉口，你真實想說的是：“我離不開他，即使我知道這些問題也只好算了，誰叫我愛他呢。”可是，你不覺得這樣的愛，太辛苦了嗎？更何況，你已經清醒地知道你在你們的愛情關系裏只是一種忍耐。當你這樣覺得的時候，你應該可以問自己，你真的像你以為的那麼愛他嗎？愛是一種感覺，而感覺是隨時都會有變化的。
記住：忍耐不再是一種美德，有時它與懦弱同義。

Destiny Child - Emotion

"It's over and done
But the heartache lives on inside
And who's the one you're clinging to
Instead of me tonight?"

This song really took my emotion away...sighs

How To Cheer Yourself Up When You're Down

Thursday, May 24, 2007
How To Cheer Yourself Up When You're Down

1) Dance! Put on your favourite music, turn it up loud and dance! This is guaranteed to make you feel good. If you are unable to dance, don't let that stop you having fun - sing at the top of your voice instead.

2) Smile! Force yourself to smile even if you don't feel like it. This tricks your brain into thinking that you are happy. You do want to be happy don't you? Okay then - a great big cheesy grin. After three, one, two, three, - smile :0)

3) Spend time with children. Their natural zest for life is infectious. As well as the pleasures of a spontaneous hug or a chubby little hand in yours, try to take away with you some of their joy in simple things, licking an ice cream, playing with water, tramping through fallen leaves or following a butterfly.

4) Reward yourself. If there is a job that you hate to do, household accounts, home repairs etc. don't keep putting it off so that it is constantly nagging at you. Just get it done. Then reward yourself with whatever you love, a shiny new magazine, a bunch of flowers, a long soak in an aromatic bath, two bars of chocolate or an evening in front of the tv doing absolutely nothing. Or even all of the above if you can afford it. The peace of mind that comes from having got the job done will be the greatest reward of all.

5) See your old friends. It's easy to get into a work, family, housework, shopping, sleep and back to work again routine that leaves you no time at all to be the person you once were. The funny, up for a laugh, outgoing young woman you used to be. Spending time with friends who knew the old you seems to resurrect that side of your character. You will come away feeling younger, more positive and more excited by life than you were before you met up. Go on, invite them over to share a pizza and catch up on each other's lives.

6) Take the happiness option. You have the choice whether to spend this day, which you will never live through again, in a state of happiness or unhappiness. Choose to spend it as happily as you possibly can.

try it..if u r down...It might help ya.....

posted by Jobby @ 3:15 PM 0 comments

Read this in Jobby's blog..the 1st option couldnt help me anymore. "Dance" --> no more dancing! 2ndly, "Smile"--> have to do it everyday every minutes! I have immuned to everything i guess.

Excalmatory Point

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration not just another negotiation

It's been 5 days after all.
It's just ended with Excalmatory Point after everthing and years within 6 mins.
No tears but really Hurtful.
just brought me back to the reality..it's so cruel.
It have to be FULL STOP this time.
"sacrifice one's own interests for the sake of others"
sound so "grandeur" but to me it's "lampoon".

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Love Quote of the Day

Loving is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.

when i can have dis "love" r..sighsz

All in One

Coincidently read dis post ..

Thursday, August 04, 2005
If Missing Someone
Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think tat he/she doesn't miss u?

Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.

U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.

Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.

Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.

Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.

Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her/him missing the final episode of your favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u when out together.

Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.

Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.

When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u> know that there is actually a feeling> known as emptiness.

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible.

U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u.

Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoid.

If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.

posted by dRemmer® | 8/04/2005 10:23:00 AM | 0 comments

All Out of Love - Air Supply

Im lying alone with my head on the phone
Thinking of you till it hurts
I know you hurt too but what else can we do
Tormented and torn apart

I wish I could carry your smile in my heart
For times when my life seems so low
It would make me believe what tomorrow could bring
When today doesnt really know, doesnt really know

(chorus)
Im all out of love, Im so lost without you
I know you were right, believing for so long
Im all out of love, what am I without you
I cant be too late to say I was so wrong

I want you to come back and carry me home
Away from these long, lonely nights
Im reaching for you, are you feeling it too?
Does the feeling seem oh, so right?

And what would you say if I called on you now
And said that I cant hold on?
Theres no easy way, it gets harder each day
Please love me or Ill be gone, Ill be gone

(chorus)
Ooh, what are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
What are you thinking of
(repeat chorus)

Making Love Out of Nothing at All - Air Supply

I know just how to whisper,
And I know just how to cry;
I know just where to find the answers;
And I know just how to lie.
I know just how to fake it,
And I know just how to scheme;
I know just when to face the truth,
And then I know just when to dream.
And I know just where to touch you,
And I know just what to prove;
I know when to pull you closer,
And I know when to let you loose.
And I know the night is fading,
And I know that times gonna fly;
And Im never gonna tell you everything
Ive got to tell you,
But I know Ive got to give it a try.
And I know the roads to riches,
And I know the ways to fame;
I know all the rules
And then I know how to break em
And I always know the name of the game.

But I dont know how to leave you,
And Ill never let you fall;
And I dont know how you do it,
Making love out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all,
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all.

Every time I see you all the rays of the sun
Are streaming through the waves in your hair;
And every star in the sky is taking aim
At your eyes like a spotlight,
The beating of my heart is a drum, and its lost
And its looking for a rhythm like you.
You can take the darkness from the pit of the night
And turn into a beacon burning endlessly bright.
Ive got to follow it, cause everything I know, well its nothing till I give it to you.

I can make the run or stumble,
I can make the final block;
And I can make every tackle, at the sound of the whistle,
I can make all the stadiums rock.
I can make tonight forever,
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn;
And I can make you every promise that has ever been made,
And I can make all your demons be gone.

But Im never gonna make it without you,
Do you really want to see me crawl?
And Im never gonna make it like you do,
Making love out of nothing at all.

(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)
Out of nothing at all
(making love)

Girls versus Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it - using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time ( I.e., don’t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man so.
Grown women ’show’ him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ’signs’.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don’t always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

***am so confused and complicated after reading dis article..kitto told me am "Grown women" since i show her dis as well. am wondering on one of da phase there..

"Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home."

What if the man neva come home???haha...

New toy for Baby

Baby Barry: Hey, what is this huh?
Crabbie: Am little Crabbie..Halooo..
Baby Barry: I don't care why you're on my bed.."bite u" "bite u"..

haihs....how come my baby so ganas r?my god..

Reflection

Seems like just yesterday
You were a part of me
I used to stand so tall
I used to be so strong
Your arms around me tight
Everything, it felt so right
Unbreakable, like nothin' could go wrong
Now I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hanging on

I told you everything
Opened up and let you in
You made me feel alright
For once in my life
Now all that's left of me
Is what I pretend to be
So together, but so broken up inside
'Cause I can't breathe
No, I can't sleep
I'm barely hangin' on

Swallow me then spit me out
For hating you, I blame myself
Seeing you it kills me now
No, I don't cry on the outside
Anymore...

Here I am, once again
I'm torn into pieces
Can't deny it, can't pretend
Just thought you were the one
Broken up, deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry
Behind these hazel eyes

*thisisforu!--GROW UP--*
the real me

Read this in my cousin's Jassy page. It' s just a reflection to me..~winks~

struggling of life

"The human being struggles with his environment"

i guess everyone had been through this.
Mon,upset..
Tues,drunken night..
Wed,insomnia..
Today,Thu..what am suppose to be?

Dear God,
Why i alwis felt the emptiness in my life?
loneliness,helpless,useless,and restless..
How i wish i can get through all these feeling..
"The human being struggles with his environment"
the phrase isit telling us ..we all have to go through this?
My wish..
wishing there's someone i can really talk to..
there's someone i think i can share everything with..
growth make me felt upset..
hate loneliness..
growth = stress + struggle

Saddie Baby

My "saddie baby". He looks so innocent when i 1st met him at the pet's shop. The moment the pet's shop owner brought it into my hand. i feel pity for it..but dis still didnt make me choice him..cos i thought of getting a female shih tsu actually..until i saw his D.O.B is exactly same as my car. 24 FEB. Dis really impressed me.Finally i choose him.

Named him as "baby" now..cos he is still baby mah..hahaha..everyone saw dis picture kept asking "how come da puppy seem so sad ar?" hmmm..i really got no idea on it. Anyhow.."baby" will be named "baby barry"..i guess or "saddie baby" haha..how's it ?

Reflection Of Joey’s Live in Genting 2007

Missed her 1st concert in Malaysia 2 years ago..
Never thought of I went for 2 sessions this time. She is a very good singer all i can said. Her dancer is perfect thou..
But the 1st session which in on Friday is bit bored..it's not crowded as i thought compared to Saturday's show. Fans on Saturday is much more happening..
really enjoy dis two show..

Soulmate

A soulmate is someone with whom you feel a deep connection, regardless of whether that connection is a platonic friendship or a physically intimate relationship.

I got dis from my fren jobby's blog that soulmate can be calculated and it looks at relationships in terms of cost and benefits.

The formula is Soulmate Ratio = Total Love Benefit / Total Love Cost

What this formula means is that your soulmate is the one person on earth who will provide maximum benefits for the cost, making them the one person who will make you truly happy. In other words, a person searching for a soulmate is looking for the person who provides the highest soulmate ratio. That ratio increases over the length of time you know each other because of communication and shared experiences. By this definition, soulmates are a result of mutual benefits, and recognizing them happens only after a long period of knowing each other.
I strongly agreed with jobby's friend tat soulmate should be someone that is a piece in your life puzzle.....the key into your heart.....But what if I really find my soulmate...will this stay forever??

monopoly??

after celebration in selina house..went back to ss2 play monopoly..but unfortunately they closing so early..
end up go home continues..haha..
we plays till 5am in da morning le..
really nice game to plays

~home sweet home~

finally shifted back to ss2..i love staying there..
i love my room decoration..all in gReen ..but joey said it's too gReen wor...
hahahaa..cos all my "buddies"(soft toys) is gReen in color.
hopefully my coming days will be shine..
but anyhow..for da past time really make me strong..
phew~
damn tired and happy after settle everything..
just like working non - stop 30 hours..haha

cuppacakes® by +wondermilk

mini cuppacakes
size: approx 1.5 inches in diameter



WEDDING ROSES
FLAVOUR: original vanilla only
DESIGN: gum paste roses (available in yellow, orange & red)




BE MINE
FLAVOUR: very delicious in choc chip flavour but equally great with vanilla, strawberry drops, mint choc chip or coffee circus. (1 flavour per box only please)
DESIGN: lovey dovey hearts and kisses

hmm...When can i have dis 2 cupcakes r?hehehe..anyhow..dunno how it taste..but i think have to giv a try since it's so cute..and lovely..

Check it out here : http://cuppacakes.blogspot.com/

nice bracelet!!

saw dis bracelet from jobby's blog..wondering where can get it..if anyone there know..please let me know ya..thx~~

pox pox~~

caught in chicken pox afta my kk trip..
almost 2 weeks without stepping out my doorstep.
full body of rashes really scared me and while my bestfren was there talking dat i wont recover from that it's really makes me cried..
just can't imagine there is no more bikini,sleeveless in my life.
no more beach activities..really make my life dull..
am glad to hav many frens who shown me their concern..
impressed when ppl bring me herbal tea and foods..
impressed when my bestfren kept her promise brought me my fav shorbet ice-cream..
thanks to all .. and now..am recovered!

KK trip

1st day in KK
There's nothing to do there, i was so surprise when read da travel guide which shown there's MNG at Palm Square.hahaha.ofcos dis is our 1st destination.cos i thought wana get a bikini b4 i go to island tomolo. funny to once i step into Centerpoint, Palm Square is located at the 4th floor of it. Centerpoint is actually like,hmm..our Wisma Pertama i guess.Then suddenly da Palm Square got GUESS, MNG, VINCCI, and bla bla..just another paradise of da mall. Our Radius Hotel is located opposite Centerpoint which is name Warisan Square, it's like Bugis Junction in Singapore.Not bad..i think is da best in town i guess. Well, after settle down in da hotel. we went Tj. Aru which is a beach side. Janet told me there's lot of hawker stall there..but it's under renovation. Well, we only manage to spent our tea Time along da beach's restaurant. We met 2 KK guys there..hahah..guess wat..they invited us back to their hse for dinner.They 're friendly anyway..Da mum cooked us Crabbie..
glad to known them. After our seafood dinner they brought us to a club right infront our hotel there..BED at Waterfront. hmm..not bad da club..they plays very good live band.
2nd Day in KK
Together with them to Pulau Gayanan. They told us is a very nice island.but when i reach there..it's just so so..hahaha..maybe rainy day ..1st time i swimmed under da rain..haihs..am so afraid that i got into sick. it's a boring day ..finally we back into town, i think is about 10pm. We then went seafood dinner ourself. after our dinner. we both decided to go for movie..guess wat again. we took taxi right infront da restaurant which is located at Waterfront there is just opposite of Centerpoint. and we 're heading to Centerpoint for movie.since it's raining for sure we need to take Cab..the driver is shock when we told him we heading Centerpoint.he look on to his right and told us is just opposite..then guess how much he charged us..RM6 la..just a U-Turn.haihs..We wacthed 9:56..hahah..damn scary la..da movie..maybe alot of malays ppl is watching together..
3rd Day in KK
We decided to go Monsopiad Cultural Village which located at Penampang, da taxi fare cost us RM50 and entrance fee cost us RM30/head. it's nothing special at da so call cultural park ..well, guess wat.after we back to town..da 2 kk guy came picked us for drink..they told us there's no entrance fee at all. I found da ..KK ppl is unkind..why they like to cheat tourist ar..haih..
After all, i think i will not goin there unless there 's special occasion or something very interested me..

《刺青》spiderlilies

《刺青電影書》全省狂銷熱賣，剛上市即熱賣到連出版社網路書店都缺貨，目前正在緊急再版中。在看過了《刺青電影書》裡精美的劇照和演員們所分享的電影拍攝花絮後，是不是更想深入了解電影的劇情呢?《刺青電影小說》即將在3/17(六)全省同步上市，從文學的角度刻畫各個角色的內心世界，並重新詮釋竹子與小綠間纏綿悱惻的愛情，喜歡《刺青》的影迷千萬不要錯過喔。

書籍簡介：

《刺青》的故事在描述一位女刺青師傅竹子（梁洛施飾演）與視訊情人小綠（楊丞琳飾演），如何從過往各自破碎的記憶與創傷中，歷經毀滅與重生，最後認定彼此為最終情感歸屬的動人故事。就如電影想要表達的，每個刺青背後都有一個不為人知的故事。記憶，對某些人來說，是禁錮一生的詛咒。

竹子，一名女刺青師，長得高帥英挺，工作冷靜細膩；她的店中有一幅真正的人皮刺青，是她死去的父親；長期來，她取代父親角色，照顧唯一的弟弟。而她總是穿著長袖，只有在與弟弟相處的時候才會把手臂上的刺青露出來，那是「彼岸花」……

小綠，一位女高中生，個性天真如赤子，到了夜晚卻變為色情網站的「視訊情人」。童年時，為了吸引少年竹子的注意，她戴上一頂螢光綠色的假髮；現在，她則利用視訊向刺青師竹子表達她的愛情，並請竹子在她的身上刺下愛的記憶，一個相當美麗的「茉莉花」，但卻只刺到一半……

本片並勇奪2007年柏林影展泰迪熊獎最佳影片，是有史以來第一部獲得此項殊榮的台灣電影。

Lycoris aurea: The golden flower is native to the northeastern coast of Taiwan. Local people call it the “spider lily”. Japanese legend has it that spider lilies line the path to hell, poisoning the memories of all who smell their scent, forming a bridge between the living and the dead.

Tattoo artist Takeko keeps a framed design of the spider lily flower on the wall of her parlor. The design was literally cut from the flesh of her father. The image of the spider lily tattoo is the last cohesive memory of Takeko's traumatized brother, Ching, who is no longer able to recognize anyone, including his sister. Takeko has the same tattoo of the poisonous flower on her body in the hope of helping Ching remember and bridging the gap between them.

Webcam girl Jade visits Takeko's tattoo parlor, looking for sexy decoration to excite her clientele. Entranced by the tattoo of the spider lily on the wall, Jade gives Takeko her business card and invites her to visit her on her website where she professes her love for the tattoo artist. Finally, Jade asks Takeko to give her the same spider lily tattoo to bring her closer to the object of her desire…

Format:35mm/ Color
Language: Mandarin / Taiwanese / Japanese
Running Time: 97 mins
Official Website:

《刺青》spiderlilies

diabetic

Diabetic really scare ppl ...
am sad to know my close fren is a diabetic..
he really scared me when i 1st see him after 4 month.
he lose about 26 kg in 3 month time
am so worried bout him now..
Dear God,
Please bless my fren,
i know diabetic will not cure in time of being
But please let him get better soon..
the only thing i can do for him is just
PRAY..

How Friends Break up?

How Friends Break up?

Both Friends will think the other is busy and will not contact thinking it may b disturbing. As time passes both will think let the other contact. After that each will think why I should contact first. Here ur love will be converted to Hate. Finally without contact the memory becomes weak. They forget each other. One fine Day they will meet n blame one another. So Keep in touch with all your Friends.......

I read dis from jobby's page. not only for friendship ..as in every relationship i guess.."FWD MSG" maybe good to hold a relationship..but sometime it is not enough.."remember" doesn't show "concern" actually. but i always tell myself..if you receives a "FWD MSG" from someone you really care means he still keep you in his heart..

Condolence

am shock when i received my colleague's sms telling dat his mom just passed away cos we was just talking on phone an hour ago...

Dear friend,
In this sad world of ours,
sorrow comes to all...
Perfect relief is not possible,
except with time.
You cannot now realize
that you will ever feel better...
And yet this is a mistake.
You are sure
to be happy again.

"Our love and support will always be here for you."

am dandelion??haha

蒲公英 --不受常理和规矩的束缚，想要自由飞翔的人，喜欢逃避现实

基本特征 -- 你是乘着风自由自在地飞向远方的蒲公英。在那种上下级关系紧张，不能包容你那超脱想法的环境中，会热衷于那些无足轻重的没有现实感的事。但蒲公英人缘好，容易让人亲近，无论落在什么样条件的土地上都会开花，有很强的适应能力。所以不要轻易为自己的能力下结论，应该挑战自己所喜欢的一切事情，那才是带着白色绒绒翅膀的蒲公英独有的生存方式。


恋爱中的蒲公英 -- 人气很旺的蒲公英有很多异性朋友，但却很难发展成为恋爱关系。那是因为你把自己与他人划分得太清楚的原因。你会直观地判断对方的心情，其实是因为你不愿去费心理解，或许是因为你不善于与人进行深层次的交流。你随时会改变的各种想法也会令对方无所适从。你的恋爱成功的秘诀是：一旦感觉到爱情，就要在没有厌倦前做出自己的结论。

幸福秘诀 -- 自由空间带来更多的恋爱机会。但蒲公英总是以相遇为乐，不能从中抓到什么，总是想以后或者换个地方，也许……结局恐怕总是成为折断了尾巴的蜻蜓或者没有根的草。因此无论做什么都要以指南针般的感觉为原则，喜欢随兴致做自己喜欢做的事情。而且无论做什么都干净利落的蒲公英，如果在此过程中再多用一些情感去体会，那么它的绒毛会更加灿烂闪光。

蒲公英的朋友-- 对太多事物都感兴趣，速度过快的蒲公英可以依靠的是杜鹃。她会将你混乱的心整理得有条理。可以跟得上你那超速的工作作风的是非洲菊。

Don't Write Me Off

It’s never been easy for me
To find words to go along, with a melody
But this time there’s actually something, on my mind
So please forgive these few brief awkward lines

Since I’ve met you, my whole life has changed
It’s not just my furniture, you’ve rearranged
I was living in the past, but somehow you’ve brought me back
And I haven’t felt like this since before Frankie said relax

And while I know, based on my track record
I might not seem like the safest bet
All I’m asking you, is don’t write me off, just yet

For years I’ve been telling myself, the same old story
That I’m happy to live off my so called, former glories
But you’ve given me a reason, to take another chance
Now I need you, despite the fact, that you’ve killed all my plants

And though I know, I’ve already blown more chances
Than anyone should ever get
All I’m asking you, is don’t write me off, just yet
Don’t write me off just yet

Way Back Into Love

I've be living with a shadow overhead
I've be sleeping with a cloud above my bad
I've be lonely for so long
Trapped in the past,
I just can't seen to move on

I've been hidding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need em again someday
I've be setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find away back into love
I can't make it trough without a way back into love

I've be watching but the stars refuse the shine
I've be searching but i just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for me soul somewhere

I've be looking for someone to shed some light
Not just somebody just to get me trought the night
I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make is trough without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'am hopping you'll be there for me in the end

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way
I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it trough without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I hopping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end

To all my dearest friend

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if theyaren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'

To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else butit's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you

To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

Unfaithful???

1. Not adhering to promises, obligations, or allegiances; disloyal.
2. Not true or constant to one's sexual partner.
3. Not true to one's spouse; guilty of adultery.
4. Not justly representing or reflecting the original; inaccurate.
5. Obsolete Deficient in or lacking religious faith; unbelieving.

what's the meaning of unfaithful actually? How to be faithful? This is wat i alwis wondering..everyone wanna to be faithful i guess..but how many people can actually do dat?

one of my girlfren had posted dis to her blog..

"Angels and demons voices tailing 360 degrees around her.. telling her what to do, what to believe, who to trust ..all that drives her completely nutty.
She knew there was something going wrong with the relationship and she almost convinced herself that she was right. All that she needed was a little more reassurance and “proofs” in that sense. Friends around were sending alert signs but none really telling her what has happened and what they saw in the whole situation. She wanted to trust him.. She should because no one was closer to him than she was. She should have known him better than anyone else. Sadly the reality turned out to be the total opposite.. She was disappointed.. once again.. and many more times after that."

my fren is really sad and disappointed, i understand how she felt now..but i've no guts to console her either..i used to be one of dis fren around her..in our situation..there is nothing much we can help actually..but i really wish dat she can get over it. I'm so sorry about dat..

"Sadly the reality turned out to be the total opposite..disappointed.. once again.. and many more times after"

I used had dis feeling all the time..but women is such a weaker..and da most stupid species in da world I guess. No matter how bad is da relationship..Women will only keeps convincing themselve it may not dat bad as they actually don't wanna accept da facts~ Always thought dat what they needed was a little more reassurance and “proofs” in that sense. But hallo...Women..I think we 're stupid enough..

Back to our topic today "Unfaithful" ..honestly.. I used to be unfaithful person. why am like dis? haha..it's been long long time ago ..I always believe in "Fair and Square". Why man can be like dis but not women? I ever thought I can be a faithful person ..but the reality always turned out to be the total opposite..again and again...is it hard to be a faithful person? am still wondering...~

the Holiday

Director: Nancy Meyers
Cast: Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet, Jude Law, Jack Black, Eli Wallach.

Iris is in love with a man who is about to marry another woman. Across the globe, Amanda realizes the man she lives with has been unfaithful. Two women who have never met and live 6000 miles apart, find themselves in the exact same place. They meet online at a home exchange website and impulsively switch homes for the holiday. Iris moves into Amanda's L.A. house in sunny California as Amanda arrives in the snow covered English countryside. Shortly after arriving at their destinations, both women find the last thing either wants or expects: a new romance. Amanda is charmed by Iris' handsome brother Graham and Iris, with inspiration provided by legendary screenwriter Arthur, mends her heart when she meets film composer Miles.

Keep in mind Before Marry

嫁人之前要背熟的 10句話!

01. 不怕嫁老,就怕嫁小。如果你的男友只有二十幾歲或十幾歲,你可以失身,但不能嫁。男人三十三歲左右是個不錯的年紀。
02. 嫁有錢的還是沒錢的？嫁願意為你花錢的!
03. 離婚的男人嫁不嫁？離一次婚的男人是塊寶,離兩次婚的男人是根草。
04. 嫁事業型的還是家庭型的？籠統而言,家庭型的。
05. 嫁什麼性格的人？嫁人嫁的是性格,其他的一切都會離你遠去,相似的性格好過互補的性格。06. 嫁人要不要占星問卜？要!最好找人問一下手相、面相和八字。如果你做不到,那至少應該深入瞭解他的血型和星座。有人管這叫「迷信」, 但「迷信」這東西很神奇。
07. 什麼樣的男人是大忌？什麼樣的男人是大善？自私的男人是大忌,有責任感的男人是大善。
08. 北方的男人好還是南方的男人好？北方的嫁北方的,南方的嫁南方南方的。
09. 花心的男人嫁不嫁？男人是多偶制動物,沒有不「花心」的男人,但有「有自制力」的男人。10. 門要當,戶要對。其實這一句話把所有的都概括了。老祖宗的話簡練精闢。呵呵,年輕時不懂事,覺著這是瞎扯。現在想來這老祖宗的經驗不能不聽啊,說的真是在理兒。老祖宗還是厲害啊。咱是越大越看的清楚嘍!好事兒啊,呵呵,環境造就人嘛!門不當,戶不對,自然也就不是一路人。

還有一條很重要很重要:嫁個有學問的還是沒有什麼學問的？嫁要嫁個和自己差不多 的,不能嫁一個你大學,他小學的,要這樣的話,我保證以後都沒有什麼共同語言。以前我還不信這個,現在我是倍兒相信。

不是看不起那些學歷低的人,但是有的時候他們的思維方式就是和你不一樣,很多話理解也和你相差甚遠。你解釋也沒有用,他還是用他的思維方式和你說話,永遠上不了該上的台階。

再加一條:老實的男人嫁不嫁？老實的男人固然有,但 要嫁那種思路敏捷的老實人。

Love quote of the day

The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.

it's been few days since da day ... i think am just hav to take it..

Another challenge with my dearest friend

One forgives to the degree that one loves.

After a talks with tears..
I hope it really help to us..
Indulgence made us apart?
I never ever thought of this..
upset to see you in sad,
hurt when we facing each other speechless,
Consolable that you too felt the pretending and acting..and the pain,
am sorry if I ever hurt your feeling,
am sorry if I really push you to the edge,
am sorry that I couldn't help in your situation,
am sorry to tell you that your selfishness brought you a side
am sorry that I have to tell you the truth thou I know you it might hurt your feeling,
am sorry, because I don't want you to be abandon by everyone..
But do keep in mind,
am still side you and defer to the decision that you made.
but still have to remind you before everything is too late
Not to offend if my wording is sharp..
I had lost many thing recently
and I can't afford to lose you..
Please take care your self,
Although you didn't promise me anything after all
But your hugs safe my soul..

Tamia - Officially Missing You

Hmm... Ooh...ooh...

All I hear is raindrops falling on the rooftop
Oh baby, tell me why’d you have to go
'Cause this pain I feel it won’t go away
And today I’m officially missin’ you

I thought that from this heartache, I could escape
But I’ve fronted long enough to know
There ain’t no way
And today I’m officially missing you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

All I do is lay around, 2 years full of tears
From looking at your face on the wall
Just a week ago you were my baby
Now I don’t even know you at all, I don’t know you at all

Well, I wish that you would call me right now
So that I could get through to you somehow
But I guess it’s safe to say, baby, safe to say
that I-I’m officially missin’ you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially

Well, I thought I could just get over you, baby
But I see there’s something I just can’t do
From the way you would hold me
To the sweet things you told me
I just can’t find a way to let go of you

Ooh...can’t nobody do it like you
Said every little thing you do, hey, baby
Said it stays on my mind
And I-I’m officially...

It’s official
Hoo, you know that I’m missin’ you, yeah, yes
All I hear is raindrops, oh, yeah
And I-I’m officially missin’ you

to my dear..

Dear, am up set when I received your sms just now, I have been trying thousand time hope to talk to you but you turn off the phone. Yes, you’re damn selfish. You just drop a sms when you felt like you wanted to tell me something. But you never give me a single chance to reply or anything. Frankly, even now, I still take you as my very close friend and I wish our relationship will not chance just because of this. I understand your situation, not to offend though I disagree with the decision you had made. But at least I hope we could share everything together. Just like how we use to be last time. Try to remember those days we had been through together. As your sms you mention that you had no guts to face me, please dear. You’re too much. I took you not only my normal friend. You’re some kind like my sibling now. You told me that you’re really sad on that Saturday night. You felt the strange between us. I do felt that. I’m so sorry that I didn’t say Hi to him. You know am playing mahjong what. Am not avoiding or ignoring him either. To me no matter he is there or not is not important to me. Both us become strange because he is there with you and I thought you should accompany him since he doesn’t know anyone there. That’s why I thought not to interrupt. But if this make you think that because of him and make both us become strange then I can tell you, you had got me wrong. Our relationship always comes 1st to me no matter how and what happen. I really appreciate you a lot dear. The day in msn I told you that I felt that we’re getting apart. It’s true since you send me the sms just now. But I hope you can really give us a chance to hold back our relationship and not just to inform each other thru sms.

We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.

25th Birthday - GRowing Up..

As the matter of fact, there was some mixed complicated feeling.There are everlasting memories ->-> the feeling when being alone with fear recalling the couple of years with my “buddy”, no matter what and how they're alwis there for me.
unforgettable and indeed all that am thirstily depriving of nowadays. But now, thing is not alwis to be share frankly. There is something that need to be overtaking by ownself. I guess this is one of the growing-up thing. It was simply occupied and feeling complete when we were young. Life was just about what we like to do momentarily and feeling great about it; of cause plus some naïve anticipation about the beautiful future being an adult. Well, when we finally earned the title as an “ADULT”.. Does that sound as exciting as it was supposed to be? Can we do just what we like to do? Life is more about what we have to do.. We are doing what is necessary and pleasures have become a bonus. Too much stress about life.. too much consideration for the reality.. we are doing what we need to do pursuing the ultimate goal in our lives.. Hypothetically a better life and presumably a happier one….. but what is a happier life? "Tired" is what i can said after all. Recalling my "buddy" make me strong and the third dimension of living. TOday is my 25th birthday and the mixed complicated feeling wake me up to the reality. Thank you to all my "buddy" especially emily whose purposely came back from Penang for me and others whose really keep me as their "buddy". Thank you for your accompanied in my hard time and GLaD to have you guyz.

Happy 2007

2006 is gone but it has also made us strong.
The path was long but we walk it with a song.
There were fears and tears.
And now 2007 has arrived,
It will be a good year and bright year for us,
Therefore we cheers..